Yes.
Simple but not easy.
If you can cut out all people-pleasing behavior, even the subtle stuff like allowing someone to finish their story which you are bored with, or telling her that you think something is cool whilst you should be telling her that you don't like what she just said, or allowing her to finish her sentence whilst you actually want to kiss her, or you actually want to send her home because you want to sleep, then that's enough.
Beware that this manifests throughout your entire interaction with her from the beginning.
Instead of trying to create a good vibe and being entertaining to her, you will be amusing yourself whilst constantly judging and figuring out whether she meets your standards or not.
Always be willing to walk away as soon as she does something you don't like. Be respectful but don't slip into politeness.

Look at it this way: if you are 100% honest, you are creating enough of an emotional rollercoaster to keep an emotionally healthy person interested.
Example: one day you say you like her energy. The other day she blabs on and on about the emotional problems of her friend, which you don't care about, and you tell her to cut it out because it doesn't interest you.
That's enough in my experience to keep a healthy girl interested.
If you have to play the I love you/ I hate you push-pull game, you'll attract traumatized girls and you'll be stuck in drama for however long you're with them. So it's a bad investment to overdramatize your personality.
Your honest likes and dislikes, expressed without sugar coating, create enough emotional spikes.

Well...
1) It's very manipulative. So expect it to attract toxic girls with personality problems.
2) Bad emotions don't have to mean offending or insulting her. You don't want her too feel bad a lot of times. Sprinkle it in a little bit just for variety. But even that is pretty manipulative so be careful.
Overall I suggest you stay away from emotional manipulation as much as you can. It can lead to the dark side.
If you are just unfiltered, this will naturally results in ups and downs in the conversation, with nice emotional range. The point is you don't just want to be saying things to please her like the typical nice guy. Sometimes you say things that she may not like. But without offending her.
For example if a girl says she's from Kentucky, rather than saying, "Oh, Kentucky, that's cool" I might deliberately say, "What the fuck is in Kentucky?" -- as though I am judging her for being backwards.
See, in that case I'm being deliberately provocative and even negative in order to create some interesting emotional range.
Or if she says she likes X, I might say, "I fucking hate X". Again, to create some drama. But this must be done playfully, not too seriously. You don't actually hate anything, you're just acting up a bit to create a fun dynamic.
Sometimes if a girl tells me she's from some backwards state like Arkansas, I will tell her, "If we nuked your state tomorrow, no one would even care ;)" Usually this gets a good response. But sometimes a girl will get offended and it blows up the set.
Offending girls is bad game, so watch out.

It's like playing with fireworks. It usually works well, but then one day you blow your finger off.
99 girls can love your joke, but all it takes is 1 girl to freak the fuck out over it and you're in trouble.
Do not be too vulgar. This is bad game. You don't want to create an adversary out of the girl. You want to be on her side. Don't tease girls too hard. Girls are pretty fragile. You can easily offend them.

Be careful saying outlandish things to girls. They can easily get offended and take them the wrong way.
I once told a girl that her friend looks like her daughter (because the friend looks like 16). The girl got so pissed off, thinking that I called her old.
So learn to control your tongue or one day you will regret it.

Dude, I've had girls punch me in the mouth.
I've had girls claw me in the neck till blood was pouring out.
I've had a girl report me to the police for sex trafficking.
If you go out long enough, the craziest shit will happen to you.

No, it's status. The rest is secondary.

That's cause he was playing the status game.
Status is the ultimate way to get laid.
If you are up on a stage, girls will want to fuck you.

Sigh... these dumb viral pickup videos only mislead people about how game actually works.
Stop watching this kind of clickbait shit. Not only will this not teach you game, this will ruin your results with women.
Learn social calibration and stop saying weird awkward shit to girls. Be normal. But also be a man who pursues what he wants when he sees it.

Yes, but the man needs to have his sexual needs met. In other words you can have a bunch of platonic female friends as long as you got at least one girl who you're sleeping with and happy with. But if you are starved for sex you can't just have female friends because you will start acting too weird and needy with them and ruin the friendships.
So start by getting yourself laid. Then you can build up a circle of platonic female friends if you want. And it would be a good idea to do so because they can introduce you to more hot girls.

You pull to the biggest and closest place. So ideally a place with 2 beds. You never split a set of girls who are close friends, they will refuse it. Just pull them both.
Pulling 3 girls with 2 guys is gonna be very challenging. You basically need one of them to drop off, leave, or fall asleep. Or you can try to grab a random guy to join you two. Or you can even call a wing to come join. Once you got a contact list of local wings, you can text them and say, "We got an extra girl who needs company. Come to my place."
Another thing that's possible is you pull all 3 girls to your place for an after party. As you party with them and have fun, you take your girl by the hand and lead her to the bathroom and go quick sex there. This is a good option when there's just no way to properly isolate. Just make sure she don't regret sex with you. Make sure she wants it.
Another good option is to party with them till the dead of night, till everyone is dead tired and start going to bed. Then just follow your girl into her bed. Often her friends could fall asleep early, giving you privacy with your girl.
You could also take her to have sex in your car if you got one. Or even outside in some dark alley.
One of my old wings literally fucked a girl in Austin under a bridge.
You gotta be creative. Again, make sure she's into it.
I've had wings fuck girls in restrooms, parking lots, cars, bridges, rooftops, ice rooms, and even in the middle of the dance floor at the club. You can even fuck in an elevator.
The other option with a 3-set is do it solo so the other 2 girls can entertain themselves while you eventually walk off with your girl at the very end of the night. You just stick around with them an be social until your girls to bed and you follow her into her bed.
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Just keep looking for better wings. Yeah, sometimes wings can be very immature or inept. But you will eventually find great wings, especially in a place like Toronto.
A great way to find wings is to attend an RSD Free Tour event when it comes to your town. The best wings tend to show up to those.

Dude, Toronto is one of the top cities in the world for game. So none of your BS excuses.
You can find tons of wings and you can also game solo. But solo is very hard to start with so look for wings. Fuck your values for now. You don't need these wings to be your spiritual gurus. Their only purpose right now is to get you laid. Later you can be more picky.
The dude from HonestSignalz YT channel is from Toronto. Watch him game.
You are not going to find enlightened wings. PUAs are all around stage Orange and they are obsessed with one thing: getting laid. Which is what you need right now.

1) Just bite the bullet and go sober forever from now on. Learn to pump up your own state. This is doable.
2) Replace all that shit with DMT vape pen.
3) Combo of both, cycling.
I've never had a single drink while gaming. Never done cocaine although I've been offered it. Never done weed although I've been offered it. I've even been offered ketamine.
One of my wings goes to Zedd's after parties where they pass around trays of cocaine. But his morals are such that he doesn't do any drugs ever. And everyone there knows that. So when the cocaine tray is passed around the table they just skip over him out of respect. All you gotta do is set clear boundaries. If someone questions you why, you tell them it's against your morals.

I didn't just create websites, I launched websites, marketed them, and made lots of sales through them.
I earned lots of money doing that. Way more than a salary job could ever pay. Game designers are not paid very well. I was making $45k/yr as an entry level game designer in Boston. I was making $150k-$200k/yr off my website(s) and my partner was making that much as well. So actually the gross of our site was close to $400k/yr at its peak.
I'm not going to get into that.
It worked for me, but it came at significant cost to my mental well-being and it's not easy to pull it off. Internet marketing has changed A LOT in the last 10 years since I stopped doing it. So I cannot say what works today. The stuff that I did 10 years ago will no longer work. The internet is a different beast. But of course there are always new opportunities to make lots of money online. I just can't help you there.
But you can also make a shit-load of money in games. If you know how to develop great games.
Huge money can be made in almost any industry. Pick whichever you love most.
It's possible to make a game that earns $100 million in profit. See Stardew Valley as one example.
Minecraft made billions.

Yup, hence the need to train it.
That's easy. As long as she clears your looks threshold -- that is, you'd we happy sleeping with a girl who looks like that -- then you approach and get to know her personality. If her personality sucks then you politely move on to the next girl.
No one is forcing you to sleep with her just because you approach her. Get her number, take her on a date, see how you like her personality. Then sleep with her if you do. Otherwise you don't have to keep seeing her beyond the 1st date. This is what dating is for.
Yes, lower your standards initially. You won't be sleeping with most of these girls anyway. You gotta practice first.
If you see a Wow girl, def approach, but don't only look for Wow girls starting off. You need practice and you don't even care about looks that much.
Of course
Honestly, at your current stage you should be talking to anyone with a vagina. You need basic practice socializing with strangers.

The process is going to be so emotionally challenging for you even with great friends and wings. Without friends and wings you will quit very quickly.
The first time I went out to a club, I cried myself back home.
The point is to develop yourself into the kind of guy who can quickly befriend anyone and enjoy the process.
Exactly.
You are trying to become a social person. This means you must learn to relate to normies.
Yes it will.
Your disdain is part of the problem that needs correcting.
It will be so difficult for you that you'll need an emotional support system of peers.
I could not have done it without peers. I would go so far as to say it's impossible. And even if it were possible, it would not be desirable. Making cool guy friends is a huge part of this journey. I've met so many interesting guys who have opened my mind to what's possible.

Not 8hrs.
More like 3 hrs.
I'd show up at 11pm-2am in most US cities. In Vegas it would be from 12 or 1am to 4am.
What you do is hang out with your friends (hopefully you find some wings) and approach girls. Not 100 approaches but more like 10-20. Your goal is to hook a set and spend a lot of time in set with the girl. So ideally you spend most of your time engaged in conversation with a girl and having fun with her, then bouncing her out of the club. The point is not to be in the club till closing time, the point is to find a girl to bounce out with as soon as you can. If you can find one by 12am, then you leave at 12am. Otherwise you stay till it closes.
Also, the point is not to approach many girls, the point is to hook one girl. You approach until something hooks well. Then you work that set all night long. In the end you're just looking for one girl who likes you and is down for fun.
Alternatively you can collect a bunch of phone numbers. Then your sets will be pretty short and you will do more approaching.

Dude, just learn to handle rejection well. Thousands of girls will reject you. So what? Stop caring. Focus on the girls who like you.
Nothing wrong with sexual craving. Stop demonizing it and learn to indulge it in healthy ways. You're not the first guy born with a dick.
If you talk to more girls you will be much less desperate to need any one of them to like you.

I'm not saying you got out-competed per se. I'm just saying that attractive girls can afford to act nonchalant, picky, and flaky. They often don't need a good reason to ignore or reject you because they know some new guy will come along soon.
I slept with a girl who was brand new in town once. She barely knew anybody expect her aunt and uncle. The night after I slept with her, I drove her home, and in her house was already sitting her aunt and uncle with some random dude they found for this girl to date. He was sitting there patiently waiting for her as I drove her up. Unfortunately for him, in the car I told my girl that she should suck this dude's dick. Which basically blew him out with her. That poor dude had no idea that his sweetheart had already fucked a player on 1st date from a random approach at the mall.

Sometimes you did nothing wrong, it's just that realistically attractive girls have lots of options so they can afford to act flakey and as a guy you're just one of her many options so the odds are always against you when it comes to any specific girl. Which is why you gotta talk to lots of girls. The chances of you landing the specific girl you want are very low. It's like with fishing: if you try to target one specific fish in the lake, you're gonna be very frustrated.
Girls will almost never give you that. So you just gotta move on.

Then text her this: "??"
BTW, one mistake you made is trying to set a date on the weekend. Girls will flake the most on Fri & Sat when they are busy hanging out with friends & family. You should try to set dates for Mon, Tue, Wed -- the slowest nights of the week. Then there is less chance that her friends will grab her attention away from you.
She will always prioritize her friends over you until you have sex with her.
So the reason she's not texting you back and the reason why you won't get a date this weekend is because she is busy with her friends and you didn't think through the logistics of that properly. You should have been eyeing Mon-Wed from the beginning. And what's more, you should not set dates for Fri & Sat because those are the days you always go out to talk to more girls! Don't sacrifice your best nights out (Fri & Sat) for a date that will flake anyway. This is a rookie mistake. Thurs, Fri, Sat is for getting numbers. Mon-Wed is for doing dates.

Yes, I had to resort to it because that is what's realistically required to get laid.
The idea that you can "just be yourself" and hot women will sleep with you is childish. That's not how it works.
It's not so much that I have had to resort to games, it's that I taught myself the games that everyone else was already playing but I wasn't.
I'm not distrustful of women. I have a very positive view of women and I have no problem trusting a girl after sex. I just understand the games they play until sex.
Gaining confidence is the technique.
Haha
You frame it as though I use some kind of secret tricks to trick women into bed. That's not what I do. I just understand how to approach, how to flirt, how to be humorous, how to have fun, how to deal with loud and chaotic environments, how to deal with bitchy friends, how to deal with guys stealing my girls, how to lead, how to handle logistics, how not to get used by girls, where to take girls, how to text girls, how to escalate, how to make her feel comfortable with me, how to get her horny, how to deal with her bullshit, and how to give her great sex. These are practical skills that any guys who's serious about women needs to develop regardless of how lovable he is.
It doesn't matter how lovable you are if you don't know how to touch a girl without creeping her out.
Being lovable and worthy of affection does not get a guy laid any more than it gets a guy a house to live in. Women will not fuck a guy just because he is lovable.
You don't know how I perceive relationships. You assume a lot about me.
I talk about attraction here, not relationships.
I would not distrust my girlfriend.
Obviously.
That's from your female POV.
Yes, there is no need from your POV as a female to close fast when you got 10 dudes orbiting you, wanting your pussy.
No, the real reason is because attracting women costs a lot of time and energy for guys, and until sex women are completely flakey, uninvested, disloyal, and unreliable. I don't want to waste my time investing in women who are flakey. I got better things to do. Women don't weaponize sex, they just act so flakey it wastes a lot of time.
Dealing with that flakiness is 50% of game.
Well, that guy seem kinda weird. I'm not saying what he did was right. There's definitely the possibility of being too pushy or taking advantage of a girl. I'm all about making sure the girl is satisfied with the sex and there is proper foreplay and all that good stuff. I love foreplay.
I know guys who take advantage of women in ways like that and much worse. I definitely don't endorse such behavior from men. The bottom line is the girl needs to be satisfied with the sex. That's my rule of thumb. Make it so she doesn't regret sleeping with you. It all boils down to that.

Way too much confusion in this thread. Just do the practices. They are so simple.
It's like you're being asked to read a book on how to tie your shoelaces and then spend 90% of your time debating and doubting the simple instructions.
Pull prana up the spine, then down. Do this over and over again. The end. The rest is minutia.

There are certain dangers to activating kundalini without knowing what you're doing. Which is why you should study and learn how to do it and what the dangers are.
But also you should understand that just because you get initiation does not mean you will now avoid the potential dangers of kundalini. You can still have all the same problems even if Sadhguru himself initiates you.

Or... you could just do the simple techniques and get the results.
Why are you making it complicated?
The books tell you exactly what to do. Yet you make excuses for not doing it.
This whole thing is way simpler than it seems.