Actually, for you thirsty guys, one of the biggest boss moves you can make is once you got a girl hooked, you withhold sex for a few dates until she is clawing for it like a cat. This will build insane attraction. The only downside is you gotta truly be non-needy, which is hard. Takes skill and experience to pull that off. That's like a grand-master move.
You get her super horny, and then you just drop it and never have sex with her that night.
This is SO powerful that it borders on sadistic mind control. You can totally own her heart with that one. So be careful what you wish for ladies. You just might get it.
Counter-intuitive moves

Most people are stuck in desperate and miserable relationships that they are too terrified to leave because they know they will be lonely for years to come.
Social, relationship, and sexual abundance is a rare thing that requires serious work to build unless you're really lucky. People would kill to have it, but no one wants to do the work to develop it, because the work is so emotionally challenging. Building my social skills is one of the most challenging things I've undertaken in my life. It is easier for me to earn $1 million dollars. If I could pay someone $1M to do it for me, I would, and it would be worth it. Unfortunately no one can do your pushups for you.

Easy for you to say because it's not your job to create it.
Guy has to lead so he cannot be passive about it, he has to architect it. And that requires practice.
What you're really saying is you want a master architect who's made the process so smooth it looks indistinguishable for spontaneous.
But that's like telling a stand-up comedian to not write any jokes and do it all off the top of his head. Sounds easy, but very hard to pull that off in practice. Master comedians spend 1000s of hours training.
I've spent many many hours training my humor just so I can deploy it spontaneously with girls. Now it is natural, but man, training it was anything but natural.
Being vulnerable Sharing life stories and dreams Sharing your values Eye contact Physical touch Finding commonalities and common interests Getting emotional together You gotta learn to consciously create all that on a dime. Don't just sit around waiting for it to happen. CREATE it.
Well, of course intimacy is a relative notion. You're not going to create in 2 hours the kind of intimacy you get with a 2 year sexual relationship. Sex itself creates intimacy.
But you'd be amazed how much intimacy can be created in 2 hours if you're really shooting for it. Certainly enough for the girl to want sex. It doesn't take much for that. But of course that's still all shallow and it will continue to grow from that point.
The techniques for building intimacy are the same whether it's 2 hrs or 2 years.

That's what game teaches you.
You must approach and flirt with lots of girls until you learn how to develop intimacy quickly.
This is actually part of a larger skill set of socialization. You can learn to build intimacy even with dudes. It's a great skill to have.
My wingman and I would meet at a cafe on the weekend, set a timer, and just lock eyes with each other for 30 solid minutes.

Remember, girls sleep with a guy based on the strength of emotional connection built.
It's the guy's responsibility to build that connection.
It could take a clueless guy 2 months to build that connection. Or a guy who knows what he's doing can build that connection within a few hours. The girl doesn't really care how many hours it takes. She isn't using a clock, she's using her feelings. So make her feel something for you and she will be glad to sleep with you sooner rather than later.
It's all about the emotions. It's not a mechanical process.
It's shocking how quickly deep intimacy with a total stranger can be built. Doing so is an art that can be mastered. Most people don't understand this. They aren't consciously building deep intimacy. They just leave it up to blind luck, which tends to take a long time.
Just locking eyes with someone for 10 minutes will build massive intimacy. Yet guys overlook something so simple and obvious.

Going out solo consistently for a newbie is honestly, next to an impossible task.
Invest time to find wings and friends who will give you a morale boost when you feel like quitting.
Wings are CRUCIAL!
You need to build up a decent experience base before you are ready to handle serious solo excursions.
Even when you are experienced, solo is HARD.

Day game is only effective in certain cities and areas. There usually just aren't enough girls out during the day to make it effective for building your skill.
Night game is what you need to build skill.

Dude, seriously, this one line will get you laid like 10x more than you currently do, if you stick with the girl to the bitter end.
The magic rule for getting laid is to be next to her bed at the end of the night.
The #1 reason you're not getting laid is because you're not within proximity of her bed.
No amount of game or fancy flirting with get you laid if you are not next to a bed.
No matter where the girl says she's going, just keep asking her, "Can I come with you?" If she likes you she will almost always say Yes. And that's all you need.

Realistically most new girls you number-close will flake you. Because dating someone from cold approach is a bit unusual. Girls mostly date from social circle.
If you're pulling a girl from the club, you should almost certainly expect her to flake on you the next day. Which is why you gotta close the same night. Don't settle for phone numbers from the club. They are nearly worthless. Because the girl is in the club to party. She is not going to date your after the party, so close her that night or lose her forever.
This is not because you aren't attractive. This will happen no matter how attractive you are. The girl's mood completely changes the next day.
It also has nothing to do with the fact that you are aboard or visit home regularly.
If you are going for phone numbers, grab many numbers per night and don't party too much with the girls. Make your interactions rather short (15-30 mins).
If you're going to stick to one girl the whole night and party with her, you must pull her for sex, not ask for a number.
Decide which kind of game you wanna do.
If you danced together for so long, why didn't you go back to her place to close???
Don't just split up at the end of the night, you need to seed an after-party at your place or just ask her, "Can I come with you?" if she is going home. That one simple line will get you laid many a time. Do not leave the girl unless she tells you, Go away! Stick with her to the bitter end.
Also, don't party with her too late. You need to pull relatively early so she's not burned out from partying. The goal is not to party or dance. The goal is to end up alone with her. Keep your goal clearly in mind and don't get misled by mindless partying late into the night.

Then don't expect results with girls. Expect random adventures and nothing concrete.
Of course it's forced. You're training and learning.
That's like saying going to school to learn math is forced. YES! Do you want to learn math or not? If not, then go to the park and have fun.
You have to be ready to drop your friends and go with the girl when she hooks.
The best way to develop your game and get results with girls is: 1) go solo and be focused on girls like a sniper, or 2) go with 1 solid wingman and focus on 2-sets which you two are aiming to pull. Keep the fun to a minimum so you can keep your focus on the girls.
Just going out and having fun with friends will not get you good results with girls nor will it develop your game much. If you want to learn game you gotta be methodical and surgical about it. You're out to learn game. That is your goal, if that's your goal.
If your goal is to have fun then just do that and forget about results.
Just get clear with yourself what you want. There is no right or wrong per se.
You can also have one night per week where you go out purely to have fun. And the rest of the nights you focus 100% on building your game.
In the end you'll find that you don't need to have fun more than once a week. Maybe even once a month of pure fun and partying is enough. It will get old quickly. How many nights can you party with friends before it gets old?

Got bigger fish to fry.
Actually I have gotten some serious AMOGs lately. Guys just coming in and physically trying to steal my girls. It's forced me to build anti-AMOG tactics because I have lost several girls that way and it's annoying as fuck.
I don't know what it is, but guys in Vegas have been like sharks lately. Shameless.
No
I've hit on wives with the husband next to her, and it's fine. You just befriend the husband and congratulate him for having a gorgeous wife. Don't be a jerk to the bf/husband if he's there. You are not there to steal her.
You should be opening mixed sets and immediately asking how they all know each other, then calibrating accordingly. Don't avoid mixed sets. Those are prime oportunities. Often they are just co-workers or friends. Just don't open a mixed set as aggressively. Be a bit more indirect until you find out their relations.

I had a guy steal my girl within a few minutes after I was talking to her for 60+ minutes.
Girls are extremely fickle. It's actually very easy to take a girl in a receptive state and just transfer that state onto you. For example, if a girl is ready to fuck my wingman, I have to back off because if I game the girl a bit, she will want to fuck me. When a girl is ready to fuck, she's often willing to fuck whoever she talks to last. Her mood is easily transferable. It's quite shocking to see in action because girls would never admit this is true. And yet, it's very true at the club. Mood and state is king.
It's possible that you spend 60 minutes warming a girl up, and then some guy swoops in last-minute and all her state transfers onto him within a few minutes.
The biggest key to getting laid fast is to find a girl in the right state. You can get laid in 5 minutes that way. State is as important for getting laid as it is for awakening. If you are in the wrong state you will never awaken. And if she is in the wrong state you will never get laid.

@Karmadhi Learn to switch on extroversion when needed. It's possible. It's a mode of mind.

Of course it doesn't. But I told you that game is highly nonlinear. Your results comes AFTER you do thousands of approaches and master the skills. As a newbie you will not have good results.
You have to get her first.
And then what do you do when you lose her? Kill yourself?
Probably 5:1, maybe even more.

To get good with girls at any cost.
When you're trying to solve a serious life challenging, it's a good idea to approach it with the attitude of "at any cost". Do not think about the cost of things you really want. Just work five times harder to pay it. Some things in life have absurdly high costs which almost no one is willing to pay. This allows you to set yourself apart from your competition simply by being willing to pay that cost.
You won't really appreciate a thing unless you work your ass off for it.

It's actually very easy to do. You can just communicate and coordinate it.
Try this: tell her that she is not allowed to orgasm until she gets your permission. Train her to cum only when you tell her to. Do not be letting her cum on her own whenever she wants. This is a rookie mistake. She has to follow your lead, and your lead should delay her orgasms to tease her until she is ready to explode. This will make her orgasms way more powerful and deeper. You can also use this to extend the length of her orgasms from seconds to minutes.
Stop having lazy, unskillful, accidental sex.

Bro, most hot girls have boyfriends and you will never get them then.
Your problem is simply that: A) you don't approach enough, and B) you give a fuck about rejection.
Her having a bf is not even a rejection. It's just a logistical obstacle.
Next girl!

No doubt it works.
Because it takes a stranger time to warm up to you. By talking casually about yourself you put them at ease amd give them something in the conversation to think about and latch onto.
If they hear something interesting they will want to ask questions, and soon a deep conversation forms.
This is a good skill to practice on the airplane when you fly. Make it a goal to start a convo that lasts the entire flight long. It's doable. I've done it. It's also much more fun than sitting their like a cold zombie.
What's the best way to start a deep convo on a plane? Just start talking about yourself like the persona already knows you.
"So when we land I'm going to get a burger and a coffee. And tomorrow I'm going fishing...."
Bottom line: if you want to be a master of starting conversations you must lead them. You must do the initial heavy lifting.

That's very challenging.
In practice, you just gotta push yourself into sets and force yourself to keep them going as long as possible.
Try to make your goal to open a set of girls and talk to them for 60 minutes.
Keep your talk emotional and illogical. Telling stories is good. Talking about yourself is good.
Most extroverts are masters of talking about nothing and talking about themselves.
You'd be amazed how far you can get your foot in the door just talking about yourself like a pure narcissist.

Pickup specifically requires 1000s of hours of practice. It is a very specific and unusual skill set.

Yes, its definitely possible to heal (some) autoimmune conditions. 
Lets assume an autoimmune disease is like a civil war.
The approach of conventional medicine would be disarmament (targeted suppression of certain kinds of immune function). The obvious solution however, would be to find out why the conflict started in the first place. This is the regime of complexity medicine. 
The nature of autoimmunity is that the underlying cause is usually highly individual, multifactorial (many factors come into play) and combinatorial (risk factors combine and create new emergent properties). This is a big problem because the best tools we have to find out "what causes what", namely epidemiological analysis and clinical trials, get exponentially worse to the degree of complexity that is involved in the studied phenomenon. Thats why we are really good at treating acute, monocausal things like bacterial infections or heart attacks - but we kinda suck at finding out why the body of a person with Lupus oder Crohn's disease basically starts killing itself. 
I got involved in this couple of years ago when I met a guy who reversed his neurodegenerative condition with a complexity approach. He suffered from a pretty nasty case of MS (Multiple sclerosis), which would have destroyed his quality of life & cognitive abilites in a matter of months. His neurologists told him that they basically cant do anything to stop it, that this is  his fate and he should learn to deal with it. Long story short - he became an expert in MS, read everything there is to read about it, did some complexitiy medicine testing - supplemented with high doses of certain drugs & vitamins, got rid of the mold exposure in his house and some other toxins - and COMPLETELY reversed his condition. 

There are a lot of cases like these.
Now, that said, - there are a lot of charlatans working in this field. So if you suffer from an autoimmune condition, be careful. Go out there and look for alternative approaches, but dont be naive about it. There are some doctors who specialize in complexity medicine (like me), but we are extremely rare. If you can find one who is willing to work with you, then this is like a golden ticket. 

Also, lets not badmouth the mainstream approach. Immune-modulating therapies can be a life saver and such a wonderful tool for some patients. If you come to me with an accute Crohn's disease-episode and you have been basically shitting blood for the last 5 days, everything hurts and your life is pure hell - trust me, you want that Cortisone-shot.

In the spirit of Leo's latest video, a big chunk of the video he talks about conflicts of every type; family and friends conflict, war conflict, conflicts within academia even, but also mentions body conflict and autoimmune deseases where essentially body attacks itself because it is in conflict with itself.
Now that we're aware that autoimmune desease is actually because body is "fighting" itself because one part of the body wants domination over another, from big picture perspective, can something be done about it? Can we make it stop being in conflict with itself and make peace within itself? 
I can bet we can find a story in some part of the world where one was able to cure such deseases.

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You will ALWAYS have that fear. That fear is not going to go away no matter which location you go to.
It takes 1000s of approaches to start to get fearless. Until then, expects lots of fear. Approach despite the fear.
Bus, sidewalk, cafe, mall, store, school... it's all the same.
If it looks wierd it's because your mind imagines it so, and also because you are doing it in an uncool/creepy way. When done well an approach is never creepy or weird, regardless of location.
You can even aproach a kissing couple on a park bench and have fun flirting with his girl. It's all in how you do it.
You can even approach while she is with her mother and father and flirt with the whole family! Again, this requires some serious skill, so don't start here.
The best location to start is bars and clubs because you can get away with a lot less skill and there are 10x more opportunities so you can blow up interactions without worry. During the day time you need to be much more precise than at night. Day time presents much less opportunities so you gotta strike with precision and skill.

1) It requires A LOT of practice, which requires SERIOUS motivation and vision
2) Finding a few local wing-men is a game-changer. It's very hard to start solo. You need at least 1 experienced wing-man who's into approaching girls and is serious about it.
It takes 1000+ approaches to start to get comfortable with it. And it takes 5000+ approaches to get good.
Tired?? You haven't even begun yet

The James Bond approach is too passive. James Bond is a fictional character who magically attracts the best pussy by just standing around and looking sharp. This is every guy's FANTASY. It does not work in the real world unless you're a celebrity. An ordinary guy has to be much more active about approaching girls and dealing with lots of rejection.
When there are 200 guys at the club, if you just stand around acting cool, waiting for a girl to notice you, you'll get nowhere because nothing about you stands out and other guys are being active and emotionally stimulating the girls. The girls want to be emotionally stimulated.
You'll get more girls by being silly than acting cool.