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Yours was somewhat elaborate and showed you have self awareness Maybe developing a neutral attitude towards your own lust so just allowing it to be there when it arises. So to avoid all that conflict inside. Then if you wanna take it into action that’s up to you to decide. But the decision being made from that conflict free state. Exactly If that’s your own mindset and not what society taught you then for sure if you feel it’s valuable you can pursue it. You could question though why you think it contributes to social confidence. Why you perhaps base some of your self esteem on lay count, if you do

Don’t know what that means

So much to unpack here

Thanks for sharing it lowkey answered some questions I’ve had in my mind, of for example why guys slutshame. What I can say is don’t demonize your own lust. You’re just creating a bunch of resistance within yourself. It’s natural to see a beautiful woman and perhaps feel lust. So developing a better relationship to your own sexuality. Doesn’t mean it has to be acted upon though ofc. Also you may have some societal conditioning affecting you, you know we live in this hyper sexual culture in the west so maybe that contributes to you feeling like lay count matters. So that’s something to try to undo, that potential societal conditioning

50: It’s funny how I have the power in my hands to just write the weirdest posts and lowkey shake up the whole forum with them but I won’t. And it’s not even me trying to be weird it’s just me speaking of my normal experience which is weird

Lol it’s very useful yes. It doesn’t exist in English

Difference between me and you I just write from my own mind you write from material you’ve studied , not saying one is superior to the other just a thought .

Why u trying to make me more like you

Giving off attractive image doesn’t have to equal seduction

Can also be things like status. Self esteem and self image boosting.

Ofc men do the same thing, so my question could be for people in general.

I’m not denying that women can dress to look good in men’s eyes, it happens too depending on the context and it can make up a portion of a woman’s reason for making herself look pretty (in the eyes of men she would desire more specifically mostly). But what I’m saying is that looks is so heavily valued in and of itself in women in the west, so women value looks as a quality in itself, they just like to look good. Ask a woman why she likes to feel hot and she might not be able to answer you. It’s so deeply engrained, it’s probably both stems from biology and societal conditioning. Simply existing and looking hot is something women derive pleasurable identity from. Then one could ask why doesn’t a woman do make up when she is alone in her room and only when she’s around other people, that’s a valid question. There are some women who try to make themselves beautiful 24/7, things such as plastic surgery and lash extensions that are more “permanent” have become very popular. So that shows some women do truly wanna look good 24/7 regardless of who sees them. But in those cases where she makes herself pretty only around others such as when going out to work or in the night, there are other factors that come into play such as wanting to look presentable in front of others. Also kind of the human identity exists in relation to others so she feels she needs to make herself look good around others to preserve a good self image in relation to others. Kinda hard to explain what I mean but yea

Heh

As I said before , beauty for women is like an end in itself, so often women just feel good when they feel hot , for themselves

Maybe my choice of words was a bit harsh, because I have zero judgment towards her. Ofc the men play a role too

Lmao the edit of my comment, took me a sec to see

I’m guessing our jokes don’t derail the thread because it’s literally about a woman whoring herself out Lol okay I did think for a second if it was a joke

She wasn’t Had to make a joke

She must have been so sore afterwards ouch

@Schizophonia In conclusion we disagree Your pp btw

That was my guess too, but I guess they're about to go to a club or something so they'll be inside anyways About that cantal tilt jk but yea I still think women are more neurotic about it to a greater degree

I meant in the video There's a lot of neurosis involved in women's obsession over appearance for sure I don't get this but that's fine you don't have to explain it It has

I have no idea what the temperature is Sometimes girls sacrifice some comfort even when they dress for themselves The thing is this, women value their own beauty almost as an end in itself, simply looking good makes them feel good, regardless of the male attention or not I understand

Some cleavage doesn't necessarily conveys wanting to seduce men imo. Women can dress sexy for themselves

I see