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@vibv I wanted to post this😤 But seriously I was considering a Phd cuz Im finishing up my MA degree. I decided not to. You wont find Truth through peer reviewed research papers.

1, I can hardly make myself to work on my MA thesis. I dread writing. 2, I want to socialize and initiate with people more but Im both undermotivated and scared of people at the same time. I cant even get started with girls.

@Past-Philosopher-562 just avoid CSJoseph's content. He has a toxic cult around the subject. I was a member of it before I found Leo's content.

Objectivepersonality on youtube is a good source

Travel, pick up several hobbies both introverted and extroverted, do some sports, learn cooking, try art class. At least this is what I would do

It may sound like a silly question, but where and how exactly do YOU socialize with other people? Do you meet people through hobbies or is it spontaneous like a club? I plan to do some radical socializing after I'm done with my MA degree so I'm trying to gather some perspective. Another question: Do you have a lot in common with the people you hang out with?

This is the craziest documentary I have ever watched. A bit hard to stomach. Stage red at its worst. The cannibal warlords of Liberia🇱🇷 https://youtu.be/OMwI5unlK9M?si=4CFQ-WTJc7p7zRlc

I got so addicted to blackpill content that my inner game progress has completely deminished even though I once managed to turn things around. I just cant convince myself that the blackpill is not true. I see so many evidence that looks are the most important to women. I even payed for a stupid face rating service I'm so ashamed of myself.

@vibvA lot of things. But she has to pass a looks threshold otherwise I dont feel attraction. Which is not very high.

Wheat waffles. He gave me a pretty low number which I believe is not true based on dating experience, then told me to buy his 20 $ looksmaxing advice so I can become 2 points higher and attract girls LOL

@universe Then much love <3

@universe Was that supposed to be an insult?

@Dioxide2533 I didn't mention that I'm neither bad looking nor a virgin. However blackpill content still fucked me up. But it still makes the most sense for some reason.

And how significant are the results?

Sweden has the highest quality of life among your listed countries. Individualism is high, although the people are radically different than people from Iraq. They can be rather cold and introverted. Muslims are welcome if you are one. My parents and grandparents couldn't legally migrate to the west before the fall of the iron curtain so I can sympathise. I'm from Hungary btw.

@Razard86 Big picture understanding/raising consciousness. I'm a bit worried I'm not practical enough. Meditation is my only selfhelp habit.

This book is crucial for understanding pleasure and happiness. Also, it explains what dopamine ''detox" is actually about. It got me motivated to take cold showers and excercise.

This just came out. https://youtu.be/ye9OkJih3-U

To me they seem a bit contradictory. Which is more important?

I'm an introvert with some dating experience who wants to start approaching and socializing. I wasnt sure of the ethical side of cold approach so I turned to Reddit.(Exredpill sub) They disagreed saying its weird and not okay to do, unethical. Now I feel guilty and uneasy around this subject. Victim mindset is coming back. I'm hoping to get some advice knowing this is probably the sanest forum on the internet.

It's on the core concepts page. Is there a video about it?

This should be very important in all areas of life

I know it's hard in the digital age to socialize and deal with women face to face but there is a trend among young men such as myself (23M) to subconsciously blame women for their lack of success with them. You dont have to be an incel to do that. The MANOSPHERE as a whole did way more damage to guys psyche than did any good. Of course your looks matter, but you still NEED to initiate with women, such as everywhere else in the biological kingdom. It would seem obvious, but I see a lot of ,,blaming the opposite sex" type of content on this forum. I know it can be hard out here, but there exist a ton of below average looking men who still date and stuff just because they initiate and socialize. You have to take responsibility just like Leo says. These ,,pills" got me to pretty dark places even though I had success with women and I'm decent looking.

YES!