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Yes but it doesn’t mean it can’t also be healthy.

- Mango -cherry tomatoes -raspberries -pineapple -fresh dates

What I know is that health organization around the world either support veganism or say that there aren’t enough studies yet to come to conclusions. I think vegetarianism gets a lot more support. But you also have to take into account that when you make recommendations for society there will always be stupid people who don’t properly plan their diet. And if you recommend to them a diet that is limited, chances will be higher that they will fuck up. If you have limited choices of course you gotta take them. We have unlimited choice now. Just because something worked in the past doesn’t mean it’s optimal for the future. We both are. Same as you. The cows that you eat don’t get their B12 from grass, they eat pills as well lol.

Yeah meat tastes good. Doesn’t mean it’s healthy or needed. That’s not what the literature says. A well planed vegan diet is healthy.

For 9/10 guys that’s the case. If you are really attractive as a guy you will get all the girls there.

@vladorion @KH2 you are so funny ?

I am interested in knowing it pretty bad but I am also still somewhat comfortable with the illusion. Probably in the future my interest will grow strong enough. But I would like to loose my sense of self right now.

I thought they are the same because the spiritual practices like Neti Neti go after the I. So is the no-self awakening also the awakening to solopsism?

Is realizing that the "I“ is an illusion also the realization of Solopsism ?

Like a buddhist no-self awakening ?

Yesterday in theatre I got a lot of make up and looked super girly. I didn’t resist it, I played with it a bit, flirted with myself in the mirror, just played girly a bit. And my heart fucking exploded. In accepting the female part of myself I gained so much compassion for females. It was so relieving to not have to play "macho" all the time. Can see how people who do it long enough hate on masculinity not because they actually hate masculinity but because they hate the pressure of having to act masculine and not whole.

I have a male friend who made a transition where he rejected many of his male traits and adobted many female traits. He wears make up, a dress and his personality is all in all very soft, social and recessive. He told me that he hates all male traits. For one I feel like he can compensate his lack of male traits with female traits which most guys can’t and second he probably has some kind of bad experiences with toxic masculinity or problems with integrating them in a healthy way. So a lot of shadow. I feel like it’s also a problem that most male role models don’t actually represent the good side of masculinity. If you take Andrew Tate as a "prime example“ of what masculinity is then yeah I would hate on all males as well. The first time I felt in love with masculinity again was in The Witcher series.

@Loba I feel like it’s partly because men aren’t allowed to be weak by society. How can you build compassion for others if you aren’t even allowed to have compassion with yourself (crying)? Also society dictates that men should be dominant, successful .. so if they grow up that way and gain power well then it’s hard to hold back and not use it. We are very opportunistic, so if we have a opportunity to gain something relatively easily we are biologically wired to do it. For example is an antelope more ethical then a lion for not killing and eating a zebra? No it’s not because it doesn’t have the opportunity for it. I am not saying that there aren’t problems big problems with men in society. There are but 1) it’s not completely their fault and 2) women aren’t innocent just because they don’t have the opportunity to be guilty in ways that men have.

The porn thread was meant to teach really good sex. Lol you can watch porn anytime, it’s not like the thread would have suddenly opened the gate for it. If you watch that porn instead of low consciousness porn you probably heal your mind by that ? You can click or not click on the specific thread which is called "GOOD PORN MEGA THREAD“. The blog is meant for everybody.

Putting a picture directly into it is way more explicit. I just wanted to read Leos blog and got traumatized by the exposed female breasts which showed up all of the sudden, I wasn’t prepared for that and there was no trigger warning. At least by my post it was clear what was coming. The only way that post made sense was to share the porn directly.

My post got instantly banned for example although I really wanted to provide value with it. It’s a double standard, either both should be allowed or none.

@Leo Gura So do you think that the next level of spirituality will be to not just realize yourself as god but to realize yourself as the godliest version of god?

Did he have the intention to test you and then his friend gave him the idea, or did he just express his fears to his friend and then his friend gave him the idea which resulted in the intentions afterwards? At least he admitted it. He could have just kept it a secret and got away with it. Means he has at least a bit of honesty. I mean it’s hard to express your fear that someone might leave you because it makes you look super insecure and the other person like a slut and therefore probably increases the risk that something like this happens through law of attraction. Still it’s a red flag for sure. You should have the right to feel disappointed. He should feel that he overstepped a line and that he will loose you if he does it again or something similar.

So I have a good friend in mine which I want to help but don’t know how. He is in his early twenties, a virgin and has a lot of self hate because of his childhood (his dad left him at a very joung age and his step father treated him like trash). It’s so sad because I experienced the little glimpses of him when he was without worry and I see so much potential in him as just a cool, thoughtful, romantic, funny and good guy. But there is just this thick layer of worry and trauma that directs his life. So I want to find out: 1) how can he get a gf ? My thoughts so far: -I don’t think cold appoach is the right thing for him because he doesn’t have the self love to go through the whole process -He doesn’t have the looks for dating apps (I would give him low normie looks, but he is above 6 feet) -I think social circle would be his best option. How can you build one up from scratch though, he has almost only male friends? 2) how can he start healing his trauma? My thoughts so far: -He doesn’t want to do therapy because he says that he thinks that he won’t be able to heal anything anyway so the therapists time would be better spend on people who are actually able to heal. He said it in a kind of joky way that he would only feel valuable enough to go to therapy if he was the kind of person who wouldn’t need it which is incredible funny but doesn’t get him anywhere. - He is just a little bit open to psychedelics and wants to do them at some point in the beginning of semester break. So maybe that’s an option. -MDMA ?

Great, thanks! I will look into it myself a bit. My only concern would be that mdma becomes to addictive to him. He doesn’t want to do therapy but maybe it’s also because he doesn’t see the value in it. So this could be of help. RSD is great but it requires a lot of commitment to follow through. I feel like he would need a personal coach with that. My experience with these people is often that they are really stage orange and also don’t see the "metaphysical love process“ in healing oneself which I don’t like. My friend has a good amount of stage green in him. That’s great, especially the one with Tyler probably but I think he has enough theory. I think its more about actually starting with something for him. Oh god that’s so much gold all at once.

So I don’t know if this is allowed (I know sexual pictures are not allowed) so if it’s against the rules I will delete everything immediately. What I recently discovered was good porn. Not just "quickly bust a nut porn“ but porn with a lot of depth, feelings, art, fun. There is so much to learn from it. So I thought this could be a great place where we can share high level porn and review sites. Here is the one I found pretty good although it lacked dirty talk: This feels super duper forbidden haha but honestly it’s just porn. We all watch it and it doesn’t do any harm lol.

Wouldn’t it be much more clever to do a hero dose of dmt or 5meo if that’s available then a hero dose of lsd because of the length of the trip? I mean after you realized god a dozen times and feel like you can take everything then yeah why not, but the potential danger in mental harm and suffering you can do with a 10 hour horror trip just seems too big.

I wonder if that is the kind of material one should contemplate to reach absolute love because they show perfectly that all of the "hate“ or"not love“ is just pure love actually. Depressed darth vader is hard to beat in beauty but I have something that hits similar which is Ellie from The Last of us. It’s so obvious that all her inner anger, hate just comes from the hurt she went through. Her hatred towards the world is directly correlated to the love she has for the people that got hurt or killed. So when she is full of anger, she is actually full of love. It’s so beautiful. Even though it’s all very tragic, there is a part of myself that wants this tragedy because it is so beautiful.

A relationship often becomes a lot deeper then your connection to your closest friends or even family.

Don‘t know but what I would do is to learn to become a sex machine. You have a girl you can probably bang every day now so take that chance and learn to be really good in bed. If you know that you are really good in bed you gain a lot of confidence.