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@Leo Gura isn’t it possible to not have a bias against death and to still be alive?I mean where you still do survival activities but also don’t mind if you die?

@Leo Guraare bootcamp s a must for newbies? Can you tell us a little about what happens at a boot camp please?

@Leo Gura leo won't girls approach/initiate first even if you are extremely good-looking? If girls do approach first is it very infrequently?(even if you are goodlooking)? Leo have you ever been approached by a girl first ? If so how often would you say a average looking guy will get approached first if he goes out consistently?

Hey guys.sorry for the shady topic but I’m genuinely curious.it never was a problem for me ,but after watching lots of dating/redpill(Kevin samuels etc) youtubers I’m wondering if it’s weird to not care about your partners body count at all? some dating coaches say that only betas/guys who can’t get any girls are the only ones who don’t care about body counts.as a beta myself (never had a gf etc) I’m wondering if the fact that I don’t care about body counts is abnormal.i would love to hear your opinions.do you’ll personally care? Some people go as far as to say you should only marry virgins!! This sound insane and extremely unrealistic to me as it is normal for girls to have atleast one sexual encounter before high school finishes(18yrs) finishes.to expect a girl to be a virgin until marriage is extremely unrealistic isn’t it?(unless it’s a girl from a extremely stage blue society with very controlling abusive parents like Arabia or something) Also what is your opinion on single mothers? Is it strange to not have much of a issue with raising someone else’s child? I don’t think I would have much of a problem with it.is this strange? According to rich cooper/rollo tomassi etc it is.

@Preety_India I really appreciate you taking the time to write these in-depth answers they really help.tysm?. One more question please. i wasn’t planning on doing nice things/complimenting her etc just to impress her or for any other ulterior motive(eh-pretending to be a nice guy so she ll have sex with me etc) but from what you and leo say,it seems to me that always doing nice things for her (even though there is no other motive than to make her happy) is not something she wants.is this true? I personally would like to make her always feel happy,be empathetic,loving,cuddly etc but if she doesn’t want me to be like this and she would actually prefer it if I was detached,gave compliments sparingly etc aren’t I doing her a disservice by being to cuddly and empathetic? I’m just wondering which personality will make her happier in a long term relationship. The empathetic,loving caring,morning breakfast in bed making,flowers every Sunday forest gump type of guy or the detached,rarely smiling, player Christian gray kind of guy?im quite confused could you help me out?

See my recent video about Free Will. I did .could you see if I’ve understood correctly? When I attain max consciousness/god realization I will realize that the life I’m living right now is exactly what it should be and I will not want to change anything right? For example if my dog died, eventhough my limited ego wants to remain forever,when I attain god consiousness i Will realize my dog passing away was necessary to maximize goodness right leo? @Leo Gura btw leo you still agree with Sam Harris in the sense that our limited egos have ZERO free will right? Similar to what you said in your 1st free will video?

@Leo Gura similarly how some of us are able to lucid dream and control our night dreams.is it possible to control this dream?

One more question please.in this post you said that that girls are usually attracted to player behaviour when they are younger(leo says this as well). Does this mean If you arent a player you should still act like one?is it wrong to act affectionate etc all the time (making her coffee everymorning,constantly telling her shes beautiful,cuddling etc)even though you really like the girl?or will she actually prefer you to have a player attitude rather than a affectionate attitude?(i mean when shes in her early twenties). If someone is actually a nice guy (ie not acting nice for ulterior motives like sex) should he still act like a player because women enjoy this more? Or should he continue to be empathetic affectionate and understanding if that is who he is?

@Preety_India since you are a girl do you mind if I ask you some questions? 1) is it realistic to expect a girl to be a 20yr+ virgin in this day age? Most of my male friends come from very religious(mostly Islamic) backgrounds and they tell me not marrying a virgin is weired.i told them that’s its crazy and unreasonable to expect a girl to be a 20year old virgin in this day and age.do you agree? Or is expecting a girl to be a virgin after 20+ reasonable? In the community I’m from having even just 2+ partners will warrant you being slutshamed.i know it sounds crazy but I swear I’m not lying.i think in places like Arabia you will be slut-shamed even if you have just ONE other partner..

@decentralized I agree

Hey guys. I found this clip And I was a little suprised to see how many people still believe in the stage blue god and devil.if you read the comments in the vid you will see that most of the commenters really believe Travis Scott has made a deal with a literal devils in order to further his career.they seem to think that almost everyone who is elite(famous singers/actors)has made a deal with stage blue satan. the vid has 300000+ views and quite a lot of support.any thoughts on the topic?

@Leo Gura Leo in this video at 1:00 you say that suicide is not morally wrong.doesnt this depend on what moral framework you use though? For example if you are an utalitarian( goal-maximize pleasure of everyone) wouldnt suicide be wrong according to the utalitarian framework as suicide will decrease the pleasure of others(due to selfblame/guilt etc)? i think what you meant to say is “since morality doesn’t exist and nothing is right or wrong,whether you commit suicide or not doesn’t matter”.am I right? you don’t adhere to any moral framwork do you leo? (Utalitarianism,consequentialism,or deontology)? If anything I would say you are closest to a hedonist right?

@Leo Gura taking a break from uploading videos?

Haven’t you ever got into any fights with guys? (Accidentally hitting on their gfs etc?)

Yes please leo! Could you go into a bit more depth? ( since love is literally everything it’s hard for me to understand what you mean)

@Leo Gura leo after doing so much spiritiual work do you no longer need “meaning” in your life? Do you still have a life purpose leo? If so could you share it with us? The last time was 7 years ago! I would love to know what gives your life meaning now!

Could you share what you think is wrong about being known in society as the pickup/day game guy? Why is it embarassing? You are just trying to learn how to get good with the ladies right?

@Leo Gura hey leo.i noticed you haven’t Been sticking to your usual video schedule (every Sunday).taking a break?

In Leo’s “how to stop being a victim” epsisode he didn’t address why people stay victims.is there a reason for why people remain having a victim mentality?

@Jacob Morres so what should I do? Are you saying I should include my height to exclude the girls who prefer guys who are taller?

@Leo Gura thanks.i heard you have split tested dating apps rigorously leo. Leo is it possible to be in the top 20 percent of guys in terms of looks if you are below 6 feet? Ie-if you have a 10/10face ,10/10 body but are 5’7 can you stilll be in the top 20% of men world wide in looks? Or do you have to be 6+ to be top 20% only in looks? btw do you have any insight into why a majority of girls like 6 ft guys? What is it about that number? Is it that they think taller guys will be better at protecting them?

@hyruga are you saying being 5’7 might lose me a few dates? The only reason I ask is because I see countless guys advertising that they are 6ft.but I’ve never seen anyone advertising they are 5”6,5”7,5”8 etc.if I didn’t include it would I be better off?

@Leo Gura i know game is what matters most to attract a girl .And girls get more turned on by the emotions they feel and not just physicality(like guys) but would you say a girl would enjoy being physical(sex) even more if the guy has a six pack/muscles? Or does having muscles not increase a girls enjoyment during physical activities?

I understand leo.but being a fan of yours,You don’t seem like the person who would do anything without giving it 110% effort.since you overachieved in everything else you put your mind to (consiousness/pua) I wondered why you didn’t overachieve in weightlifting as well btw do you still do any form of weightlifting/exercises? Do you put any effort into“looksmaxxing” Leo?

Some coaches etc say you should never discuss your problems with your gf as “she is not your mother and it is not her responsibility to be your emotional caretaker”.the man is supposed to be the girls caretaker. they say if you talk about your problems she will lose attraction for you.therefore you should take care of your probs on your own.is this true?