Jannes

Need a break from RV right now, but it feels bad to not finish today session, like I dont feel free which is what I need.

He asked if we want to make another meeting, I think he felt that I was kind of on the brink of quitting. Which I kind of am. I have got a mind with a lot of thoughts, I cant change that fundamentally.

I just had an insight during my rv session with my trainer. What if I look for something like rv as something that is not possible to do, or where it is very easy to find ways to unconsciously sabotage oneself from archieving success, because I have got some deep inner conditioning that I want to verify? That thought kind stopped me in my tracks during the session. The session was kind of a disaster. My trainer told me the whole idea with the troxler effect isnt doing shit, the effect can kick in while I am still in my head. His trainees regularely try to find strategies to try to solve the problem of not being able to remote view with some coping strategy. He listed some that I had in mind as well, like a moving dot.

Yeah thats also what I thought -- and europe, aligned with the US, feels the second wave of negative emotions perhaps. I wonder if you could measure a connection between the degree of alignment between Europe and the US and the degree of negative emotions associated with China. Europe is untangling from the US, perhaps it feels less negative emotions towards China now..

China is all of the above but instead of smaller countries which can be controlled or cut off if nessecary, china is super powerful and has a lot more room for action.

Today I had a day to relax and be on my own and interestingly I didnt take it. I rather wanted to go out. Thats not an introverted thing to do at all.

Gosh my city is such a bad place to meet people/ my bubble is too small. All it takes is one night with different people and BAM I have new dating opportunities. Should go to different places.

Yesterday I chatted up a girl I wanted to talk to every time there is games evening at the social spot once a month. It was going great. She looked super duper hot. And she is 26 which I didnt expect, she looked like she was in her early twenties. Absolutely perfect, she got the looks and probably more emotional maturity. But then she said she wanted to see her friends at karaoke. That was kind of a break, I sat beside her afterwards, didnt have something to say immediately and kind of lost the momentum. She didnt seem super talkative as well and I was looking for signs she wasnt interested in me. Didnt help that she sat next to girls I was flirting with before so I couldnt sit next to her there.

Pen and Papers was so much fun again today. We played for 5 hours and I could actually concentrate throughout the whole session because I was active all the time. That is such a big takeaway, for me to to be able to concentrate I need to be active.

Got a short text in my letterbox saying that I should google deploited husbands. The vibe I get from it is "durr damn women"

A friend of mine completly cut his air down to 1mm and he wears complete black. He looks like a nazi from the books minus the nail polish and piercings. Damn that was pretty difficult to go through the city with him, we got so many looks. He didnt seem to mind though. If I want to get a buzz cut I definitely need more colour then just black lol.

What Disney didnt fuck up in Star Wars were the last episodes in season 7.

I like what they did with darth maul. There was a lot to loose, Maul was epic and mysterious in star wars 1 and the story that he survived the fall didnt make no sense. The story in clone wars was epic enough to make up for it though. Now the show Maul - Shadow Lord was still pretty good but its getting a bit much.

Example that comes to mind is a dude going into a bar with a guitar saying "he only does it for himself".

Appearently our impro group got pretty popular on social media. Like a video of ours got like 60k views. Not sure how to feel about it. Well I am certainly not above the sin of pride. But it doesnt do anything for my happiness. The key trap I need to avoid is pretending that its all authentic and I am not doing it for likes, when it is only a show, to instrumentalize my authentic will to authenticity as a way to create more attention/ status. Lol, I feel like every deadly sign can work as a routemap to find traps in your own mind.