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Yea basically you wrote about what the cause is for that indirectness, uncertainty, which is that pedestalization of the woman, putting her above themselves, feeling unsure of themselves around her, because they are not secure in themselves , so needing advice on forum

Okay but how high is that threshold? Maybe it’s higher than the daily recommended intake for fiber so unless someone is eating more than that they won’t have problems. Also I’ve heard it can take a while for the body to get used to high fiber intake , so problems such as gas might be more temporary Okay 😹 Honestly once again I don’t know enough to have much to say. I don’t know how much of vegans have issues or not. What I’ve heard though is that fiber is something that it’s good to eat as much as one can stomach, tolerate, it’s that good for us. I will experiment for myself after new years when I go back to normal eating I will try to eat more vegan and more fiber so I’ll see how that goes I’m kinda excited for that.

A lot of the time when someone writes about an encounter they have in the forum it makes me think that the communication they have with that person isn’t clear/straightforward enough, causing the confusion and need for input here

Freelee the banana girl looks good imo she’s 44

If you’re sensitive to them then yea it might be a good idea to avoid them. Maybe it takes some time to get used to them idk, or you have a root issue that isn’t being addressed causing the sensitivity, who knows. I need some kind of dressing or olive oil on leaves to enjoy them so you’re right about that, or if they’re mixed into other food like a stew or something. Some say fruit are the best source of carbs because they’re easy to break down in the body. Don’t know if it’s true though.

Yea exactly and the dose is important too so some compounds might be bad in large doses but nobody is eating enough to get that dose. And the way we prepare the foods changes the chemistry. Yea exactly some people are sensitive to some foods but that doesn’t mean the foods are bad. There are people that react to a lot of vegetables for example Some extreme people in the carnivore and animal based communities avoid vegetables all together pretty much except maybe avocado.

Aww thanks. I appreciate the response

There’s a whole trend going around of carnivore and “animal based diet” that says greens are unhealthily because they contain plant defensive chemicals and oxalates etc …😹

That’s a pretty bold claim. I don’t know what you mean by “too much” because it’s not like someone even a vegan is eating only beans and potatoes they usually have a variety of food and some can eat like that without problems. That’s good you found something that worked for you. I’d say I agree here

I didn’t say cholesterol in food was a problem, but that too much saturated fat is. That too much saturated fat (which exists in animal products mainly) raises the bad cholesterol in the body and increases risk of heart disease. It doesn’t mean saturated fat is bad altogether but that it’s bad in excess amounts. So I’m not advocating for a fully plant based diet, but a plant dominant one. Which most science advocates too. ”Show me the proof” I’m no expert in this so I don’t have specific studies I’ve read but I’m basing my claims on the guidelines and some people I follow and find credible. I’m always trying to be open though and learn more How are complex carbs causing heart disease? Excess sugar I can see how that’s unhealthy but complex carbs?

I don’t know enough to say whether I agree or not regarding the starches being a problem. My first instinct was to say to whether you have some sensitivities and problems with your gut if you react so badly to them. Like ibs or something. So maybe the problem isn’t the starches but rather that you have a sensitive gut. I don’t know. The diet you mentioned btw doesn’t sound too bad, depends on in what ratios you eat the foods.

When you ate plant predominant?

From what I’ve heard the science says excess saturated fat makes cholesterol higher and that increases risk for heart disease. So that saturated fat could come from meat yea, regardless of its quality . It’s about the quantity you eat

I like what Simon Hill, nutritionist, said, something along the lines of “if we can’t trust science to tell us what the optimal diet is then why would we trust a person on social media to do it” it really speaks to this thing of who we should listen to. From what I’ve heard from him and major dietary guidelines, the science says a plant predominant diet is proven to be optimal and lessen disease risk especially heart disease

I’m doing fine now I just wrote it randomly

Hate can sometimes be coupled with a lack of understanding of someone. If you truly understood them and could step into their shoes you maybe wouldnt hate them.

If you look like you’re having fun, as if you’re making fun of yourself, idk how to explain it really but like you show you’re aware of your weird dancing and are having fun with it, you are careless about it, maybe it takes some of the seeming cringe out of it and makes it just seem fun.

51: If you have good physical and mental health you should be so thankful. Because as soon as one of them is taken from you its gonna be the only thing you’ll be wishing back all the time.

It’s the solid sense of self that creates the solid sense of reality. Both in dreams and waking life. It’s the basis for everything.

How can you call yourself an alpha male when you won’t have straight forward communication?

There’s different ways to go about the same thing. And this being about relationships, pickup, sex etc. You can do it in way where you sacrifice your authenticity, where it’s about getting the woman so you change yourself based on what you think she will like, you might emulate people who have what you consider “success”, or you could do it in a completely authentic way, not sacrificing anything. This doesn’t guarantee the same results, but since results aren’t the focus it’s not a concern for you. Whichever you do will decide how you feel about it, if it feels wasteful or not. You end your post by saying if you ever get in a relationship it will be “organically” and you contrast it against what you previously call inauthenticity . This is what I mean. There’s different ways of going about the same thing

@PurpleTree thanks

It’s not for everyone

Getting free of that need (in case it feels constrictive and you want to) means getting free of that need means getting free of that need nothing else. I could go on Ofc nothing wrong with wanting to date I was just suggesting alternative routes to that desire in case if it comes from a place of lack and feels constrictive. Doesn’t ~necessarily ~mean one is trying to feel fulfilled but in the most cases it does .

It’s two different things altogether that I suggested