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Everything is God's plan. There is a lesson to be learned in every situation. Luck is just another name for trial (to learn some lessons and grow) or another name for grace (for what goods you've done till now and you deserve this gift) . It can be both at the same time as well. It's not an accident; remember master Oogway "There are no accidents".

It is great. Ask yourself who is the One asking these questions here? Are you the one asking? Or can you observe the one asking these questions?

Well that's debatable. I don't see relativity as absolute.

Yes I agree with you. It was just about the stealer stealing the bike not the one whose bike has been stolen; but let's forget it all. I'm sorry if I sounded mad no apologies needed my friend.

Yes for sure. But This knowledge doesn't give anyone free pass to do wrong things. Let's leave it at that.

No I don't want to be mad at things. Let's forget it.

I don't think that way.

This doesn't sound good to me.

This I could agree. Yes.

I don't know man.

Yes sure. I just wanted to prove that greed is a thing. Sure stealing for your hungry kids can be a topic of debate that's why I emphasised on stealing for your own selfish desires is greed.

Well yes. But that's a big if. You might think you will be joyful no matter what you do. But that may not be so close to the truth.

I think he is saying if you've made a mistake you can get over it and not dwell in the past; it's okay you didn't know much better at that time. Not that you are allowed to do everything thinking you are going to get over it in the end.

Well this just says it all. If you stole someone's bike you would never feel good about it if it was just for your own sake and if you have enough wide perspective bigger than yourself. You could try it if you don't believe what I said. Try stealing from someone something just for your selfish desires without considering them and their feelings. Let's see how you're going to feel or what happens to your properties by others and how much they consider your feelings when deciding to do something.

So I'm allowed to hurt others then for my own happiness or pleasure?

Haha yes; me too. It is a good song.

Well that's just like saying as long as you feel good you are allowed to do anything you want.

Doesn't work that way my friend. I'm talking about the example you just made.

When you want more and in the process it also hurts others or it takes their rights to also have some away from them then we say that's a selfish thing and is therefore greedy. What do you think stealing is? Greed is just that. You wanting something that is not yours is the definition of greed. Take for example a guy wanting the girl of another guy or vice versa; now isn't that just greed?

Lol. This was exactly the song that went through my head when I read the title of this topic.

Without a doubt. For sure. It's a law of the Universe. The Universe is Intelligent and is Just and is Balanced. There is no other way for The Universe to be.

I lost everything. I have found myself. Rumi

Of course he is free to choose to do it or not. Nobody can take away his freedom to do it or not away from him. But for sure you and a lot of other people do not want him to kill himself because you love him and you will be hurt if he chooses to do it. You still can tell him about these and in the end the decision is his to make whatever you do if unfortunately he decides to still do it remember that it's not your fault you did everything you could to prevent it. But when it's still not happened yet let's try to prevent it from happening as best as we can. Tell him you'd miss him if that happened and all the others who love him will also miss him and be in pain maybe he'll change his mind. Don't put any pressure on yourself just do as your heart says in helping him.

When you die in your dream you wake up in reality. Similarly when you die in this life dream you wake up to The Ultimate Reality.