Sugarcoat

I’ve yet to see someone swimming after drowning

I stumbled across this quote today and it has been replaying in my head since. Just fabulous In short I see it as related to the internal world. Otherwise I think it can speak for itself. just wanted to share?

Or at least becoming more and more aligned with it if that makes sense

Whaaat swimming is marvelous . But I guess some fears can be just biological . I’m glad to share ?

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Struck me so deep aah

Hahaha love it. Yea so much depth baked into it

I can definitely relate to the memory part. I believe it connects to the slowing down of one’s perception of time, which for me happened when I became less and less attached to the mind. And also perhaps we have an idea of how memories are “supposed” to feel, based on how people in our surroundings talk about their past, in a way where it seems they feel it’s very “real”. don’t know what you mean with it looking like pictures in a mirror, but I can say I’m familiar with the world looking “flat” and 2D almost, lacking depth to it like animation.

I’ve never been a spiritual seeker so don’t know who you’re talking to although understandable you’d get that impression , would agree nonetheless

Yes absolutely mostly in the past. I feel we sense ourselves differently at different times and situations so sometiems I feel my own “vibe” for example like an energy , sometimes I’m just walking around like a body without no one in it, sometiems I feel more contracted or whatever or open and expansive , like an open field. so it depends but i get it what you say, can’t pin point it exactly ?

The ultimate hack

Yea. It’s tricky and can take years to un-wire. Many layers to it. Not impossible to calm it down though. Those thoughts can reflect something you lack but it’s not always obvious what that is. The content of the thought doesn’t always directly reflect what you want/lack. Id say this is a very individual path and all these different fantasies you might have about different things you seem to desire can have their own unique contexts to them

Mind. First word that popped up for me

that’s fine i get that could happen ?

Oh yes. I liked your replies ❤️ as usual ?

I wonder what the thought process is behind such post. Or perhaps no thought process at all maybe that’s the thing . Maybe me laugh nonetheless.

nonetheless gotta enjoy where we are now aight

yea exactly. Then its about what that entails and how to. For me in my process its about being more authentic, being present with each interaction moment by moment, not following some principle rather dropping that and going into things with unknowing and seeing what comes naturally. So it can be like you pay attention to yourself when youre communicating, how did it feel when i said that, did it feel like a release of tension, did it feel forced, am i nervous, not explicit questions but you trace how it feels inside when you interact and that can help you get to a more natural flow at least for me. And I agree with @inFlow in how just raising consciousness in general helps to get out of the head and more into the body

You know what you need to do first , find a job. Idk how it works where you live but somebody gotta know there gotta be some way. Go ask if they’re hiring, look online, ask people you know. Or you’ll start rotting just laying there it’s beginning already I bet

His channel is called infinite waters ofc he’s gonna be releasing everyday jokes aside i believe self help can be like this for a lot of people in the beginning then you slowly find more of your own way. Less of doing everything all over the place, listening to this and that person, consuming this and that content, to fewer things that make sense to you and that you are attracted to and that you pour all your focus into and prioritize. Sometimes we want clarity and stepping back from all that content and business can help in that. The depressed feeling might be a sign it’s not it That journal with your ideas sounds great I don’t understand why you say you “should” do those others things you mentioned instead. “Life will improve a little” ummm do i hear a limiting belief. maybe feel for yourself. What is your greatest problem right now? Where in life do you feel most limited what’s consuming your mind the most what do you most desire ?

This is my nightmare. What if next time I’m some man back in 1500 century waiting in line for a medieval torture machine because “consciousness allows it”

Being authentic to me doesn’t mean you say everything on your mind. Or that everything you share is straightforward and reflects your views directly. It can also mean choosing not to share certain things because you don’t resonate with the people you interact with, or perhaps some aspect of you two relate to each other but not the other parts. Id say take each interaction as it comes, moment by moment. Not really having any general principle you feel you need to follow. Be there present in the moment directly sensing within yourself and taking in from the other person. Each interaction is unique and what being authentic and truthful will entail in that interaction might be completely different from another one. Communication is nuanced , has many layers to it and there’s so much depth to be discovered. it can be very mystical and fascinating no need to be sad about it a lot of potential here! One time you feel out of integrity , so what? that’s gone, move on to the next

Well i do agree in the way that everyone has a responsibility in what enviroment, situations they put themsleves in, and what people they hang around, basically how one navigates society. but at the same time i feel we are not really coming from the same place saying that so cant really say we have the same thinking here There are drunk men that dont harass women lol. its not impossible

Nonetheless everyone remember , most important is to be your own party your own vibe okay ?? you can’t have fun if you are not fun . Be the life, be the fun. Alone or with people doesn’t matter ?