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I would tend to disagree with you on that one, Leo! You're using the "right-wing" label as if there's something wrong with being a right-winger. There's nothing wrong with being a liberal or a conservative as long as you're an American.

Hi! I was thinking about going to luxury prostitutes that don't have diseases, to have protected sex. That, over time, will lessen my sexual and social anxiety, as I'll slowly get comfortable in the presence of a woman. Is this a good approach to gaining skills with a woman? Because going to a luxury prostitute is a little bit easier but it still entails moves and socializing. It will still force me out of my comfort zone and therefore I'll be learning. Is such an investment worthwhile in the long run? Thanks!

What is a good method to conquer your fears?

Talking with a prostitute or not, she still has a feminine presence and I must get used to that feminine presence. I will stop with all the labels that the mind produces and I'll perceive the prostitute as simply a woman. As I'll do that a hundred times, I will get better at being comfortable around women without a shadow of a doubt. The fact that she's a prostitute doesn't make any difference to me — I'm still taking her as a slightly normal woman.

I am really afraid in the sense that I can't control my fears. I know that having the fear to talk to women doesn't make any sense and that it's just an illusional type of fear, but for me, it seems intensely real and it manifests itself by having its own autonomy. I can not control my fears.

@Leo Gura, come on, man! Weed is not a substance that should be used for problem-solving or learning. You only use weed to deepen your human senses, like listening to Beethoven while you're on weed — it is pure joy, delight, and ecstasy. Or you could use weed to find out if you have paranoid tendencies, fears, and anxieties. I'm not promoting weed but it can be used as a tool that reveals the negative aspects of your unconscious.

I love Joe Rogan!