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@Leo Gura Do you consider yourself more spiritually gifted than Ralston? In the domain of talent.

Group about topics concerning Hungary. Here is a short docu about Orbán, the Hungarian Trump. Great case study.

This book should be the foundation on how to transform your life. Mindblowing. I was getting mindfucked every 10 minutes reading this book. Basically the entire mechanic of the game is explained. If you can truly grasp what's being said this will 100% put you in the right direction. P.S.: You shouldn't skip other books though that's not what I'm suggesting lol

@Leo Gura Hungaryyy

Lol so true. Incels create their own suffering by mystifying sex.

Sooo I've been nightgaming since november consistently. Thanks to GG I found some great wings but they are not always available. Today I went solo. Because of approach anxiety I made 0 approaches today. I feel pretty lame. With wings I can make at least 5 approaches a night. It's hard to admit but I pussied out today. Maybe someone can give me some actionable advice. PS: Im the guy who wrote the I fucking hate doing game post. My perspective changed since then. Yes, game can be very fun. I know Im on the right track at least.

@AION I know below average looking PUAs. They have it harder, sure but they still get laid. When I go out and i'm insecure they get more attention (I'm average). BTW if you are below average in the looks department then it's important to create some niche appeal. Falling for the blackpill will ruin your chances.

@NoSelfSelf It builds on elightenment but it's very practical. Youd don't need to be enlightened to read it.

@NoSelfSelfWhat is the distinction between game and pickup? Im curious.

@Buck Edwards It's still not a rule of "men". Confident dudes won't be aggressive in a situation like that. Some will, sure.

@Buck Edwards Not really. The confidemt ones won't puff chest because a guy is talking to their gf. Being agressive is not core masculine instinct. If you get overtly agressive then you are just a loser.

I graduated college this year with a 2nd useless degree. I cant get a 9-5 job, even though I have an internship of 2 years. I only get rejected from job interviews. I feel very pathetic. I dont have any friends. They all ghosted me this year on insta or messenger. I only have my family left, but they wont live forever. My love life is nonexistent. Since 2017 I didnt have a proper gf. The closest I came to this year was drunk sex after going out. But zero connection. All I encountered this year was rejection, unless I was drunk. My self esteem is shit, even though I visit a psychologist and take meds. On top of all this rn Im pretty sick after a trip to Turkey. I really hope it takes me away. My future looks very bleak and dark.

Thank you this puts things into perspective.

I wanted to reply sooner but Im still busy with mononucleosis lol. Yes that's a good observation. I find it really hard to accept that I create my problems. For example alcohol makes my social anxiety go away. I just dont care what others might think of me. But as soon as this bullshit illness is over I will try to take action on this.

@UnbornTao

This is why you need to stick to socializing irl as Leo always says. IT WORKS! OLD is pointless and demoralizing for most guys.

I hate doing game Im an introvert. Unfortunately Im not part of any community or social circle rn. Life happened. I started doing nightgame not so long ago with some minimal success. But it sucks I hate it. I just want a normal relationship like normal people. Last night I almost got into a fight with some loser who acused me of something I didnt do. Its a bit too much.

AI is still not human. I quote Leo from a while back.

Chatgpt can't give you real life perspectives. Chatgpt doesn't meditate and stuff. And GPT is boring. Unlike @Keryo Koffa lol

You can try to program the concepts into your mind without the course until then.

@Sugarcoat introverted, cautious, doesnt like being exposed, passive. I know the self is supposed to be an illusion but I havent experienced it yet.

@Sugarcoat My core personality makes it hard to socialize in general. Socializing and pickup is something I have to do to have a dating life. You can't get around it, especially not as a hetero guy. I always have to force it a little bit. (Unless alcohol is involved but you can't just be drunk all the time lol)

@NoSelfSelf Leo's reply was actually what I need. To make it more fun and learn more on the way. Your comments make zero sense.

Ok lil bruh