Sugarcoat

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  1. A lot of men’s so called “raw truth” is riddened with identification with one’s mental position and underlying emotion
  2. Just have more sex?
  3. They probably slept like that because they had no option, but you have an option, most would probably prefer more space so you have the choice to be close vs having your space not just forced to be close.
  4. I get your point but who wants to forcefully cuddle every night. Everyone needs some distance
  5. You mean truth right?
  6. Another reason to stay virgin and single
  7. At least you know what you like. I think for many men looks is number one factor.
  8. I was also thinking of commenting on that but I think you said enough. Women like to look good in general it’s so deeply engrained in us and our self image it goes beyond men and sex
  9. In the moment I only have one friend so don’t have much to go off of😹 but I can’t remember that we’ve talked about our periods don’t know why we haven’t though or maybe I just forgot about it. I don’t have a secret code no. In Sweden one can say “lingonberry week” or something I’ve heard but that isn’t too hard to understand what it means
  10. That’s one perspective. But I don’t see it as how self works. Greta Thunberg taking responsibility for the whole climate isn’t extending her sense of self out to it, she’s still identified as little limited Greta
  11. What you mean by responsibility for all of life? How far does one’s responsibility stretch?
  12. In my case there wasnt resistance, because it wasn’t a ~total~ loss of self, that I’ve only kinda experienced on psychedelics. On psychedelics I felt uncomfortable yes so there’s always a risk of chewing off too much at once.
  13. That’s true that’s what I want to. But I experienced an almost total loss of self which felt like an almost total loss of reality so it inspired this text.
  14. I experienced an ~almost~ total loss of self and it was like an ~almost~ total loss of reality, so I assumed the ~total~ loss of self would be a total loss of reality, that’s what inspired this post.