Sugarcoat

You killed them

That’s true. That’s one of the reasons I keep a profile of myself and info about me in my bio, in case someone wants to connect with me they get to know a little about me, never know what it could lead to

I think you’re overblowing how much the lust has negatively affected other aspects of life. sometimes, paradoxically, judging something so hard, feeling shame around it could make it even more difficult to resist than if you developed a more balanced attitude

Thanks

I remember the thread it was “spirituality fell away “ or something

Yea right hope y’all having a good time

Lol

Sometimes it be like that

Feel free to start that thread whenever . I’ll be checking it out

It’s pretty weak but for other reasons hehe

lol. I have an ego but I’m still never offended

Yea

Exactly

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Paradoxically it seems that allowing negative sensations and emotions to be when they get triggered, not resisting them, is what helps in getting less of them, overcoming them. So actively going into situations that trigger those emotions in you allow them to be overcome

I am? Didn’t think about it

lol 😂

25: attention seeking profile pic someone I texted with told me something that reminded me of something I’ve had on my mind some times: Is it attention seeking to have a profile picture of yourself as a woman in this male dominated forum? I’d say could be, even if it’s subconscious. in my case, I kinda like for my profile to represent me in some way. Because people will assume I’m a middle aged man probably if I didn’t have the profile. It’s not important but it gives people the opportunity to connect with the real you kind of. Its accurate representation

24: something slightly funny once I was out at a bar, and this black guy told me “have you ever been to Africa” “think about what I’m asking you” lol if you understand you understand 😂

Ok

I don’t know what you mean

This is kind of like life with poor mental health

I meant if you think the purpose of learning game etc for you is to find a partner then that’s the same goal as you working to find a soulmate so it’s just about what route you take. But if you’re doing it for yourself then it’s another thing

Hard to say if your standards are too high if we don’t know what they are or how you are

it seems youre stepping into an approach that is more, lets say, advanced. So it can be scary because you might fear not getting the results you want as you got them in pickup. But that's okay because this is new territory for you it's normal to be a little doubtful and perhaps scared. Youre being true to yourself which is good, and this new approach feels more authentic and aligned to you, so its a step in the right direction and youre doing good.