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@Rishabh Rthank you

@Zenterusthank you. I totally agree. The question is how do I actually start living this kind of mindset? How do I actually start feeling this way?

Ha! I got a match. Now watch me fuck up the date

Okay, thank you.

What I am mean by disrespecting is that: if I am not sure if they are attractive enough for me, then why am I bothering them at all. Its like I am treating them as a second choice. Like: oh yeah, I am not really attracted to you that much but I guess you will do, I can deal with it. Who wants to be treated like that? The more I think about it, the more fucked up it sounds.

This is hard for me to do when I already know someone as a person. I know I am not obligated but I am really afraid of upsetting and hurting people.

There is a girl that I kind of like because of her personality, but I am not sure if I will be attracted to her physically as well. I have an opportunity to go on a date with her, but I am really afraid that I will realize that I am not attracted to her after all and that I will have to reject her. Should I still go and treat it as an experiment to see if we click or is it better for me to not go at all if I am not 100% sure that I am attracted to her? Basically, is it only ethical to go on dates with people who you are 100% certain you are attracted to? I am feeling like this is the case and like I would be mistreating / disrespecting them otherwise.

LMFAO

@pursuitofspirit idk yet, I think they are supposed to email us tomorrow.

@Aaron p Christianity is not a cult.

Easily the best social thing that I've ever been to. It was organized in a cafe from 16:00 to 20:00. There were 8 guys and 6 girls (it was supposed to be 7 girls, but 1 didn't come). There were 4 tables and guys would rotate between the tables every 35 minutes (plus 10 minutes of free time before each round starts). Each round they would give us 3 options: a tabletop game (most were centered around getting to know each other), cards with questions, or some "integration exercise" (for example we got one where each person had to write down their top 3 strength, and then you would draw connections between each other's strengths if they are related in any way). I've enjoyed the whole thing so much! And I think I did really well. I was talkative and active, I didn't feel that anxious or stressed but rather excited and alert. And I think some people even liked me. The cafe was really nice, had cool art on the walls, and had a nice atmosphere in general. The people were nice. I liked the format because about 40 minutes of talking is just enough time to get too know each other without getting too overwhelmed. And I liked the support that having specific activities and question cards provided. It made things much easier than if you had to jump start a conversation on your own (also some questions were kind of philosophical and I got to shine a bit). Finally, at the end, each person wrote down the names of the people they would like to meet with on a card and gave it to the organizers (anonymously). And now they are supposed to let us know if we got any matches (like on tinder). I think it's a really cool idea because there is no fear, there is no embarrassment, there is no need to worry about being rejected or put into an uncomfortable situation. And that can be said about the whole idea of dating events like this in general. They remove all the anxiety related to cold approaching because everyone is there to date, you don't have to worry about bothering people or looking weird, etc. Sure, you might say that it will not develop you as much as a hardcore cold approach pickup practice. But I think it's really good for newbies who are just starting to learn how to socialize and need a safe space to practice. And also for people who don't care about personal development aspects of dating and just want to find a girlfriend / boyfriend.

Lol, you are regarded. Russia has been annexing Ukrainian land since 2014.

What on earth made you think that buying anything from tai lopez is a good idea? He is literally the most known self help scammer out there, lol.

I don't know, I find this sad. I think she and JP have some actual mental health issues and are suffering because of it. Satan aside, just look at what she has done to her face. No sane person would do this. She is crying in that video from the original post and can't even move a muscle.

@Leo Gura it's just depressing if this is true.