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Do you ever get drunk before approaching a woman?
Do you ever get drunk before approaching a woman?Being drunk actually makes one's game sloppy and ruins odds of pulling.
Maybe 1 drink is okay, but anything beyond that will actually ruin your game if you got good game.
And pulling drunk girls is a huge pain in the ass. Girls who are too drunk become impossible to pull and have sex with. Which is why guys who got good game avoid the most drunk girls. It's hard to pull a girl who cannot walk straight. Let alone the ethical and legal problems that could come with that.
Not to mention that drunk girls are gross.
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A rant against the whole rating culture of women
A rant against the whole rating culture of womenPersonally I don't like the whole number system. I mostly use it because other guys use it, in order to communicate with them.
There are actually practical reasons to use a number system. It's not done for ego. Hot girls require adjustments to ones game. A hot girl can be teased much harder than an average girl who is insecure about her looks. I can call a 10 fat. I cannot call a normal girl fat, she would lose her shit. Hot girls also tend to have a lot more sexual experience so this needs to be taken into account. These are stereotypes but there is some truth in them and making such distinctions helps guys get laid, which is why these distinctions are made by guys.
I am not endorsing this system. I am just explaining why guys use it.
I can often predict whether a girl is a stripper, model, go-go dancer, instagram model, or cocktail waitress just by looking at her body and face.
Also for example if my wing goes to a club and tells me: "This place mostly has 6s and below" I roughly know what he means and then I know it's not worthwhile for me to go to that club. It's gonna be a waste of my time. On the other hand if a wing tells me, "Bro, this place is full of 9s!" I have a reason to go. I could have reached these conclusions myself, but having a reliable wing saves me time. So it becomes a communication tool among guys. It's not totally accurate but it gives guys a general sense of things.
Yeah, a 10 is only a 10 in the eyes of the guy doing the assessment. Obviously it's subjective and guys have a wide range of types.
I have one wing who loves THICK girls with huge asses. I don't find that attractive at all personally.
I have another wing who will only sleep with small, anorexic Asian girls who are not FOB. He thinks that 95% of girls are too fat, even when they aren't. I personally think he's crazy because he passes on a ton of otherwise stunning girls. But that's what he likes. He will only approach skinny Asians. I don't find girls that skinny to be 10s, but that is his 10.
But despite those subjective disagreements, there is wide agreement among people as to what counts as a hot girl. That is why strippers and models get paid for their bodies very consistently. Everyone recognizes a beautiful face or body instantly. Girls recognize it too. Don't pretend like you don't know which of your girlfriends are bombshells. And don't pretend like you don't recognize male-model looking dudes. Our brains are wired to recognize beauty, even if there are subjective quirks in taste.
If I show a photo of a 10 to a group of guys, they will unanimously say, "God damn! You slept with her??? No way!" Plenty of guys will even struggle to believe that is possible. It can shatter a guy's reality to know such things are possible.
From a guy's subjective POV there is a huge difference between having sex with a 6 vs a 10. Many guys might simply be too intimidated to fuck a 10 even if she is begging him for it. Even approaching a 10 is hard for most guys.
You might say this is all shallow and none of this matters. Yeah, for a girl none of this matters. But for a guy it matters very much.
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Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guys
Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice GuysI never said anything about insulting women.
To have sex with lots of women it certainly helps to be really good a lying and manipulating them emotionally.
I'm an NOT saying you should do that. I'm simply telling you how sex works and what I personally avoided and sacrificed sex for.
If I wanted to emotionally manipulate women, I would have way more sex. That's just a fact. And there should not be anything surprising about this. If I was more selfish, more assertive, I would get more sex and women would find me more attractive, at least in the short-term.
The entire point of manipulation -- whether it be of women or customers or politicians -- is that it gets you way more material results than you would otherwise get. Of course there will be karma that goes along with it in the long-term.
I am not telling anyone how to behave. I am just describing trade-offs that exist.
One of my ex-girlfriends was handcuffed to a door for a month and fucked at gunpoint every night until she escaped. Extreme, yeah. But that's assertiveness for ya.
So be careful what you wish for when you want an assertive man. A really assertive man will not mind fucking you at gunpoint.
Assertiveness is like spicy food. How hot can you handle? Bite a Habanero and you'll get burned.
If I manipulated my customers more, I would earn way more money too! Surprise, surprise! Looky how the world works. If manipulation did not have massive material rewards, it would not exist.
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Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guys
Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guyshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y97vGnxrF4w
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Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guys
Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice GuysNo, but people do respect strength and follow it.
If you assemble a group of 10 random people and you are the strongest in the group, they will follow you.
What we really mean by "asshole" is someone who asserts his agenda on the world and doesn't compromise.
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Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guys
Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice GuysAutism is an over-abundance of logic. The worst think you can do to attract women is to be logical.
The formula for being attractive to women is to be illogical, brash, confident, emotional, charismatic, playful, and socially attuned. Autistic people suck at this.
You can be socially attuned without yet still narcissistic and breaking certain conventions selectively.
You need to break social conventions in a cool, clued-in way, rather than a clueless, uncool, awkward, nerdy, creepy way.
Think of the wild rockstar vs the awkward geek.
Autistic people are too serious, and this kills your ability to attract women. Playfulness is key.
If you look at Arnold Schwarzenegger, he is very playful, emotional, and socially attuned, but he can also kick your ass and be stoic. It's a special blend:
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Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guys
Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice GuysWomen's survival is already threatened in many ways that you are too naive and self-biased to comprehend.
Sweet and nice women are used and abused all the time, and have been for thousands of years. But you wouln't care anything about that, would you?
Of course survival is always hypocritical.
Survival for me but not for thee. I gain value, you lose value. That's the game of survival.
You definitely have to ignore certain narratives and build yourself into a strong man.
There is a narrative that makes men meek if they adhere to it too closely. It is a fine balancing act. Don't treat women too nicely. But also don't abuse, control, or oppress them.
Be masculine without being toxicly masculine.
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Why it is always necessary to make the counterintuitive move?
Why it is always necessary to make the counterintuitive move?If you want a different result that you're currently getting, you have to do things in new and opposite ways.
Success tends to be locked behind innovative ways of thinking. The obvious stuff has already been mined.
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Developing a unique distinct voice
Developing a unique distinct voicePractice a lot.
Record yourself. Speak out loud to yourself. Project your voice. Speak from your belly. Do vocal exercises like speaking the alphabet with various intonations. Practice speaking slow vs fast. Exercise your tongue and mouth before speaking. Practice singing. Speak about things you're really passionate about and know well.
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How to know when to approach
How to know when to approachIf you see a girl and you are willing to sleep with her, you approach. You don't wait for any approval. You don't wait for what to say. You don't wait for a good opportunity. You just walk straight to her like a missile. If she blows you off you don't care and move on to the next girl.
It is that simple. Your mind will try to make it complicated.
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How To Overcome Scarcity Around Attractive Woman
How To Overcome Scarcity Around Attractive WomanThe most attractive women are rare, by definition. Getting them is a zero-sum game. Competition is necessary.
That's not a limiting belief. The limiting belief is thinking you can't compete.
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when i kill myself, my parents won't stay back and suffer?
when i kill myself, my parents won't stay back and suffer?Brother, if you are reading this you are going to make it through, there will come a day when you are sitting in the sun naked with a beautiful partner the waves crashing and only a stillness in your mind and your heart wide open. Your eyes will swell with tears when you think back to all the things you went through and how you ALMOST ended it all, and are so glad that you didn't. You look forward to the barbeque dinner you will be having with close friends that evening and the laughter you will share. Your partner cuddles up to you even closer and her touch melts your soul. She wouldn't have fit like this with anyone else, it needed to be you. You have infinite gratitude for being an absolute warrior of life and realize that even that pain you had to go through was necessary to get you to where you are today. Even your parents have changed their ways and live in more love after seeing how much their son has transformed and the impeccable quality of his heart.
Stay strong, the world needs you.
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Need help for having successful dates
Need help for having successful datesMake a rule that when you get the urge to escalate but feel afraid she might rebuff you, just escalate anway.
Force yourself to do it as soon as the urge arises and despite any fear. If you feel fear, escalate! Force her to push you back.
And pay close attention to your urges. As a man you must be open and congruent about your desire. If you like her tits or ass, don't hide that. Own it. Wear your sexuality on your sleeve rather than trying to be proper. Accuse her of turning you on: "This is your fault."
If she rebuffs you, just dial it back a bit and retry in 5 mins.
Same mindset applies to leading. As soon as you get the urge to bounce, do it, even if you are afraid she will not comply. Handle non-compliance after it happens, not before.
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My first 3 cold approaches
My first 3 cold approachesStop caring about being blown out instantly. Just talk to more girls.
Just stop caring about all rejection. You talk to a girl and if she blows you off, you just don't care.
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Discouraged To Do Pickup After Watching This
Discouraged To Do Pickup After Watching ThisVaries too much to define.
But I'd go for something unique that stands out. Peacocking works. Sparkly and flashy stuff is good for night.
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My first 3 cold approaches
My first 3 cold approachesGood, for starters.
You're asking them way too many logical questions. Work on being more flirty and emotional.
Your first approaches will suck a lot.
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Discouraged To Do Pickup After Watching This
Discouraged To Do Pickup After Watching ThisYou need to establish a clear man-woman frame as soon as possible. This can be done verbally or non-verbally.
Sometimes I will say, "Our beautiful romance has already begun" or "Our romance will be very short but passionate" or "I'm looking for my future ex-wife".
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Discouraged To Do Pickup After Watching This
Discouraged To Do Pickup After Watching ThisThere's little point to doing so because everyone already knows it.
Usually the only physical compliments I give are: "You're cute" or "You're adorable". And I usually only say that so that she knows that I'm hitting on her vs being social/friendly. I use that to avoid getting friendzoned.
And sometimes I say it because I just genuinely find her exceptionally adorable.
There is no need to give a hot girl physical compliments. She already knows she's hot and everyone tells her that all the time.
You would have more success telling her that she's ugly.
"I like your personality, but why are you so ugly?"
"Has anyone ever told you how beautiful I am?"
"Can you handle a guy as beautiful as me?"
"Your eyes are pretty, but not as pretty as mine."
Your logic is silly because you still have to sleep with her for her to stay around. You're not going to predict who stays around, and that really is none of your business. That's up to her, not you. If she wants she'll stay around. The only difference between a ONS and something more is that the ONS is followed by a 2nd.
Stop worrying about girls sticking around. That's a needy frame.
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Discouraged To Do Pickup After Watching This
Discouraged To Do Pickup After Watching ThisDon't forget that guys are also going for the top 10% of girls.
Everyone is picky and trying to get the best mate they can land. Mating is competitive. Be willing to put in energy to compete, or get left with scraps.
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Discouraged To Do Pickup After Watching This
Discouraged To Do Pickup After Watching ThisYou become in the "top 10%" simply from leaving your fucking house and talking to girls. 90% of guys are too lazy to do that.
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How is Warren Buffett still alive eating junk food daily?
How is Warren Buffett still alive eating junk food daily?Right.
A higher consciousness organism/body/brain is also gonna be different on a material level.
It's not absurd at all. The more like an animal you are, the less your cognitive function matters, the less it matters what you eat. Optimizing cognitive function requires more precise nutrition and better health. If you work as a bricklayer it doesn't matter as much what you eat vs if you work as a quantum physicist.
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I'm confused: is pickup high or low consciousness?
I'm confused: is pickup high or low consciousness?It's pretty low con overall. But it does force one to grow as a man because it is so challenging. And there can be some high con aspects to it if you do it right.
It's basically learning how to socialize. And socialization is pretty low con overall.
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Acting Dumb= Gold
Acting Dumb= Goldhere's a hint, when interacting with a child or a dog you're going to tailor what you say to match their needs. In a sense you're dumbing yourself down but really you're being smart. It's a more sophisticated way of communication that's adaptive and less egoic. you're gonna give the dog and the child a platform for them to express themselves and give and receive what they're able to give and receive. taking this into a club environment girls just wanna have fun, so be a person they can have fun with.
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How is Warren Buffett still alive eating junk food daily?
How is Warren Buffett still alive eating junk food daily?I have wondered this myself.
Some people just have lucky genetics. Like Trump.
If I ate the shit they eat I would be dead by now.
There may actually be a correlation between one's level of consciousness and how sensitive your body/brain is to toxins. Notice that a high performance sports car requires superior fuel to travel the same mileage. High performance machines tend to be more sensitive and fragile, requiring higher precision in their operation.
There are some people who smoke a pack of cigarettes a day their whole lives and never get cancer. But are these highly conscious people? Would you really want to trade places with them even if they live to 100? Trump will probably live more years than I do, but I don't regret that one bit.
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Acting Dumb= Gold
Acting Dumb= GoldWhy do big tits work even when you know she's using them on you?