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To the human mind God's work can be mysterious. To the Godhead it's perfectly logical and reasonable. God sees things the limited human mind can't see which makes it mysterious for the human mind but not for God.

You do not know what happens after suicide don't just think or assume it would all only be good after death.

God is not without control God has the ultimate control over everything the ego is the one not having ultimate control and lacking it immensely; not God.

I see a lot of people who come into the world of spirituality subscribing to the idea of not judging anything or anyone at all like it's the moral code of spirituality nowadays I myself am guilty of this in the past so I actually am not misjudging someone here to be above anyone But this notion of you should not judge anything or anyone including yourself at all is not right let me break it for you to see what I mean Suppose you say I should not judge let's see what you are doing here When you say I should not judge you are actually judging the act of judging itself You are judging the act of judgement Saying judgement is not right or it is bad You see? It is contradictory Now I'm not saying it's impossible to not judge of course it is possible you can do that but the thing is if you are against judging for life then it turns out to become a judgement itself so if you want to go full circle you should stop being against judging and not judge the act of judging itself Suppose you don't judge yourself at all then you can do whatever you want without any consequences sounds nice doesn't it? Exactly my point you could become a selfish devil always forgiving yourself for everything thinking you could do whatever and not taking responsibility for anything Yes you heard that right sometimes you should even blame yourself for your mistakes that's the way to grow from your mistakes You can only make righteous judgments when you take responsibility and for that you actually should even judge yourself like if you did something bad you shouldn't deny it you have to acknowledge it to be able to go beyond it; Self judgment and Self reflection is the key to Self knowledge And not only about yourself when your judgment becomes sharp and right you can see the consequences of everything better and judge others better and righteously too but you have to start with yourself the key to knowing others is also first knowing yourself I hope I was clear in this because the ability to make right and just judgement is very much needed in society today I feel like a lot of societies problems are because people have lost their ability to judge rightly as a result of subscribing to this non judgmental ideology but let's face it most of the times it's just an excuse for the one subscribing to this non judgmental ideology to think they are free to do whatever they want without any consequences it's actually a selfish and devilish motivation for the ego That's why I decided to talk about this and represent this idea of righteous judgment back What do you think?

That's a high level of compassion right there you my friend are very lovely thank you

Ah yes you said it better thank you

@Yimpa Well sometimes rules are needed aren't they? otherwise we would have lived in a rule free world already by now People can't always be fully trusted specially when everybody has their little egos; The devil is working he's not resting

@Leo Gura Of course Leo I'm saying sometimes we need to use it We don't have to always transcend it If we didn't have judgment at all we would do stupid things without considering the consequences of our actions; right judgment is what is making us wise But of course we sometimes have to transcend it too I'm with you on that I just want to present a balanced and realistic perspective As Persian sufi poets said every point has it's place and time

@Keryo Koffa Have seen it great stuff exactly these kinds of videos led me to this text I've written here Because I had concluded in the past that judgment is no good and always must be transcended But when I let go of my conclusions about it and questioned my assumptions I reached yet again another new conclusion You could say a new more nuanced conclusion was born

And God won't let you to get in until he asks who are you wanting to get in and you answer I'm you there is no me it's just you As Rumi once also said Two I's won't fit in one house

Definitely check out Dimash https://youtu.be/mLG8g2ooFSA?si=eOhwzjozecYJv5Xw

Could be why not? But don't think about it now Somethings are better left unknown until it's time

You are precisely right my friend It is true The Quran sayings are definitely true The Bible also says pray to me and I shall give you what you want the doors shall open for the one who knocks And I see you are into sufism so here's another example from a sufi master (Hafiz) who also has this poem Although You won't be given connection to him through effort But O heart try and do efforts as much as you can God comes to you but only if you first have this want for him to come to you or you could say He opens the door for you but only if you knock on it This is also the first Vadi in Attar's seven Vadis of love "Wanting God" Without the first want and desire for God you can't go onto the path So you're right just keep knocking on God's door and the door shall be open to you one day

@Brent Rothwell Make sure to not come off as rude or a dick Just make sure of this and be aware of your words and behaviours That should do it for you

@fopylo The question is are you attracted to her or not? I'm thinking you are by the way you have written your words here And it's okay if you want to hit on her do it But also I would say is to not let her treat you badly if you don't like the way she treats you That's it

Yes for God literally nothing is impossible what would be impossible for God? Of course God (Your True Self) has no limits whatsoever The thing is though how close or far away you as a human being are to your true self aka God

6 words "Loss of a sense of wonder"

@r0ckyreed That's it you're right on this Also try this thought too If everything is relative then this exact absolute statement that "everything is relative" is also relative and not absolute isn't it? Huh That's some food for thought

@bringa What do you want to feel inside? Love? Emotions? What types of emotions? That's the question for you to contemplate on

No one is weak for life If we were weak for life we wouldn't even be born in the first place The fact that we are here says we were chosen to live life Don't worry when you have no relatives and you are all alone in life then life tends to make relations between you and strangers whom you didn't even know before and they will become your help and comfort in life and you wouldn't feel alone anymore trust me Here in this forum this is also a very good example of what I've just said and we can be your friends and relatives for the rest of your life

You my man need to talk to God in your alone time about all of your problems I'm serious try doing it Ask for help from God And trust in him that he hears you and knows everything about everyone and be patient You will get better I promise

@thierry Hold on a second When you don't know for sure anything about after your death how could you make such a decision so fast? Do you think everything will be butterflies and raibows if you just kill yourself? Don't be stupid you don't know a damn thing what will happen to you Just be scared a little about it and don't do it Be scared of your limited knowledge You don't know best to not do it I'm telling you

@Agrande One thing I would say to you is Do you want to go to your final destination now or would you rather help some people who are in pain and need help in your way to go? Because there is still pain and suffering in the world; you going out of it could make it more painful and sorrowful because someone may need you and you may be able to help someone anyone while you are alive you could at least ease their pain and suffering Which one is more meaningful do you think? The choice is yours to make

@Something Funny You just endure the process of life I promise you the more you endure the hardships and sufferings of life the better prizes are in store for you on the way when you die even if you have no idea what awaits you after death you just have to trust me on that So see life as a game in it you have to score goods for the ultimate end of it That way your life becomes more meaningful than ever