Jannes

I am feeling scared for some reason.. AFTERWARDS!?!?!?!?

So this night today got me thinking a lot. I was unhappy today from an ego perspective. I noticed the past couple of times how I got more and more complacent. The people around me are a result of that. Its not like they are toxic people but I could aim higher. This one girl also gets a little cheeky, she acts to be close to me I think to get a thrill out of it which is a bit annoying. But its not like I am bound to here, I would just need to go to different people. For some people I created space though which also plays into it. Also saw three of the people of my old theatre club today. And it brought this whole vibe of back then again. I had a low status position there and I just play right into it again. That and I also feel pressure to basically be cool. They had a little smirk when they saw that girl being a little close to me which triggered me. I shouldnt give a fuck about it but I do. At some point to get out of my usual routine I made a short discovery round which made me feel like I am in control again and increased my vibe. Generally I want to be more proactive simply because I enjoy the experience more this way myself. The moments before the summer break when I was really feeling myself was when I was very active. Also saw the one girl who showered me with love the last time. She looked more attractive today pushing over the edge. She left early because of work but told me she would stay longer next time so she would be there for me. I liked that with her as well but again she was way more active then me. Which makes sense because I am usually not that active. Really what I am contemplating is what I have to do to grow my confidence.

At least you can turn off smartphones, so you arent literally 100% glued to it. I dont feel the vibe, but I will be interested to hear of other peoples experience with it.

I seemed to have saved that or at least made it okay again. I dont have access to all my trauma of course but I can learn to identify it and then when I notice that it comes up choose to take a strategy to go about it, like waiting until the storm is over, otherwise it will pull me in.

I was kinda scared to go today. Quite a lot of social situations needed handling and I wasnt really feeling it as I was pretty isolated the last couple of days. But this turned into one of the best social evenings yet. ____ Some observations. There were a few attractive new girls there and I didnt want to approach them yet, as I hadnt reached a social state yet. They werent immediately picked on though, this isnt a hardcore environement, a hot girl can just chill there on here own for a while. But one guy approached this one girl. He was the guy who already got a girl another time where I felt a little jealous. He definitely got some pick up energy. Felt jealous again. He had his girl there though, but she seemed to accept, they likely have a poly thing going on. Another girl wanted to hear my story about the girls there. I told her the story. It was weird, I usually only open up to people close to me or to randos haha. Afterwards I felt much more comfortable at the social place interestingly. The artist girl has a boyfriend. I find it likely that she wanted to test the waters a little at least but she does have a lot of friends, including male friends.

What is weird is that I wasnt really interested in sex recently even though my mind was constantly planning around it. I didnt actually feel horny. But now recently it came back a bit. I think it has to do with opening up more socially. I read somewhere that for women they need a safe space and emotional stability to open up, maybe its the same for me.

Just had a tiny Déjà vu. Understood. My mind has a tendency to get side tracked because of neurodivergency, I try to be mindful of that as this is not the first time. However the story of how he got rid of the gun seems weird and that has to be said.

This guy seems to have found the bullet in the recording which couldnt have come from a shot from the front but from the side as the guy in the other video says. Time stamped it for ya.

I really need to test adhd medication. All I need is an EKG first. Its too late to call anybody, when I sleep to midday I dont get to work in time.

I just noticed yesterday how much adhd I actually have. At impro acting we needed to follow the plot closely in a game and I could maybe follow for 2 seconds.

Socializing really does feel satisfying to me. Not sure how far this will go but lots of happy emotions emerged from connecting to people recently.

I am at the process of changing my studies atm. In moments like this there is always a lot of stirring going on. I felt bad for not taking on math for example. Right now I feel strong emotions towards acting, well not acting in particular, acting in theatre. Even in spaces where we do act, I think I am often the one who takes it most serious. I am still in the process of opening up. I might just find my talent a little to late. Welp as a hobby the theatre is always open.

Body doubling session can be scary. I can become very calm and collected and then some underlying emotions can come up. Besides social anxiety this can be a reason why I avoid it so much.

This remote viewing thing is a convenient distraction for me. When I am honest with myself I really fear looking into what kind of job I might want to do, so as long as remote viewing is a possibility I dont need to confront that reality. This is another reason to look at it quickly. But its not like I dont just huge growth from socializing atm.

I feel like I built some social momentum. Like I am waking up already feeling kind of social and it isnt as strenous to socialize. I would have loved to have that phase like 6 years earlier but better late then ever. Heck I am still young.

Wow.. Good on you for opening up about this.

Curiousity, understanding, spectacle. People in rome watched gladiators and animals slaughtering themselves for entertainment. I didnt get a thrill out of it, but I was only shocked mildly which I found interesting as I literally just watched a recent murder.

If Trump dies JD Vance would take over. Would he be even worse then Trump? He wouldnt be as popular but maybe more competent.

I have. Definitely left a picture in my head.

Always wanted to see a Walmart from the inside. Holy shit is really has everything. I hate the soil though, that completly destroys the whole vibe. If it had carpet or even just some nice pattern, it would completly transform the whole look.

In this case I agree.

You dont just have a half frown though for no reason.

Listening to News everyday didnt work for me so I subscribed to News Channels on WhatsApp. That seems to be working fine for now, hope I will keep it up. Anyone doing the same? What are some valueable channels to subscribe to? Would be interested in a variety of channels, from far left to far right to better make sense of it all.

I UNBLOCKED YOUTUBE NOOO Gosh I want to do serious acting.