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@AION I know below average looking PUAs. They have it harder, sure but they still get laid. When I go out and i'm insecure they get more attention (I'm average). BTW if you are below average in the looks department then it's important to create some niche appeal. Falling for the blackpill will ruin your chances.

@NoSelfSelf It builds on elightenment but it's very practical. Youd don't need to be enlightened to read it.

This book should be the foundation on how to transform your life. Mindblowing. I was getting mindfucked every 10 minutes reading this book. Basically the entire mechanic of the game is explained. If you can truly grasp what's being said this will 100% put you in the right direction. P.S.: You shouldn't skip other books though that's not what I'm suggesting lol

Sooo I've been nightgaming since november consistently. Thanks to GG I found some great wings but they are not always available. Today I went solo. Because of approach anxiety I made 0 approaches today. I feel pretty lame. With wings I can make at least 5 approaches a night. It's hard to admit but I pussied out today. Maybe someone can give me some actionable advice. PS: Im the guy who wrote the I fucking hate doing game post. My perspective changed since then. Yes, game can be very fun. I know Im on the right track at least.

@NoSelfSelfWhat is the distinction between game and pickup? Im curious.

@Buck Edwards It's still not a rule of "men". Confident dudes won't be aggressive in a situation like that. Some will, sure.

@Buck Edwards Not really. The confidemt ones won't puff chest because a guy is talking to their gf. Being agressive is not core masculine instinct. If you get overtly agressive then you are just a loser.

Thank you this puts things into perspective.

I wanted to reply sooner but Im still busy with mononucleosis lol. Yes that's a good observation. I find it really hard to accept that I create my problems. For example alcohol makes my social anxiety go away. I just dont care what others might think of me. But as soon as this bullshit illness is over I will try to take action on this.

I graduated college this year with a 2nd useless degree. I cant get a 9-5 job, even though I have an internship of 2 years. I only get rejected from job interviews. I feel very pathetic. I dont have any friends. They all ghosted me this year on insta or messenger. I only have my family left, but they wont live forever. My love life is nonexistent. Since 2017 I didnt have a proper gf. The closest I came to this year was drunk sex after going out. But zero connection. All I encountered this year was rejection, unless I was drunk. My self esteem is shit, even though I visit a psychologist and take meds. On top of all this rn Im pretty sick after a trip to Turkey. I really hope it takes me away. My future looks very bleak and dark.

@UnbornTao

This is why you need to stick to socializing irl as Leo always says. IT WORKS! OLD is pointless and demoralizing for most guys.

AI is still not human. I quote Leo from a while back.

Chatgpt can't give you real life perspectives. Chatgpt doesn't meditate and stuff. And GPT is boring. Unlike @Keryo Koffa lol

You can try to program the concepts into your mind without the course until then.