Sugarcoat

I’d say I agree, I only wrote about the first part, finding someone in first place which is only the first step ofc

You mean that is only the first step, finding someone, then the game begins between the two ?

I think there’s different components to this What you attract: I believe we attract people on somewhat our own “level” . So for example I like to use the example of a woman with low self esteem to illustrate this. We all have heard of some woman that keeps attracting “bad” men over and over. This is no coincidence. She attracts them in many cases because she herself has low self esteem etc, so they compliment her. So if you want to attract high quality partners you have to be high quality. And that you become by working on yourself, becoming secure in yourself, healing yourself etc what you are attracted to: it’s like a double edge sword. If you are like the woman in the example, not only will you ~attract~ “bad” men, but you will also ~be attracted to~ them. I belive we are attracted to people on somewhat or own level, or women might be attracted to men “above” them too. So if you become secure in yourself. If you evolve yourself and heal yourself, who you are attracted to will evolve too. The more high quality you become the more high quality who you’re attracted to become. You will not as easily recognize a high quality partner if you aren’t one yourself finding people: Ofc if you are home alone all the time no matter how high quality you are it’s gonna be harder to find someone so one has to go on a little search in most cases. I myself have tried dating app in the past but didn’t like it because it’s very looks based and it’s hard to know someone’s personality through swiping. And I didn’t find anyone I considered high quality the short time I was there. But it could work in some cases. You could find someone through social circle. In the club and bar at night (here I don’t find what I consider high quality either but in some cases it could work but I think it’s rare) you could also find people on this forum, or other Internet forums for people close to you with your interests. Or in irl activities etc. this is just my little take on this, but hey why would you listen to me when I have no irl experience hehe 😁😁just my own theories and observations

@Keryo Koffa 😈

Ok I might try

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Where did you get that from

Thanks for “defending” me 😂😂😇

I’m not bored per say. But I do admit I wasn’t super serious about it. I’m not afraid of paranormal stuff that I can say too. No you’re not a dick you have a point

Ofc that in particular wouldn’t be nice

I read “paranormal “ in the description that’s why I thought it could be included here. It was very random yea and I wasn’t super serious with it I admit I’m not feeling boredom

Cool I’ll try to induce it. I do it by sleeping on my back , doesn’t always work

lol I’d have to get a hold of one first

It’s not important for me so it’s fine if it doesn’t work

I know there’s risk to everything so you have a point

I will try to induce sleep paralysis tonight

Ofc

Lol

I hope you succeed 👍🏻

You mean regarding my experience of someone sitting on my bed ready to punch me? It was interesting. I was dreaming a nightmare of a blonde lady who was messing with some human heads or something. Then at the end of the dream she approached me and stroked me on the cheek gently. Then I woke up - into sleep paralysis, and there she was, sitting on my bed with the arm up in the air looking ready to punch me. Then I woke up for real and it was over, and my toy I was sleeping with was positioned in a way as if I had hallucinated that the toy was her head

I’ve had pleasant and interesting experiences in sleep paralysis. For example astral projection. This is maybe a bit tmi but I have also managed a few times to give myself hands free orgasms by utilizing the sense of vibrations in my body I get during sleep paralysis. That’s just to show you that sleep paralysis could potentially be a positive and interesting experience if you manage to calm yourself down. I belive if you’re scared you’ll experience and see scary things, so the hallucinations (if they are that) will reflect your internal state

😂 ”if you’re system” English please damn. I won’t stop bullying you when u write like that

So in English. I don’t have enough trust in it happening for it to happen?

Any bad experiences ?

Thx