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@supremeyingyang I don't mean to complain about your advice but why does it feel like you are dumbing it down for me? I understand that material things can be important but why does it seem like your advice is too materialistic and too limiting? It also seems kind of random. It also does not seem practical like signing up for something myself when there is school or reading a book that I don't have the proper card in Russia to pay for. Keep in mind that I'm not quite living on my own just yet. Also, what do I do if my mind goes blank? Are you suggesting that I write about why it's hard to understand me? There was a video posted on the forum (not Leo's video) a long time ago about technical problems that can be fixed when it comes to the ultimate common place book but forgot to watch it. I plan to move all of my notes (digital and analog) after creating my Ultimate Common Place Book because I can never finish them since my mind goes blank when answering the questions. Also, it will take some time with getting use to taking cold showers. I can Google how to do it for now but I will let you know if I think I need your advice but feel free to tell me how to do it.

@supremeyingyang I appreciate your response! Why is it that you only respond to the most vague and generic part of my post?

@Danioover9000 Try highlighting it, that's basically what I did.

@supremeyingyang I cannot move forward with my poor routine. Every morning I have a craving of personal fantasies that I don't know how to fulfill and my mind is either rapid or not focused throughout the day. It's like I'm addicted to thinking and more thinking about what I would like to do just makes things worse. How can I get unstuck? It distracts me from meditating too which is probably be the solution and yet my awareness of it while meditating is probably not there and it feels like I'm not meditating. How do I open about and actually be clear about what I think about and why I think it that distracts me for quite a while every morning? Btw, I said that my life was not worth living if I remain unfocused that creates a bad working life and that I predict that my life will be miserable and it's difficult to fully explain why. I reap what I sow in this sense that if I give problems in a cli she way, then I will get that kind of response in this scenario. It isn't really about making the right descisions as this point, it's about escaping stagnation with what I'm doing with my life.

@Osaid If I already watched the video and your text is repeating Leo's advice, should I stop asking for solutions on the forum?

@spiritual memes VPN cannot bypass Russian phone number information. Also, I'm not so concerned about my homework. That was just what started the post.

I've accidentally created duplicates of bookmark categories and was wonderig if there is any way to merge them. Should I use the contact section about this?erge

The timeless now is eternal so wouldn't that paradoxically mean that eternity would include all finite time?

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@Terell Kirby Well said.

I tried VPN to access ChatGPT but my Russian phone number is preventing me from doing so. Is verification through phone number protecction against VPN? But Spotify didn't need it to detect VPN, at least not the free version. The fact that websites are being blocked is kind of stupid because of VPN.

Before I send you this, my phone is at normal size. Also, do you think that I will get reliable feedback on reddit? Do you think that this forum is good for this topic? Now, I need you to help me deal with my anxiety with homework. How can I work on it without feeling overwhelmed or not working hard enough? How do I know if I need help and how do I want it? Now, I would like your feedback on what I said and the response I got. Please take the picture of my phone into account before judging the length of the screenshot.

No worries, help is on the way! The survey seems kind of complicated though.

@UnbornTao Btw, where do hidden files go on the forum? Can they be unhidden? I apoligize for calling those trolls idiots. I deleted the video because it doesn't belong with my YouTube channel. Does Leo appoint moderators?

@UnbornTao I shouldn't have edited my post. It would have been easier to have text with the PDF file. I want to know what Leo says to make the advice actually work. Maybe I already know what he said and that I have all of the advice I need but I'm not sure. Anything from the Life Purpose Course that could help me with this? Videos, excercises, worksheets? Also, trying to find my passion distracts me from my work.

@Ayham I would agree, if action doesn't work try theory and vice versa. Knowing what to look for can still be a challenge with so many options.

@UnbornTao The YouTube video may or may not be related to my reddit post. This post was beginning to be created at about 5:00 AM and this is basiclly the best thing that I can do right now since I won't be able to complete all of the projects that are due today. I had Thanksgiving break which caused the projects to pile up and screwed me over. Distance learning could at least get me to do more work at home. I try to get things done at school but the assignments are assigned later on in the day, i don't have enough time, or help is unavailable. There wouldn't be that much of a difference between distance learning and the homework assignments piling up on Thanksgiving break because of the difficult assignments that I would have to work my ass off for to complete since I still didn't make any progress. I could have gotten help but the reason I don't is because I value my solitude too much which is very problomatic and thus resulting procrastination by myself since the assignments were too difficult to do by myself. Video games are NOT the main reason for my procrastination, there is some underlying condition that I am unable to address and that I am playing video games a lot less especially during school days. I will just explain what happened yesterday: So I got home from school and was really tired because I haven't slept the day before with the same scenario during the time this post was created. I then got up at about 6:30 PM I believe Share this Link X SHARE LINK permanently? You said that me thinking that I need to get things done would result in procrastination. Can you please briefly remind me how this is true and what I can tell myself instead? I wasted my time watching your videos but it seems like nothing would change if I don't watch them so I don't really know what to do. It may not have been a complete waste of time since you mentioned about the topic of binge watching YouTube which was other content that had nothing to do with productivity and that I need to deal with my negative emotions or that they will deal with or control me. What does this actually say about the limitations of free will? Do my emotions limit my free will if I don't deal with them? How do I know if I have suppressed emotions? If I have them, why are they there, what actually happened, and how do I deal with them? There is just this lingering negativity whenever someone else is at home, why does this happen? I am also less likely to meditate because of that even if I am left alone and that I don't know how to explain why I would want to or how it could help me even though I know for myself. I mean it's not like I have anything to hide. The problem with bad time management has been a consistent problem, what do I do? 2 ♡ 2 2 Comments sorted by Best v Leave a comment AutoModerator 95d Thank you for posting on r/Healthygamergg! This subreddit is intended as an online community and resource platform to support people in their journey toward mental wellness. With that said, please be aware that support from other members received on this platform is not a substitute for professional care. Treatment of psychiatric disease requires qualified individuals, and comments that try to diagnose others should be reported under Rule 7 to ensure the safety and wellbeing of the community. If you are in immediate danger, please call emergency services, or go to your nearest emergency room. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. Vote Reply + Sheeepl 95d Ok so there's a lot to unpack and I don't have advice to all of what you're struggling with, but I had just read a book about better work habits so I could mention some stuff that I personally found very helpful. Maybe it could give you a new perspective too. (The book is called Järki Töihin by Sami Paju, so not in english) 1) I think the main points of this book are that wanting change without having a clear reason, plan, and reflection. There's no point in trying out techniques, like the pomodoro technique, if you don't reflect on what's working and what's not. 2) instead of focusing on the end goal (for exapmle: I want to get an A from this exam), focus on the acts that will get you there (for example: study for an hour every day). This is very helpful if goals are overwhelming and you feel very disappointed if you don't reach them. 3) Write down what you want to change and why. Who and how it will benefit. What is on the way of that goal. What can you change, in the environment for example, so you can achieve that goal. 4) create a plan how you're going to change your habits. Have a timetable and slot the most important things there, max 3–5 things. Then you just have to show up and work the slotted time, no matter if you get ready with it or not. Give yourself more time than you need, so if you have a day you can't get anything done you won't fall behind. 5) Reflect. At least once a week, once a month and once a semester. Go through things you've done and look at notes you've made. What has worked and what has not? Best parts and worst parts? Then make changes according to your notes. Rinse and repeat. 6) TAKE TIME TO REST! Rest is not a reward. It is a neccessity to keep your body working. Take breaks during the day when you can, and sleep at least 7 hours. I hope these are some help.

@UnbornTao Aren't you able to watch the YouTube video?

@UnbornTao Sure thing, I'll make sure that you can read the screenshot and my response. The response might be something that I already know but needs to be put into practice. I think that my pursuit of passion can be interfering. I can also send you a video from Dr. K because he might have responded. It seems like I have all of the feedback I need but just in case, I will send these things to you.

My computer is unable to find the IP address for websites in general so I have to use my phone. If the forum is working on your end for the forum, then it's just bad design on mine. I have an entire history with technical difficulties. Also what is up with how the forum looks on my phone? I can't even tell what is going on with the subforums.

Anyways, can you please just give me some constructive feedback for less anxiety?

@thepixelmonk Look, you have to believe that I have proof that my phone is smaller than you think: The video is unlisted, only those with the link can view.

The pictures show that the phone fits in my hands!

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