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  1. My day of saying hi to 100 strangers
    My day of saying hi to 100 strangers
    Good work. Keep going out and socializing. And remember, quality over quantity.
    Next time do 5 deeper converasations with strangers. This will grow your skills more than 100 hellos. Gradually you will get better and better at conversation and they will become easier, more natural, and more enjoyable.
    The key is to start enjoying it. Otherwise you won't be able to sustain it. If you enjoy it there won't be any anxiety either.

  2. How big population size for Pick up?
    How big population size for Pick up?
    Vegas metroplex is ~2 million. What matters is the population of the metroplex, not the city.
    But also, Vegas is very unlike other cities because of it's hardcore, 24/7 nightlife culture and 42.5 million visitors per year.
    It's not just the raw population that matters. It's the culture, the age-range, male/female ratio, etc.
    For example, Dallas-Fort Worth is a HUGE metroplex, but the nightlife is sucky. Austin has much smaller metroplex population but amazing nightlife. Don't be fooled by raw numbers.

  3. Can a woman ever love a man the way he wants to be loved?
    Can a woman ever love a man the way he wants to be loved?
    As I said in my video Part 1, the problem is deeper than just getting laid. Many guys are simply horrible as socializing. Pickup is the most direct way of addressing that.
    And as I said, some people get laid easily simply from the kind of job or career they have where they are constantly talk to new girls.
    If you don't have a problem socializing or getting laid, then obviously you don't need advice on this topic.

  4. Wing question
    Wing question
    It shouldn't matter so much. Let him game his girl and you game yours. You two have to agree to pick targets and not cross swords. Just a bit of coordination is all it takes. Basically if you're working a 2-set you talk to each girl as if you're one-on-one with her. There is no need to entertain both girls at once. Of course, be friendly together, but also keep your convos isolated. You need to do that anyway to build intimacy and romance.
    My wings can have very different styles than me, and often they are much more talkative than me.

  5. I bet game is broken at stage coral
    I bet game is broken at stage coral
    Going out to clubs will force you to switch out of logical/serious state.
    Basically, learn how to let loose and party without alcohol.

  6. I bet game is broken at stage coral
    I bet game is broken at stage coral
    The mind tends to function in different modes or states. Logical state is one thing, spiritual state is another thing, and emotional party state is very different from that.
    You have to learn to set aside the logical state and the spiritual state and just go into a sort of animalistic dumb party state, where you party and dance like a drunk fool (minus the drinking). That can be tricky to do if you spend 95% of your time in the logical and spiritual states.

  7. I bet game is broken at stage coral
    I bet game is broken at stage coral
    In practice advanced people are not so flexible. There are tradeoffs for being advanced.
    Personally it takes me a lot of work to act stupid. I can do it, but it's not my forte.

  8. I bet game is broken at stage coral
    I bet game is broken at stage coral
    You might be surprised to learn that your Coral has no one to date because all the girls are at the club looking for fun.
    The dumber you are the easier dating is.

  9. Online Dating - Convincing matches for dates
    Online Dating - Convincing matches for dates
    Yes, some girls will waste your time chatting but they have no intention of fucking you.
    If she is genuinely attracted she will agree to a date after a few messages. Don't waste time with elaborate text game.

  10. Online Dating - Convincing matches for dates
    Online Dating - Convincing matches for dates
    Inviting for drinks or coffee only works if she finds the guy highly attractive. It's pointless to invite a girl who isn't into you.
    If you got the looks and your pics are good, you don't need any special message game. You can literally just message her, "Hi cutie" and she will eagerly reply back. On the other hand, if your looks are not up to par, you can message her with the most clever and custom-tailored stuff, and she will ignore you.

  11. What is the minimal that girls demand from guys?
    What is the minimal that girls demand from guys?
    @StarStruck You should not try to mirror Brand. You need to find your own authentic natural style, which will probably be much more chill and laid-back.
    Chill style can be very effective. You don't have to be zany and high-energy.

  12. What is the minimal that girls demand from guys?
    What is the minimal that girls demand from guys?
    All girls are attracted to the same thing. The hotter ones are just harder to be fun and chill and detached with. It's because you feel she is hot that you start acting weird, needy, and try-hard.
    Hotter girls also simply have way more guys competing against you to get her, so your opportunities are much more limited. And since hot girls are rare, you simply don't bump into them often enough to have a good chance of attracting them. It's easier to attract an average girl simply because they are 20x more common and available.

  13. (Aspiring) freelancers: How many hours per week do you typically work?
    (Aspiring) freelancers: How many hours per week do you typically work?
    You can build your skills and get paid for it at the same time. Don't be afraid or feel like you aren't good enough. Everyone has to start somewhere and fake it a bit. Everybody has a first client where they've never worked with someone before, everyone has invoice #1. If you have to start by working for less than minimum wage just to get some experience and confidence then do that. 
    1. I don't. Websites like Upwork or Fiverr are a great place to get started and get some freelancing experience. But eventually you have to break out of them or it's not much better than being a wage slave. Upwork takes 20% for the first $500 you bill to a client... that's f***ng absurd and you'll never get rich that way.
    To be a successful freelancer you have to be a business owner and learn to do your own client acquisition and marketing. 
    To start off you can look at job boards related to your freelancing topic if they exist. The pay rates aren't that high, but it's better than paying 20% to the platform like Upwork. Eventually you want to start cold pitching companies and asking if they want to work with you. The way to get work is to just go out and ask people to pay you to do stuff. 
    Counter-intuitively, the really low-paying clients on sites like Upwork and Fiverr are also the biggest dicks and the most petty and picky when it comes to your work. Good paying clients tend to be a lot more chill and easy to work with.
    2. Writer but it doesn't matter, do what you love. I love writing. If I decided I want to be a freelance photographer or video editor or voice actor or logo designer, I could get all the knowledge and start earning $1,000/month in any of those areas in 2 months. I've actually been debating getting into voice acting just to see what it's like.
    3. No formal education or training related to my freelancing. I went to school for something totally unrelated. I have 3-4 years experience now, but when I started I had 0 days in writing aside from maybe being a little above-average at English in school.
    Here is all you need to get started as a freelancer...
    Watch like 5 hours of Youtube videos related to your freelancing skill to get a feel for what it's like and if it's a good fit for you, then find the best online course related to it that you can for $200 or less (probably it will be offered by one of the Youtubers you already watched), then make a website with a couple example pieces of your work and start applying for jobs. You don't know how to make a basic website? I didn't either. There's Youtube tutorials for that. A big part of having your own business is being able to Google stuff and figure it out for yourself. Don't let not knowing how to do something stop you from getting started or making progress. Don't let yourself say "I don't have experience" or "I don't know how" any more. You don't need a university professor for validation to tell you that you're right, you can just go learn it yourself and do it without getting permission from anyone.

  14. This girl broke up with her bf
    This girl broke up with her bf
    As always, just have fun and escalate.
    Don't talk about anything serious on a first date. You are not her gay friend.
    Never talk about exes or past relationships on a first date. And in general, don't talk about heavy negative shit.

  15. Do you take the boyfriend objection seriously?
    Do you take the boyfriend objection seriously?
    In my experience usually they are not lying. You can ask for his name or even to see a pic of him if you are so skeptical / cynical.
    Eventually you learn to just move on. Either way she isn't into you if she gives you that excuse. Although many of my wings sleep with girls with bfs on the regular. I would not advise that though. Bad karma.

  16. So I did pickup for the first time
    So I did pickup for the first time
    Going out and approaching consistently is like 80% of what pickup is. The rest is fine-tuning.
    It can be a lot of fun if you're doing it with friends.
    Solo tends to be really hard tough.

  17. Number of girls to approach on a night
    Number of girls to approach on a night
    1) Then maybe raise your standards.
    2) If you can find the girls outside the club, then why do you need the club? What is the problem?
    3) Or you can just wait till you're inside the club to start approaching. Talking to girls on the street is often not logistically sound, which is why it's better to do it inside the club where the girls are actually standing around and not running off somewhere else.
    4) When you approach you must take into account logistical soundness. It is pointless to approach a girl who is running off somewhere. You gotta approach in a way where you have a reasonable chance of hooking her and getting her to stop and talk to you. Don't just be a mindless approach machine. You must consider which logistical situations lead to success and which ones do not.
    5) Although of course you can pick girls up off the street, so don't let that stop you. Usually the best thing is to wait till you're in the club to hit on girls, then once the night is dying down, you can hit on girls outside the club as they go home. It tends to be a waste of time hitting on girls outside the club as they walk into the club -- you are better off hitting on them in the club.

  18. Number of girls to approach on a night
    Number of girls to approach on a night
    Massive practice approaching with built up state, and listening to lots of in-field verbals. Study good in-field to have example of good verbals for you to emulate.

  19. Should i just settle for average/below average girls? Confused, need advice
    Should i just settle for average/below average girls? Confused, need advice
    It's odd that girls are going on dates with you but not sleeping with you or seeing you again. This is not an attraction problem because if the girl was not attracted she would never agree to a first date. Sounds like you just need to work on your date game. You should be closing like 50%-75% of your dates.
    On dates you gotta be building deep rapport / romantic connection and escalating physically.
    Don't give up yet. It sounds like you are close to decent success.
    Can you describe your typical date, where and how it unfolds?

  20. I just got banned from a pickup forum
    I just got banned from a pickup forum
    @Hardkill You don't have to sleep with them. Just learn to flirt with them.

  21. I just got banned from a pickup forum
    I just got banned from a pickup forum
    Don't look a gift horse in the mouth
    Ahahahaha....
    You are in no position to set terms yet, young Padawan. Get good with girls first, then you can have your pick of the litter.
    You should be approaching even the hippopotami of the club to build your skills.
    Learn to flirt with grandma, then you can get with her foxy grand-daughter.
    Setting your standards too high is a big newbie trap. And I say this as someone who has very high standards. I learned my lesson the hard way.

  22. I just got banned from a pickup forum
    I just got banned from a pickup forum
    @Hardkill You're not approaching nearly enough.
    If you want to get good at pickup -- for a hard case newbie like yourself -- you're looking a 5,000-10,000 approaches.
    Move to a BIG city and start approaching for real. Get some good wing men who will keep you company and keep you motivated.
    If you're talking about terminal cancer, then you should be prepared to work your butt off to cure it. The good news is, you can make massive progressive with massive action. The problem is, so far, your action-taking hasn't been massive enough.

  23. I just got banned from a pickup forum
    I just got banned from a pickup forum
    When I was serious about it, I was doing 20 approaches per night.
    The most I did was 700 approaches in one month.
    It took me 450 approaches to get my first girl.
    Of course it's not just about quantity. Quality of approach matters A LOT. But for newbies, sheer quantity is needed to build up the quality, cause a newbie doesn't know what quality means yet.
    The whoke key to pickup is you gotta find a place where you can quickly make 20 approaches per night/day. And you can only do that in very specific areas, like a big nightclub, or downtown area, or giant shopping mall, or busy beach.
    Best places are:
    NYC LA Venice Beach Santa Monica Miami Austin Vegas London Etc.

  24. RSD Julien Pimp notes
    RSD Julien Pimp notes
    Just think what it does to your self esteem when you believe you need to stealth-weasel your way into a girl's vagina.
    What you're subconsciously telling yourself is that no girl naturally wants you inside her.
    I would do the opposite. When you have her turned on, look in her eyes and ask her, "Do you want me inside you?"
    If you do your foreplay right, she will be writhing like an eel and begging you Please!

  25. How to Own the Frame if you like Older Women?
    How to Own the Frame if you like Older Women?
    Think about it as the lens that you view reality through.
    So let’s say your “frame” is that you’re an attractive man who knows what he is doing, and so it’s totally normal for you to date women who might be older than you. She might have a different frame, i which case she sees any guy younger than her as a little boy she’d never get involved with.
    Now when these two people meet in the context of dating, there will be “frame battle”. Whose frame is the “right” frame? What is the correct way to view reality in this situation?
    Typically, the winner of these frame battles is the one with the most certainty in their frame. To “hold your frame” would mean that you remain certain in your perspective even as their frame is challenging and conflicting with yours.
    The somewhat scary thing here is that you can win just about any frame battle as long as you are certain enough. That’s basically what Donald Trump did. It’s also what a good lawyer, politician or PR agent does. You don’t necessarily need substance or truth on your side.