Jannes

I connect very much through sharing psychological insights.

I was on fire at impro today. Likely due to my adhd medication medicinet. Concentration isnt good, never was with medicinet. Energy is good though.

My explanation was a little short and oversimplistic, but I am not talking out of my arse, its a thing: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Resource_curse

Hehe and that strategy itself is selfish. Yeah good point.

Lol a girl from the old theatre club I had a clash with (not the most recent one) shared a WhatsApp Status with me. All good now, or a mistake!? It gives me a bit of comfort though.

I think society would run much better if people were actually selfless. Selfishness can be beneficial for the whole or damaging. Scamming people for money, delivering fake products, lying, cheating are all selfish things which dont benefit the whole. If I develop a great product with the intention of making lots of money, thats beneficial to the whole. Higher forms of selfishness include more parts of others.

Its beneficial for the elites to give society good living standard as that will make them more productive. In countries where the economy runs on natural resources living standards are usually very low, as it doesnt help or even hinders the elites, as a strong population could overthrow the government.

A great idea for a movie would be the plot that feminist women created a magic pill which cured all men of toxic masculinity. ONLY NICE GUYS HURRAY!! And then see what would happen to that society, to relationships, to attraction. Who could predict what would happen though..

I see it like drunk driving. You are responsible for a crash because it is to be expected that you wont drive well intoxicated. But the alcohol also has autonomy in this situation. I see your point. But also even if the alcohol has autonomy, when the bottle clearly has dark triad printed on it you take a risk. This is pretty complicated. I think responsibility comes down to who has power. And women do have a lot of choosing power, so thats their part of the responsibility. Oh yeah Yeah its true that dark triad traits attract not the highest quality girls but also some kind of power display is required for basically every girl. I dont know a girl who is attracted to Mr. Nice Guy who wouldnt hurt a fly. I hope I am proven wrong some day though. This is a deep struggle of being a men btw. , keep up with the bad men in power (confidence, competence) but then not use that power in a bad way. This is interesting.

I just commented on the good style a girl has. I said that she looks stylish and her friends look stylish and her boyfriend looks stylish. I wanted to figure out if they are still together. If I had no information I could have said and I bet your boyfriend looks stylish too. Sneaky ehehehe

I am in this situation quite frequently but never know how to ask without being super obvious and direct about it. Need some tipps.

Dont have any time left to do the body doubling and chill.. This sucks, I made it quick in the gym but with cooking, cleaning and so on time was flying. Well tomorrow is another chance.

Quoting this here. I think its a bit much to ask to click on the link and then to go back here again. But girls are partially responsible for the schemes existance. If they turned down toxic men then there would be far fewer of them. Of course men could decide not to be toxic at all .. but then they wouldnt get a partner ..

Believing something means you dont actually know it. If you knew it you wouldnt need to believe it. Where did I have this from ... Fu...

Alright that makes sense. Also in my experience, how something starts largely shapes the dynamic that is to come. If you "gamed" a girl that sets up a power dynamic in the relationship.

Whats your experience after the attraction phase, is game or love & empathy superior?

Thats not Leos speciality

The more distance I get from my thursday social spot, the more balanced and by myself I feel. Well .. also just socializing a bit less is also good.

I want to use body doubling today to not do stuff, but to have a place where I just regulate my emotions. Just be. I need to go to the gym before though Ugh .. , but I set myself that goal. Already drank the energy drink.

I was just reading some porn and noticed that in the back of my mind I was processing so much about my life. Its the stimulation I got which helped me to move through some stuff. Interesting.

It clearly sticked out to me as well as probably the most polarizing one. If I said this openly in public in front of feminist women I think I would get lynched. I agree with what was said though, but the phrasing was possibly not careful enough. Obviously people, including women can be victims of crime as there is realistically only so much precaution you can do in life. The story of the beauty and the beast is deeply rooted in unconscious survival though. Women get attracted to strength and dark triad men have exactly that. A women has the responsibility to go against her unconscious survival instincts and not reward these toxic men. As long as women reward inappropriate behaviour they play a big part in the spreading of toxic men. If a toxic men gets massive amount of pussy should the other men be like "Oh he is such a douche, I wouldnt want to be him even if it would get me laid massively."

I slept too long today and feel kind of dizzy But wait, isnt dizzyness a quality of dreaming? Is the sleepy me dominant right now? At one point Leo said something along the lines that dreaming is nessaccary to balance out the rules and structures in our sane world. Found this really profound.

I did something selfless and got away with it I dont believe that god does not exist

Thats a cool ass shirt.