Sugarcoat

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  1. I have experienced in my own experience that dissolving layers to the self gets rid of mental suffering. But physical suffering is another puzzle to solve. We have so many people nowadays with painful diseases how do we solve the problem of pain. Seems there’s no escaping it. Some say it’s the resistance to pain that causes the suffering but I’m having a hard time identifying that resistance, it’s a tough pill to swallow.
  2. Yea that’s the thing. If we end suffering in this life maybe next life we’re back again with a new self , suffering . Damn man no way out of this game. Might as we’ll focus on this life it’s hard enough
  3. What do u mean by wanting a hero?
  4. People will talk crap about the rat race and normie life and be on their little actualization path only when they get to a ripe age to settle down with a partner for the normie life LOL SIKE🥸💀😂
  5. I have came to a point where I genuinely feel my only fear is physical pain. Genuinely I have dissolved my other attachments. I used to have social anxiety , not anymore. I used to be afraid of the idea of being stuck in eternity, not anymore. I actually don’t have a strong sense of time. When you are calm inside, why would it matter if it lasts forever? It’s only when you suffer you don’t want it to last. I used to be claustrophobic, but I don’t feel like that anymore. I mean, I don’t find myself in small spaces so I can’t know how I’d react, but the idea of silence in a small space doesn’t scare me. It seems almost impossible to overcome the fear of physical pain. I heard a story of a man who overcame it but it seems extremely hard to attain
  6. But sometimes we don’t accept
  7. I agree with this on a very fundamental level. Like I’m not scared of people, I’m scared of reality, infinity, all the horror it can possibly create and does create. Human is a particular form that manifests in particular ways But then on another level, I don’t see this as excuse to be passive. At the base a human is just reality in motion, and it’s gonna be how it is, but what’s included in this manifestation of reality is the possibility for the human to change. And I think that’s what we should focus on. Us humans have one problem and that is suffering. It’s a commonality for all of us in society. Our focus should be how can we reduce suffering for all. Even if that means changing our very relationship to suffering and even embracing it, if that counterintuitively relieves us from it.
  8. How to embrace suffering ?
  9. Suicide is to be met with compassion. Because people who commit suicide are probably at their absolute brink of suffering . It’s unbearable so it’s understandable they end it. But I see your point. It’s just hard to surrender when you suffer you just want it to go away
  10. I’m always impressed by people who manage to go through such profound suffering without killing themselves. I see you’ve been suicidal but how have you gone so long without actually killing yourself? I feel in my case I don’t need much suffering before I start to feel suicidal. I don’t understand how it works for other people. It’s so hard to appreciate suffering we all wanna avoid it. I’ve been exploring the idea of releasing resistance and working on mindset but it’s so hard
  11. Who knows… I can understand that
  12. You worded it poetically😂but yea that thought never even crossed my mind. Im still confused about the whole preety India thing. I have personally chatted with candle on several media who still claimed to be a young male. I don’t know what to believe But maybe Leo doesn’t like when we bring it up … Im waiting for someone to accuse me of being preety. LOL 😂
  13. @Sucuk Ekmek Are you named after that one particular sausage or what is your name about? 😂😂😂 Got me thinking of sausage every time I see your name
  14. Use your sacred intuition ”heart chakra” to figure this mess out …..
  15. Lol Princess Arabia clearly seems like an individual person to me
  16. Average I guess I think I used the word trump correctly but maybe I didn’t. There was no pun intended I don’t know of any French meaning to it It means what it says. That being horny can make you energized (especially for the action of relieving it) It has been like this for a while I saw what you wrote before the edit lol Maybe he is saving himself
  17. Insomnia is no excuse you just don’t have raging libido , if you had it would trump the insomnia. When you’re really horny it lowkey gives you energy I remember before I became asexual (lol it’s lowkey my new identity)
  18. Why we asking Leo about the most basic human things. It’s not like you have to be an ultra actualized person to form a family. If that was the case 99% of people would be single and childless. LOL
  19. I think caring about the enviroment comes naturally the more high conscious you become. Also in the process of becoming more conscious you detach from many ways of seeking happiness through impermanent objects so it’s natural you’re no longer attached to objects you buy as you no longer rely on such things for happiness. As the world evolves I think more and more people are becoming environmentally conscious even if it’s slow progress. It can even become trendy, which it is in some ways already, for example shopping second hand is a trend amongst young women in the west mainly because of the aesthetics of the clothing but there’s also an environmentally conscious aspect to it. Hopefully such trends spread over the globe. I think in some poorer places there might be an insecurity around money that causes this need to flaunt and look like you have money. So in those cases it might be harder to spread an environmentally conscious message as the eco friendly lifestyle can be associated with poor wealth in their minds which they don’t wanna associate themselves with. When people have comfortable amounts of money it might make them need to flaunt it less and are more open to eco friendly ways I kinda think you aren’t truly a spiritual person if you don’t care about the planet in some way. If you recognize we’re all one then a natural grace towards others includes one towards animals and the planet
  20. Thanks for clarifying in the title that crying means tears coming from your eyes I clearly didn’t know that 😎👍🏻💀