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I want to get a girlfriend. What is the best option: Tinder or cold approach? I live in Brazil, I'm average looking, 29 years old, a little skinny (70 kg), 186 cm tall, and I work out a little at home (I do pull-ups). I'm shy, so cold approach would be pretty tough if I choose that route. I'm a white latino. My Instagram profile sucks, no pictures (just the profile one) and only a few followers. I'm a med student, and all the attractive girls in my class already have a boyfriend. I really want a cute girlfriend. What is the best strategy for me?

Not just a low value man, I would dare to say that if you aren’t in the top 5%, or lucky enough to have had a high school or college crush who really liked you and eventually became your girlfriend and later your wife, dating as a man is pretty hard. A average man have to deal so much with rejection. Most women can't even imagine what it is really like.

If you want to guess my politics go ahead, kind of curious to know what you will say.

I won’t keep answering anyone here on this thread anymore since it took a completely different direction from the initial intention. I hate talking about nationalities and ethnicities.

Even though race is a complicated matter in my country, I consider myself white, my parents and grandparents are all white. And I'm not talking about olive-skin Italian type or southern european type. I want my son to be like me, tall and white. In the end of the day it’s just survival, I think. I mentioned Russia because usually tall, beautiful white women in Brazil are more difficult to get than in Russia, I think mixed-race and black men in Brazil are obsessed over blonde white women.

I know, I'm not proud of my preferences, it feels almost dirty, I feel ashamed of it, but I can’t simply ignore the truth.

I have multiple women interested in me, the problem is they are not attractive to me. The ones I really want, usually young, white with german descent, for example, are tough to get. And I almost don't have any social circle. This will sound very low development, but being honest: I want my kids to be white looking and tall, so I won't settle to any girl. Maybe I will be better off traveling to Russia, I think I could be considered pretty handsome over there but idk I'm just waiting to get my degree and have some money.

Yes, make sense.If a woman leaves you for another man, she just wasn't the right one. I don't think my thread had this obvious answers. But maybe you are right. What vibe exacly do you get from me? You can be honest

@Leo Gura But trying to get another man’s girl isn’t corruption? And I’ve been heartbroken in the past so many times, I can’t take it anymore lol

@Leo GuraThere is this one cute girl in my class, we keep flirting to one another, but she has a boyfriend. Even though I'm sure she is attracted to me, I'm pretty sure she won't leave her boyfriend for me. Should I keep flirting with her or stop? I'm afraid I will get seriously heart broken

Yes, I will be looking for some good ones. That's a pretty high level of corruption right there. Usually backfires I think. What is your opinion on this @Leo Gura ? Santa Catarina state.

Thank you, nice advice. Yes, the lack of social circle is one big problem, i consider myself kind of handsome ( maybe I'm delusional lol) but I'm pretty lonely, I have no friends and don't interact with women outside med school.

Thx, I'm going to check these out.

What videos do you guys like the most? Well, I haven't seen all of Leo's videos, but there are some that I really love, maybe because of the phase of my life I'm in. The ones I see a lot of value in are: Why Truth Is The Highest Value What Is Fake Spirituality? The Psychology Of Being Wrong 250 Traps Of Life - The Psychology Of Traps Understanding Gaslighting - An Advanced Explanation The Avoidance Of Truth - Why You Fear Truth How Survival Shapes Who You Are Spiral Dynamics - Stage Red How Corruption Works How Ideology Works

@WonderSeeker Yeah, I've seen it, it's pretty good too.

@Leo Gura It’s better to have free speech like in America than regulated speech, as in most parts of the world. How can anyone be trusted to decide what counts as hate speech? Never underestimate the capacity of people to call north south, and vice versa. I study at a public university here in Brazil, and if I expressed most of the things you say, for example, that humans are naturally hierarchical or that women statistically care less about truth, I could face consequences for “hate speech.” You guys in America often take free speech for granted.

True. As someone from Brazil, I can say this place feels like a hellhole. The U.S. is a paradise compared to here

@AION Are you seriously comparing plants to complex animals with nervous systems and significant consciousness? That doesn’t make any sense.

"Radiocarbon dating has established that the shroud is medieval, and not from the time of Jesus." Wikipedia

How stupid do you have to be to believe in that? Every nation wants the power to impose itself.

Does anyone have experience with it? Especially using EquityZen platform?

Maybe you’re right, but I can only speak from personal experience. And every time I overlooked gender differences, it ended badly.

But not experienced as a masculine man, by the way, I don’t even like to talk about these subjects here because @Emerald seems like such a good hearted person.

Yes, my experience is similar to Leo's. Most women don't really know what they're talking about in this regard, because they have zero experience dealing with women from a sexual point of view.

Maybe one of the few things both you and Trump have in common.