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Yes good points👏🏻

Don’t know why u say that

Sounds like the Madonna /whore complex or whatever it’s called.

If you do self development for your own sake too and not only to get women it probably won’t feel as miserable because you want to develop yourself irregardless of what women want. Then again self improvement isn’t always needed people can meet spontaneously through friend groups for example. But that mindset means leaving it up for fate to decide, and it doesn’t always happen in your way.

Dw you’re not a hopeless case. I bet you could fulfill some of your sexual fantasies irl. Just needs a little work or you might meet someone spontaneously who knows.

Okay I understand. Then go for the dreaming in those cases if you feel you can gain satisfaction from it, why not. Have fun If you’re only attracted to people like those mentioned above then no but in other cases it could be possible. Do you have crazy standards or something?

We will see what op says the reason is…

Haha you’re creative with your jokes

Why u say that?

Ofc (another one)

Yum

Maybe it could be good. I liked the alcohol in the pina colada Yum

Ofc for landscape. I hated the Jamaican coffe I ordered at the bar so I’m imagining coffe with rum etc tastes like that You might be right because I don’t remember if I swallowed the smoke or not. I do know I feel effect of vape though when I swallow. I’m craving it now lowkey it would be nice It can be hard to stop those habits I don’t judge.

I was thinking the same as what you wrote in the first paragraph. I don’t know if I agree with the second part though, having people around you that would try to find solutions to your problems sounds like it would be a good thing and potentially helpful. But it might lack that pure emotional support one can crave so maybe I can see your point.

I wanna go there hehe Yea that’s what I’ve experienced I’m with you except for the rum part I didn’t feel anything when I tried it. I do like vapes though You exposed me. I’m trying to stop the habit. I guess it’s better than biting nails though

I don’t feel anything in particular when I drink coffee for some reason. It would be cool to try psilocybin It’s hard for me to tell what my antidepressants are doing because I also take olanzipine so I can’t tell which one does what. But in general I feel calmer, less anxious, and a “damping down” of my internal life. I drink coffee occasionally too. Do you like cigarettes? I don’t do any of that.

Does it have similar effect as coffee lol what?

Does it have negative consequences for health? (I only mean the coffe not the cigarettes because we know cigarettes are bad)

More scientists should be interested in studying enlightenment, because it’s a solution to all problems since it eliminates the very self that has a problem. Imagine if top scientists got together and studied it rigorously from different angles, imagine what potential such research has.

I see your point. But still suicide could be something someone does because they haven’t tried all the other possible solutions

Some people just don’t get addicted to it no matter how much they drink it. Me for example, and maybe you’re one of them. So you can just try it out and see for yourself

Are you sure men in general are more likely to seek solutions for their emotions? I read that suicide is more common for men, and one reason being they don’t seek help as much. Maybe it’s true they are more quiet about their emotions in comparison to women who share then more but I don’t think they are more likely to seek solutions to it. Venting about an emotion can also be a way to release some pressure and brain storm with your besties about the situation so it can also be a way to look for a solution

One way to be intelligent at something is to be completely obsessed with it. Like crazy obsessed. That’s what I think is key. The greatest people were probably crazy obsessed with their craft

I don’t believe that

Everyone is in my perception from my point of view yea