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  1. Judging by your answers.in your opinion the answer to my question Is thats its not worth trying to patch up the relationship once one party has cheated.(even if they seem genuinely regretful seem to be making a diligent effort to not redo the same mistake?) @Preety_India im curious to hear your opinion about this if you dont mind.do you think it okay to give a girl who cheated on you one more chance of she seems genuinely remorseful and promises to never do it again? Or would you recommend ending the relationship immediately?
  2. @Leo Gura thanks leo. But would it always be the wisest course of action to end the relationship? As @Bando said what if she is genuinely regretful?(ie-stops going partying with her friends through her own volition,volunteers to delete her social media) etc? I'm not talking about staying in a abusive relationship where the girl has no respect for you and treats you terribly. I'm talking about a situation where a really nice girl who treats you well ,goes out with her friends, gets a little too drunk, some guy with elite level game comes and runs game on her and they end up hooking up. The next day she confesses immediately and seems genuinely regretful and asks for one more chance.(just one and only) Would you give her one more chance leo? Would I be dumb to give her one more chance or is it a reasonable decision? (Especially if her actions prove that she has genuinely changed). Is it definitely best to end the relationship or in this case might it be worth trying to patch things up?(Especially if you really like this girl?)
  3. @Leo Gura leo is it okay to give a girl who you really like a second chance if she seems genuinely repentful, and promises not to cheat again? Considerinh the fact that its so easy for girls to be tempted to cheat these days (due to being inundated by 1000s of messages on social media,lots of guys learning game etc) ,
  4. @Leo Gura leo isn’t John Anthony the go to guy if you want to learn pickup? I mean he has around 1000 lay count apparently. Doesn’t that mean he probably knows more about pua than Owen cook? John antagonizes results speak for themselves right?
  5. @Leo Gura But leo isnt it possible to choose to engage in survival activities while not being biased against death? For example in your self bias video you talked about the preference for ice cream and bias against dog crap. But isnt it possible to choose ice cream while not being biased against dog crap? Or to choose dog crap instead of being biased against ice cream? In this case you enjoy surviving but you will also enjoy dying. Isnt is possible?
  6. @Leo Gura isn’t it possible to not have a bias against death and to still be alive?I mean where you still do survival activities but also don’t mind if you die?
  7. @Leo Guraare bootcamp s a must for newbies? Can you tell us a little about what happens at a boot camp please?
  8. @Leo Gura leo won't girls approach/initiate first even if you are extremely good-looking? If girls do approach first is it very infrequently?(even if you are goodlooking)? Leo have you ever been approached by a girl first ? If so how often would you say a average looking guy will get approached first if he goes out consistently?
  9. See my recent video about Free Will. I did .could you see if I’ve understood correctly? When I attain max consciousness/god realization I will realize that the life I’m living right now is exactly what it should be and I will not want to change anything right? For example if my dog died, eventhough my limited ego wants to remain forever,when I attain god consiousness i Will realize my dog passing away was necessary to maximize goodness right leo? @Leo Gura btw leo you still agree with Sam Harris in the sense that our limited egos have ZERO free will right? Similar to what you said in your 1st free will video?
  10. @Leo Gura similarly how some of us are able to lucid dream and control our night dreams.is it possible to control this dream?
  11. @Leo Gura Leo in this video at 1:00 you say that suicide is not morally wrong.doesnt this depend on what moral framework you use though? For example if you are an utalitarian( goal-maximize pleasure of everyone) wouldnt suicide be wrong according to the utalitarian framework as suicide will decrease the pleasure of others(due to selfblame/guilt etc)? i think what you meant to say is “since morality doesn’t exist and nothing is right or wrong,whether you commit suicide or not doesn’t matter”.am I right? you don’t adhere to any moral framwork do you leo? (Utalitarianism,consequentialism,or deontology)? If anything I would say you are closest to a hedonist right?
  12. @Leo Gura taking a break from uploading videos?
  13. Haven’t you ever got into any fights with guys? (Accidentally hitting on their gfs etc?)
  14. Yes please leo! Could you go into a bit more depth? ( since love is literally everything it’s hard for me to understand what you mean)
  15. @Leo Gura leo after doing so much spiritiual work do you no longer need “meaning” in your life? Do you still have a life purpose leo? If so could you share it with us? The last time was 7 years ago! I would love to know what gives your life meaning now!
  16. Could you share what you think is wrong about being known in society as the pickup/day game guy? Why is it embarassing? You are just trying to learn how to get good with the ladies right?
  17. @Leo Gura hey leo.i noticed you haven’t Been sticking to your usual video schedule (every Sunday).taking a break?
  18. @Leo Gura leo didn’t you ever take part in toastmasters or something similar to build up your speaking ability? I too admire the way you speak. Btw I found this once when trying to find an interview of you.can you tell us what it is?
  19. Who’ll get more ladies? Rupert spira ,sadhguru and eckartte tolle vs mystery/connor Murphy and neil strauss
  20. @Leo Gura Leo is there any difference between intimate human relationships and the courting process monkeys and other animals go through? I like to think that there is more to human relationships than my reptilian brain/biology provoking me and incentivizing me to reproduce.(similar to the relationships you see onDisney movies and titanic etc).i like to think that human intimitate relationships are highconsiouse and different from the relationships other animals have(which are mainly just to reproduce). But is this actually true? Or is the complexity of our mating strategy blinding me? Similarly to how the complexity of my basic survival(having a job etc) makes me forget that what I’m doing is no different than a bird building a nest.do I just like to think I’m smarter/more special than I am?
  21. This doesn’t coincide with my experience of reality leo.especially considering the fact that the person asking the question is a lady.maybe for men game is more important(but I disagree ever here).i certainly think game/good social skills help but I still think being physically attractive to your partner is very important.wdyta this cartoon and song video.as exemplified in the video,although very rare,I do think it’s possible to fall under the looks threshold enough where game will not be of much service to you. Btw is it possible to create pure raw physical attraction through game?to the point where a women craves you? Have you ever?
  22. @Leo Gura this is what Owen cook calls the halo effect leo.i was wondering if you should try and show that you are detached even after you get into a long term relationship (6 months+). Owen cook says that even in a long term relationship if you get too close(show your partner that you are always available no matter the time),your partner will lose attraction/start taking you for granted.is this true leo? tldr-is showing some detachment/willingness to emote from the relationship necessary even after getting into a long term relationship? If you don’t show willingness to emote will you partner start to take you for granted?
  23. @Leo Gura since everything exists,does this mean that there is a world somewhere where hogwarts is real,and im(my ego)is a student there,and instead of ron weasley im harries best friend and i end up getting tortured and killed by voldemort? If literally everything concievable this must be too right? (Srs question)
  24. Why is focusing on a few girls a problem? Leo do you agree with rsd owen cooks "halo effect theory"? I.e-you should not always be Too available(show that you are too interested) otherwise the girl starts to loose attraction.he says if the girl seems uninterested the worst thing you can do is give her more attention as this will lessen her interest further.instead if she doesnt give you attention,you too should not give her attention.my problem is,im afraid if i stop giving her attention,she wont care or even notice.
  25. @Leo Gura have you ever gotten a girl to fall in love/have oneitis for you from pick up leo? I have this intuition that says pickup might work to get a girl for a one night stand(when a girls out with her friends,having a great time,in a flirtatious mood etc) ,but won’t work well for getting a long term girlfriend who showers you with affection/attention.reason being 1) eventhough you can trick her into thinking you are high value (according to mystery H.V-preselected by other girls,leader of men,having social proof(lots of friends etc) .if you are not ACTUALLY preselected and a Leader of men and have zero friends,once she finds this out won’t she lose attraction and regret going home/sleeping with you?especially if you don’t have an exciting life for her to be a part of( eg- like me-work at a restaurant+study+workout +study pickup) *if the goal is to get a long term gf(and not just sleep around),would you recommend-*becoming a leader of men,making lots of normal friends(social proof) before getting into pickup? Otherwise i feel like I’m tricking her.eg-i don’t have social proof(exciting friends) for her to hang out with,neither am i preselected by other girls ,but I’m pretending/lying that I am.i think it’ll only be a matter of time before I get caught(which would be okay for a ONS,but not for a long term)