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@undeather @Michael569 like I said, I didn't eat pure oatmeal today. I ate it with a bunch of watermelon slices and 2 spoons of tahini. What exactly about it doesn't seem edible? It is super soft and easy to chew. That's how I usually eat it. Also, I won't feel this when if I eat a bunch of sweets for example (I mean I will also feel like shit probably, but in a different way), so I don't think it's about sugar. The way I feel after eating oatmeal is quite unique...

I don't think so. I am not aware of them at least. Hmm, I don't know. I should test it. No I eat different oat brands and they all feel more or less the same. Those are random Polish brands, so it won't tell you much I think. They are full, not instant oats (not sure how do you call them in english exactly).

Because I just cooked it 30 minutes ago to take a photo and don't plan to eat it?

Hi. I am, my height is around 175cm and weight around 70kg. I guess that's normal. Here is how my oatmeal looks like (raw/after cooking). Today I added some tahini paste to it, plus ate watermelon separately. But this is something that have been happening to me for a long time, so I am sure it's oatmeal itself that causes this.

I don't agree. What makes you think that the way you see it is how every man sees it? Personally, the only hard boundary for me would be if a girl is a professional sex worker. And also, isn't kind of a compliment if she has been in a lot of other relationships but is now in love with you and wants to commit to you? She has tried different things, has a lot of experience, and still wants to be with you. I think it is worth more than a girl who wants to be with you because she doesn't know any better and you are her first boyfriend. What exactly bothers you about it.

@Princess Arabia which is why I am asking why lie in the first place? Isn't it better to be honest and allow it to filter such guys out?

@Sincerity wow, I didn't realize that you are from Poland, so cool

I feel like I didn't get half of the post. ? No, I don't know what It depends on the context and the audience. You didn't really answer my question. Would you lie about your body count to someone who you are seriously dating?

@Ramanujan lol

Haha @Princess Arabia why would a girl lie though? Why would she want to be with someone who won't accept her the way she is?

Idk, I think it should work pretty well. You could also do it while she is drunk / high.

@Raze dude, wtf. Why would you stop sharing 10 random non-embedded links without saying a word as a response? It was your special style. Now you are just like everyone else

You just need to use the trick where you pretend to be very open minded, curious, and non judgemental, so that she opens up to you. And once she tells the truth you can dump her. Easy

@Princess Arabia 5 must hold some mystical significance. It is a pretty special number. It was also my favourite number when I was a kid.

@Salvijus sorry, I don't want to argue anymore. You are not wrong. And your advise is still better than mine at then very least. I was just bitter because I am feeling bad right now, so I wanted to argue with someone. Sorry.

I don't. I just feel bad and have nothing better to do. Sorry.

I am getting it! But what I am trying to say is that even if it is "ultimately true" it is not treated like the same thing in practice and it is unhelpful to the op. You can hug a person you barely know, like a colleage at work, and it will be totally fine. You can't just try to fuck them all of a sudden as a farewell thank you! I am saying that it is not helpful to the op because what does it matter to him that ultimately they are the same thing? He has an insecurity which is irrational, yes. But all insecurities are irrational. They don't magically stop existing because somebody tells you that your worry is bullshit. He even says himself that logically he knows that it is stupid, but still can't stop being bothered by it.

@Salvijus anyway, I disagree with what you are saying the way you are saying it but don't take me to seriously. I am just in a bad mood. Sorry if I sounded offensive.

I don't support his comment

It's more connected to what you said than what you said is connected to op's issue. To me you are just trying to sound very high and spiritual by lumping everything together and adding "ultimately" to it. Might have as well added murdering kittens to the list since "ultimately, everything is a different expression of the same thing". So, like I said, if you are so spiritual, why don't you go and show it on practice? What you are doing is a disservice to spirituality and isn't helpful at all.

@Salvijus would you walk the talk and agree to be hugs only for the rest of your life? No sex, just hugs

*she politely shitted on him

Why don't you just date a virgin if it bothers you so much? Problem solved, no need to have those internal struggles with yourself anymore.

I love pornofilmy ❤️

Something amazing happened a day before yesterday but somehow I only getting to journaling about it now. There were 2 separate issues that I was dealing with. First of all, I had my first coaching session with Ali, from the Perception Trainers, in the beginning of July. It was really nice and helped me a lot. My only concern was that I couldn't really afford having them regularly without sacrificing other things in my life. Then I've remembered telling someone who was in a similar situation that they should go and ask their parents to give them money for therapy/coaching. I started to wonder if I should actually follow my own advise, I was thinking that it was a good/bad idea on and off for a few weeks. I've had a few concerns: 1. I would tell myself that it's not okay for me to get money from my parents and that I should achieve everything on my own. 2. I was worried that if I ask them for money for a therapy, they will think that something is wrong with me and will be worried themselves. 3. In case they gave me money, I was was afraid that they will start poking their noses into it too much, ask me what I am talking about, how is my progress, etc. Second issue I was struggling with was a question of how do I lead a normal life where I can balance being social, dating, my career, personal development, and other stuff. Previously, I thought that I should first find my life purpose, start a business, earn a lot of money, and then I can have a relationship, socialize and have fun. Well, I've realized that this is a shitty plan and that it is not going to work. I've even made a post about it here asking if I should ignore my finances and career for a while and just focus on dating. But soon enough I've started thinking that this idea is also not that great and why the hell I can't just do everything at once like a normal person. ... So what happened was that in the evening of the same day when I've made this post my dad decided to have a "heart to heart" talk with me while we went for a walk. And wow, it went unexpectedly nice. He asked me why I am not dating anyone and what are my thoughts / plan regarding relationships. I guess I felt a bit more open then usual so I've decided to actually engage in the conversation instead of just shrugging it off as I would usually do. I obviously wasn't going to just drop all my worries, fears, and limiting belief on him just like that so I've decided to share something relatively "chill" that I was worried about. So I've said something along the lines of "it's hard to think about having a relationship when you are living paycheck to paycheck". And, well, my dad was very supportive and basically told me that this fear is bullshit and shouldn't stop me from dating and having relationships. How money doesn't matter if you find the right person. He also said that it not true that you cannot achieve career and personal life success at the same time and told me that having a relationship, getting a wife, starting a family was a thing that helped him to get serious about life and to achieve financial success and without it he probably woudn't amount to much. First of all, it was really empowering to hear something like this from my dad because he was basically a badass at my age so I knew that he knows what he is talking about. Secondly, I was really excited/surprised to see how the topic I was thinking about on my own just randomly came up in a conversation with my dad. Then the conversation shifted to other topics like money and how our mind is able to manifest things that we want in life (it was really interesting to hear about it from my dad's perspective). Then, we somehow started talking about therapy and how it helped my dad with some of the issues he was struggling with after covid. And also how he would have regular sessions with some fortune teller / mystic woman when he was younger, which was also basically like a therapy for him. So long story short it came down to my dad himself offering to pay for whatever therapy I need and saying that he knows a great person for it. But I was like "oh, I was actually thinking about it myself and have someone in mind", haha. Once again it was really cool to see something that I was thinking about randomly come up. #Everything_Is_Connected Then we finished of with some talk about how we are all one family and how I can always count on their support, especially when it comes to things like health, education, etc., it was very sweet To sum things up, this happened very randomly, and now all of a sudden I feel much more confident, loved, empowered, and positive about my life. And I am going to have 2 coaching sessions per month with Ali, starting in August, which is just amazingly cool