Sugarcoat

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  1. One could be deceived but it could as well be accurate. So both
  2. We talked privately for a short while that’s probably where he got most of the impression from not from the forum interactions. Also I’m naturally very self focused myself so that’s why I tended to agree with him and find his answers solid. It’s not like I’m the only one who didn’t talk back to him or didn’t have an opinion about his replies. But I’d say I agree with you for the rest of what you just wrote
  3. It’s only efficient if it can lead to real dating , but yea it’s true it’s very unlikely because of the difference in locations of the members here. But you could gain enough of an impression of someone online I think
  4. This is a self development forum so if a man gets a good impression of a woman here and she’s into self help and spirituality I don’t think it’s too weird or desperate if it would spark interest
  5. Why? Women here could be like any woman. So it’s the same as meeting a woman outside somewhere and having the thought of wanting to bag her
  6. He probably thinks the average guy (although men here can be above average in my opinion) are losers in some way anyways so it still doesn’t meet his standard I was actually surprised he mentioned me I didn’t think he had particular respect for me haha😹
  7. He seems like he holds this specific standard for males in particular, that is very high, and sees all else as loser mindset or something, so almost nobody met that standard for him, and it was in the heat of the moment he said it. But i get your point
  8. I’m talking how he is in general based on what I seen. He expressed his views on the matter plenty times
  9. He’s not like that
  10. Maybe you mixed me up with someone because I’ve never taken hormones . I am on meds though but it’s not hormones I’m not sure why you think I give off that vibe 😹Maybe I sound a bit masculine in my responses because it sounds intellectual and cold or something (I tend to be very detached and stoic so yea maybe I am a bit masculine in some way)
  11. I have talked to him personally and seen enough . Where did you get mtf from😹
  12. It’s really important definitely. The mind and the energy body have such effect on the physical . I’ve experienced this myself. When you release tension and energy it heals inflammation all over, clearer skin and all, this I experienced
  13. Congrats, but nobody can replace Noselfself, I just had to say it
  14. Depends on what it does to your mind when you listen to it. I used to in my past maladaptive daydream to music so wanted to abstain from it to quit daydreaming and save myself time. But if you don’t do that and instead music does something like bringing you peace or help you focus then it’s positive. I do believe in the power of a dopamine detox though so if music gives you a high and you abstain I think there’s benefits. It’s like the brain is being forced to adapt to less stimuli, so eventually you’ll need less to get that dopamine, or the brain will be forced to find other ways to give that dopamine, like maybe you start singing yourself to replace the music.
  15. David Goggins is a great thinker for me
  16. Deepest existential question
  17. It requires strength to laugh at misery when you’re in the midst of it
  18. Its what it seems they are saying in this thread
  19. Lmao what😹 did “he” ? I know “he” liked me as a person but not beyond Also I’m confused because candle sent me a private message about a disagreement between “him” and buck edwards so for me it seemed like two people. If not then that’s crazy lengths they went to pretend
  20. Yea. That says enough
  21. Nice
  22. I would do the same, only telling people who seem interested, or if they ask. I don’t think speaking about it necessarily sounds like you wanna be more interesting, if someone takes it like that it suggests to me they are insecure