Jannes

What if the 100 kids couldnt survive on their own if they werent thought and protected by their father? Lets say its black and white and the men is a survival machine and the women is there to raise kids, then only the dad could really teach their kids any surviving skills.

Thats a pretty huge claim to make. Can you back that up?

I give him the benefit of the doubt that this was a rhetorical joke where he made fun of himself. Gotta fight fire with fire Bra..

I see.. Are you open to or have tried online theraphy? Some sort of club can work well. Like anything worthwhile Its threatening at first but can then turn into a solid anquer. I tried a table tennis spot for example and it worked out great for me. Its just chinese round where you play and dont need to talk immediately and you meet people step by step. I am sure there will be some options near you. Have you really looked?

Lol, I sorta had a variation of that thought again. It was another sor of sacred space I visited and where maybe met people and which was pretty dangerous. And it was connected to the girl in the old theatre club as well. What sort of psychological phenomena is this that it keeps reinventing something? When there was a situation where I didnt go for it with her even though I needed comfort and warmth so much. I trusted some godly intuition there, like either I trust my intuition or I will forever fall into fantasy land.

The humans closest relatives are bonobos and chimpanzees. And I can both in humans haha.

Wached the whole thing. The men did better but its not like the black and white story as the video suggests. Both groups struggled to make a fire and the guys needed to use glasses (what a cheap trick) to get the fire going where women managed to do it with pure oldschool technique. There were like 3 incident where someone of the mens groups could have gotten killed, the women were never in danger. Both groups lost a ton of weight and couldnt have maintained this. Even in the mens group there were only a few guys who managed to hunt anything of substance, most of them were incompetent. The men killed a croc which is very impressive, but the women group still managed to overwhelm a big pig and kill it which isnt that easy and takes balls to do.

There is an utalitarian argument to be made for it to be okay. How many people are in a full stadium? 60k to 100k? For many this is probably the event of the day/ week. And a persons life is limited in days. When you get 80 years old, thats like 29k days. So if everyone went home after the incident and wasted a day of their life, that would be about 60k to 100k days, so about 2 to 3 lifetimes wasted. My point is obviosuly overly simplified, but I think it gets the point across.

I wasnt meant to contradict the main point. But its interesting to consider and makes the situation a little more nuanced, as its not super black and white as women evidently can be helpful in hunts.

There are videos on youtube of a dude living with a huting tribe in africa for a while. When they were hunting baboons, the women were part of the hunt as well.

Its supposed to be the last non self driving car from tesla. So to go out with a bang.

The whole block sounds pretty logically coherent and thoughtthrough, so its not easy for me to find anything obvious you havent considered yet. But I will try my best. Do you have a therapist which specializes in autism and child sex trafficking though? This seems like the most important thing. How do you feel at the different social spots? Do they make you feel better or more lonely? I know they have a logical purpose, but that is only true to the extend that it actually helps in practice. Oh, that complicates things. On the one hand it sounds reasonable to start with some inner work beforehand, theraphy and so on. On the other hand you said that the help there was limited and THIS would be a way to move forward. Do you meet a decent amount of girls on a weekly basis? That would increase the chances you will find someone where you are comfortable laying your fears besides with. A change in scenary can work wonders. How would you finance university though? I heard that in the States you need to pay a lot. Oh and do you have a journal on this forum? It can help with processing a lot.

Well, Russia is pretty untouchable if it threatens with nukes. So militarily it cant be beat. And if Russia stopped the war, it would have a lot more resources to stabilize the economy. Also there are still asshole countries trading with russia. So I think its likely russia will pull out its spikes, lick its wounds and carry on a lot weaker then before with worse living standards but not taken over. Maybe in the long game you could trade nukes for trade benefits with russia.

This goes in the opposite direction of this thread, but I am interested, is this "Will we or won't we?" also about (casual) sex or romantic only? I feel like the longer I know a women the less horny, adventurous and impulsive I get about it. Though the connection deepens ofc.

I dont have much experience with being very selective about women with whom a relationship or something sexual is unthinkable. I had a female friend before who was way less attractive then me so based on that I thought it was clear nothing will evolve but she also catched feelings and got pretty sexual. I was bad at setting boundaries so the whole dynamic got pretty akward in the end. Maybe if I was more clear from the start it could have worked out. I also heard from guys who had good experiences with lesbian girls. Or maybe a super attractive girl out of your league. But maybe you catch feelings for her then..