fabger

@NoSelfSelfWhat is the distinction between game and pickup? Im curious.

@Buck Edwards It's still not a rule of "men". Confident dudes won't be aggressive in a situation like that. Some will, sure.

@Buck Edwards Not really. The confidemt ones won't puff chest because a guy is talking to their gf. Being agressive is not core masculine instinct. If you get overtly agressive then you are just a loser.

Thank you this puts things into perspective.

I wanted to reply sooner but Im still busy with mononucleosis lol. Yes that's a good observation. I find it really hard to accept that I create my problems. For example alcohol makes my social anxiety go away. I just dont care what others might think of me. But as soon as this bullshit illness is over I will try to take action on this.

I graduated college this year with a 2nd useless degree. I cant get a 9-5 job, even though I have an internship of 2 years. I only get rejected from job interviews. I feel very pathetic. I dont have any friends. They all ghosted me this year on insta or messenger. I only have my family left, but they wont live forever. My love life is nonexistent. Since 2017 I didnt have a proper gf. The closest I came to this year was drunk sex after going out. But zero connection. All I encountered this year was rejection, unless I was drunk. My self esteem is shit, even though I visit a psychologist and take meds. On top of all this rn Im pretty sick after a trip to Turkey. I really hope it takes me away. My future looks very bleak and dark.

@UnbornTao

This is why you need to stick to socializing irl as Leo always says. IT WORKS! OLD is pointless and demoralizing for most guys.

AI is still not human. I quote Leo from a while back.

Chatgpt can't give you real life perspectives. Chatgpt doesn't meditate and stuff. And GPT is boring. Unlike @Keryo Koffa lol

You can try to program the concepts into your mind without the course until then.

@Sugarcoat introverted, cautious, doesnt like being exposed, passive. I know the self is supposed to be an illusion but I havent experienced it yet.

@Sugarcoat My core personality makes it hard to socialize in general. Socializing and pickup is something I have to do to have a dating life. You can't get around it, especially not as a hetero guy. I always have to force it a little bit. (Unless alcohol is involved but you can't just be drunk all the time lol)

@NoSelfSelf Leo's reply was actually what I need. To make it more fun and learn more on the way. Your comments make zero sense.

Ok lil bruh