Sugarcoat

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  1. At least you seem kinda happy in your paradigm lock😹😹 I can’t speak for all women ofc as I don’t know all women but for me and women close to me personality can definitely bring the looks up quite a bit. A woman who would primarily be attracted to guys because of their looks sounds very shallow to me and wouldn’t be someone I’d wanna be with if I was a man anyways. Or because of something like money, that’s even more shallow. What you call “masculinity” matters too. It is connected to personality, and a little bit looks too.
  2. You’ve locked yourself into your own paradigm and aren’t even open to hearing counter points and just accusing them of lying. All I’m saying is that a man can be attractive to a woman even if his looks are what is to be considered less attractive than hers because he has an awesome personality
  3. 😹😹😹 What makes you believe that?
  4. No. In my past I’ve crushed on guys that could be considered below average in looks because the vibes were so good and I am not the only woman
  5. If you read the replies he said he asked her for sex
  6. I use olive oil mostly yea
  7. I dont know how this works but isnt there a lot of sperm donors in comparison to how many sperms actually impregnate a woman. So if you donate sperm is there a very low chance they actually create a life or am I wrong?
  8. Ok. What do you mean by “Main reason for pain is when you don't take action, and feel stuck in your reality. ” Isn’t main reason for pain some kind of sickness? What am I not understanding here?
  9. In Sweden you can buy “cold pressed rape seed oil”
  10. It requires a lot of work to get the best in life and most aren’t willing to put in that work
  11. Ok I see. I have wondered to myself how male attraction works since some men can just look at a woman and get attracted. I can’t do that for a man.
  12. Ok I see so it’s feminine because they are being emotional according to you right?
  13. I rarely eat fruit maybe I should eat more lol but yea I agree I crave for more than fruits.
  14. Yea I’m a little curious about that. She says humans are frugivores. She eats “raw til 4” diet so fruits to start the day then a cooked vegan dinner. I think she invented it
  15. It’s a bit hard to understand what you mean by the emotion defines the individual. Maybe that’s a deeper mechanism that needs to be understood. Like if I would try to give an example, the man sees a woman act a certain way, interprets it as her showing interest, then feels good from it, then defines himself from that emotion? As in his self image temporarily is good from that good emotion, and vice versa with bad emotion You’re doing a good job imo .
  16. No matter what non duality says I bet you feel like you exist, don’t you. So at the end of the day it’s gonna stay like that, unless you dissolve the ego which seems extremely difficult to do. So when it comes to this matter of wanting to feel loved, it’s something that is worked on at the human level at the ego level. It’s about your human psychology. This desire to feel loved is ingrained deep it’s even on a genetic level so it’s very hard to undo. It’s not necessary to undo it entirely unless it’s something that bothers you. If it does bother you this desire to be loved and you wanna become more independent then you could work on that. I’ve always been independent like that so I can’t give you tips on how to do it but I bet there is a way.
  17. Yea basically you wrote about what the cause is for that indirectness, uncertainty, which is that pedestalization of the woman, putting her above themselves, feeling unsure of themselves around her, because they are not secure in themselves , so needing advice on forum
  18. Okay but how high is that threshold? Maybe it’s higher than the daily recommended intake for fiber so unless someone is eating more than that they won’t have problems. Also I’ve heard it can take a while for the body to get used to high fiber intake , so problems such as gas might be more temporary Okay 😹 Honestly once again I don’t know enough to have much to say. I don’t know how much of vegans have issues or not. What I’ve heard though is that fiber is something that it’s good to eat as much as one can stomach, tolerate, it’s that good for us. I will experiment for myself after new years when I go back to normal eating I will try to eat more vegan and more fiber so I’ll see how that goes I’m kinda excited for that.
  19. A lot of the time when someone writes about an encounter they have in the forum it makes me think that the communication they have with that person isn’t clear/straightforward enough, causing the confusion and need for input here
  20. Freelee the banana girl looks good imo she’s 44
  21. If you’re sensitive to them then yea it might be a good idea to avoid them. Maybe it takes some time to get used to them idk, or you have a root issue that isn’t being addressed causing the sensitivity, who knows. I need some kind of dressing or olive oil on leaves to enjoy them so you’re right about that, or if they’re mixed into other food like a stew or something. Some say fruit are the best source of carbs because they’re easy to break down in the body. Don’t know if it’s true though.