Sugarcoat

Someone should start a thread titled like “discussion about whatever” and no mod can say this 😹😹😹

Haha I was just gonna say see you have a response for everything. I was honestly a bit shocked by his reaction so yes you’re right

👍🏻maybe your future post will clear things out

You’re multifaceted I see

I can see that. Yea I don’t take offense.

You seem to have a very vibrant bubbly personality that I see positively for the most part. I also don’t hold back , I used to in the past when I was insecure. Although I can sometimes take some effort to make my response seem substantial , not gonna lie sometimes I try to sound “wise” 😹so it doesn’t always flow so easily.

Hahahahha you’re funny. Yea I did kind of add to your point there. I can definitely see how my responses are very neutral I write things like “kind of” etc😹😹😹😹😹 silly me. Im very friendly and chill and open minded it’s one of my strongest qualities and im glad I am that way so maybe that makes me likeable. You see, once again I write “maybe” 😹😹I can see your point it’s a valid perspective.

@Princess Arabia I must say one thing I’m a bit impressed about how you often have so much to say. My mind is pretty blank a lot of the time and it can take some effort to squeeze a response out of it

You may or may not have a point. I don’t know. Only he would know

I don’t really understand you as usual. Lol

One could be deceived but it could as well be accurate. So both

We talked privately for a short while that’s probably where he got most of the impression from not from the forum interactions. Also I’m naturally very self focused myself so that’s why I tended to agree with him and find his answers solid. It’s not like I’m the only one who didn’t talk back to him or didn’t have an opinion about his replies. But I’d say I agree with you for the rest of what you just wrote

It’s only efficient if it can lead to real dating , but yea it’s true it’s very unlikely because of the difference in locations of the members here. But you could gain enough of an impression of someone online I think

This is a self development forum so if a man gets a good impression of a woman here and she’s into self help and spirituality I don’t think it’s too weird or desperate if it would spark interest

Why? Women here could be like any woman. So it’s the same as meeting a woman outside somewhere and having the thought of wanting to bag her

He probably thinks the average guy (although men here can be above average in my opinion) are losers in some way anyways so it still doesn’t meet his standard I was actually surprised he mentioned me I didn’t think he had particular respect for me haha😹

He seems like he holds this specific standard for males in particular, that is very high, and sees all else as loser mindset or something, so almost nobody met that standard for him, and it was in the heat of the moment he said it. But i get your point

I’m talking how he is in general based on what I seen. He expressed his views on the matter plenty times

He’s not like that

Maybe you mixed me up with someone because I’ve never taken hormones . I am on meds though but it’s not hormones I’m not sure why you think I give off that vibe 😹Maybe I sound a bit masculine in my responses because it sounds intellectual and cold or something (I tend to be very detached and stoic so yea maybe I am a bit masculine in some way)

I have talked to him personally and seen enough . Where did you get mtf from😹

It’s really important definitely. The mind and the energy body have such effect on the physical . I’ve experienced this myself. When you release tension and energy it heals inflammation all over, clearer skin and all, this I experienced

Congrats, but nobody can replace Noselfself, I just had to say it

Depends on what it does to your mind when you listen to it. I used to in my past maladaptive daydream to music so wanted to abstain from it to quit daydreaming and save myself time. But if you don’t do that and instead music does something like bringing you peace or help you focus then it’s positive. I do believe in the power of a dopamine detox though so if music gives you a high and you abstain I think there’s benefits. It’s like the brain is being forced to adapt to less stimuli, so eventually you’ll need less to get that dopamine, or the brain will be forced to find other ways to give that dopamine, like maybe you start singing yourself to replace the music.

David Goggins is a great thinker for me