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Alright that makes sense. Also in my experience, how something starts largely shapes the dynamic that is to come. If you "gamed" a girl that sets up a power dynamic in the relationship.

Whats your experience after the attraction phase, is game or love & empathy superior?

Thats not Leos speciality

The more distance I get from my thursday social spot, the more balanced and by myself I feel. Well .. also just socializing a bit less is also good.

I want to use body doubling today to not do stuff, but to have a place where I just regulate my emotions. Just be. I need to go to the gym before though Ugh .. , but I set myself that goal. Already drank the energy drink.

I was just reading some porn and noticed that in the back of my mind I was processing so much about my life. Its the stimulation I got which helped me to move through some stuff. Interesting.

It clearly sticked out to me as well as probably the most polarizing one. If I said this openly in public in front of feminist women I think I would get lynched. I agree with what was said though, but the phrasing was possibly not careful enough. Obviously people, including women can be victims of crime as there is realistically only so much precaution you can do in life. The story of the beauty and the beast is deeply rooted in unconscious survival though. Women get attracted to strength and dark triad men have exactly that. A women has the responsibility to go against her unconscious survival instincts and not reward these toxic men. As long as women reward inappropriate behaviour they play a big part in the spreading of toxic men. If a toxic men gets massive amount of pussy should the other men be like "Oh he is such a douche, I wouldnt want to be him even if it would get me laid massively."

I slept too long today and feel kind of dizzy But wait, isnt dizzyness a quality of dreaming? Is the sleepy me dominant right now? At one point Leo said something along the lines that dreaming is nessaccary to balance out the rules and structures in our sane world. Found this really profound.

I did something selfless and got away with it I dont believe that god does not exist

Thats a cool ass shirt.

Much good advice so far. Its true that its not all on you to find out, in most cases when you just express interest girls will make it clear to you when they have a bf. And its also okay and when pulled off right can even be attractive to be a bit more ballzy. For my situation atm I like the subtle approach more though.

Thats a good strategy. I get the impression that with some wit, this can be quite a powerful tool. Actually I asked a girl a week ago where she left her boyfriend today (a dude who seems like her bf who is usally with her). She didnt deny it so I got my answer. Not really subtle but way more subtle then asking "DO YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND".

Well .. I wasnt really interested in her so that event yesterday was actually the right outcome.

Cut my beard in frustration. Well the 2mm. It's the first time I went clean shaved for maybe 1 or 2 years. I wondered how it would look by now, maybe I look younger or my jawline improved or something. Well no, turns out my beard was already very well groomed and clean shaved doesn't look well on me.

Whats Happening is interesting in my brain. Right now I don't give a shit anymore that we didn't vibe that well. I feel like I should have done it regardless. Survival pressure is overtaking me.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!!!! I have way to much built up energy today. I was too late tonight to the game night. Came to see a bunch of attractive girls leaving. And then a girl I know quite well left alone with some dude. I knew that I wasn't interested in her but still .. over time some kind of comfort and interest did built up. I just feel like shit right now.

Imagine a relationship where partners share their chats. They couldnt hide anything from each other. Or at least a good chunk less.

Either way looks matter a lot

Thanks I remember that he repeated that the strategy in many of his actions was to give the women the feeling that this is something special and that there is potential for something romantic. And its a book about getting laid a lot, not on how to develop a relationship. I cant remember that he said what you are saying. Its been a while since I read the book though, maybe you are right. Okay then its very impressive what he came up with for the time. But then it should be more seen as a good project of its time which is outdated nowadays. I also doubt how many things in the book work if you dont have the looks of Mysterie.

What is that supposed to proof? I am speaking about averages. I also know girls with less social skills then men or women who sleep around and never develop feelings for guys, or women with a lot of leadership qualities and so on..

Is this some economic model that you are describing, or did you come up with it?

Women have more estrogen in their body so they feel emotions stronger and are more sensitive to emotional signals. I have a trans women as a friend and when she took estrogen she said that she experienced how all these feminine aspects came naturally to her. Also that women have a vagina and have a physically weaker body then men brings them into a different survival situation where its more important for them to have a social safety net and so there is way more pressure on them to develop social skills.

For the feminist list I would add that its unrealistic to expect men to be as capable as women in feminine aspects. Of course men can be sozialized in more feminine aspects as well and that will improve their ability, but on the whole men will never catch up to a womens natural ability for empathy, social intuition, connection to emotion etc.

Had a short talk with my adhd-doctor yesterday. I was kind of afraid of telling her what's currently going on but we didn't get to that. She told me that she would recommend that I could take adhd medication when socializing because that would solve my flirting issue where I seek dopamine from the stimulation of flirting. And she is right about it, when I had a longer phase where I took Elvanse my socializing went very different, all the problems I usually had were gone. But also nothing happened, I felt boring and all the usual flirting which makes me feel like I am wanted was gone. And the big thing is of course how it affects my remote viewing. Which I don't really know. I think I become less sensitive. But it also feels more doable because I can regulate my emotions better. Atm it's 1-2 hour fight every time. Got a new ADHD medication now. I am going through all of them basically which is super cool.

Love the art in this fan