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Maybe try the more organic route of developing a social circle and finding girls that way.

Yes☺️

Hahah yea right . I see it though as the calorie deficit is working 😹

When I don’t eat much my energy tends to feel okay but what happens is that I get “dizzy” or whatever it’s called when I stand up if that makes sense. I’ve also considered doing some strength training. Apparently building muscle increases metabolism so it’s good for staying lean too

Hahaha that doesn’t happen to me, not anymore. But maybe it balances things out for you. You’re slim so it doesn’t seem you eat in excess

Yea I remember you mentioned that. For me that’s the sweet spot too, I don’t see the need for more. You’re quite slim yourself so it makes sense. I forgot to add but on weekends I tend to eat even once per day and something sweet. And it’s working for me I don’t get hungry.

Pain feels very real, suffering feels very real. But I’m suggesting it’s the self that makes all of this feel real, that’s what I think

67: The calorie deficit is working. I don’t track my calories as I find it a bit too much work having to count all the details. But what I have done is just minimize my portion sizes, and only eating twice a day no snacks. I kinda follow the plate model so I fill half my plate with veggies, 1/4 of the plate protein then 1/4 carbs like pasta, rice , potato, and then some healthy fat like olive oil or avocado. It keeps the calories less and the portion sizes adequate but smaller than usual. I started of weighing like 68/69 kg and now I weigh 66 so I’m down like two kilos. My next goal is to limit dessert to once a week. Maximum twice. Usually I eat some form of sweets Friday, Saturday and Sunday so three times but I feel that’s a bit too much. 1 would be ideal max two as I said. Im not even hungry it has been very easy to eat less. I have incredibly stable energy levels and I feel very healthy. So im looking forward to loosing more weight

Because you feel real. The self is the base sense of solidity that gives rise to all other sense of solidity and otherness. So the question should be to investigate this self, why do “I” feel real? Is closer to getting to the core of the issue.

See school as the opportunity to build self discipline and a good work ethic. So it’s not the subject at focus but rather the underlying skills that come from studying rigorously, that could give you a purpose for doing it. That’s kind of what I did

I doubt we’ll live long enough to experience this. If the climates change doesn’t kill us this will probably happen in the future as society evolves

Yea that’s not what I meant😹

What was your interpretation of me writing “organically” like you and your chemistry talk?😹

Yea exactly. She might not be in the mood for flirtatiousness with a stranger, as you said she’s out with the girls for the girls. So sometimes it’s not about the guy, the guy can be decent and she can still reject

It means looks is not all that matters. Sometimes girls just don’t like getting hit on they wanna get to know a guy through other means like organically through social circle the very act of getting hit on can be tad uncomfortable I think