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@SLuxy Thank you! if you haven't read it yet why do you recommend me this book? I mean, why this particular book? @Zigzag Idiot Thank you for the book and the good explanation! Is there somewhere a kindle version of this book? Anyway I'll check it.

What is the worst thing that would happen if someone has feeling of jealousy toward you? What if I tell you that someone is might jealous you right now? What if this fear of making other jealous of you is just an excuse of your mind to do nothing for yourself? The truth is that you have no control about other people, someone can be jealous of you because of some random thing that you have no control like your body type or eye colour. You can walk on the street and some homeless person can think to himself "What a lucky person he probably has home and job and so many years to live". He might think like that without you even know. Some people transform their jealously into inspiration, while others transform it into hatred. Jealousy is a natural human behaviour, you also jealous of other people as well, accept this as a natural thing. Be the best you can be, there's no shame with that.

My English isn't the best but I'll try my best in explaining my question. How look the difference between stages green and yellow in their daily life response toward lower stages? I know that stage green inspired by stage purple and he can live with stage purple people without loosing his mind completely (Lets assume that he passed the "test" and got their trust). but stage green can get annoyed if he has to tolerate for some reason people of stages red (violent), blue (Too rigid) and even orange (Too competitive). I talk about see and interact with those people on daily basis like your neighbors, or people in your work, in your country and so on... Stage yellow is stage in tier 2 who aware to spiral dynamics compared to green and he understand the differences and accepts this reality but what his reaction would be like? You may say that he would be cool but what if for some reason he has to be around those stages on daily basis while some of them aren't the healthiest? wouldn't he get annoyed? or feel disturbed? Is it possible to be with dominant stage yellow thinking and still be annoyed by lower stages although you understand them perfectly? Or understanding them perfectly means that you have lots of tolerance for them, even if they are do bad things to you or to your close people? What if there's a stage yellow woman who lives for some reason (maybe LP) in some undeveloped country full of stage red/blue people and every day when she get out of her house she gets harassments from stage red men, very unpleasant words and gestures, maybe something that put her life in danger, maybe she carry a gun with her but what is going on inside her head and how she would react to those harassments? would she think "They are at stage red and I understand their behavior so I'm not annoyed by them or take it personally" or "What a stupid misogynists I hate you!!! If you dare to hurt me I kill you" I'm sorry if my questions looks silly or stupid. I'll very appreciate your answers, Thank you.

I realized that I don't have desire to experience enlightenment, I don't care about realizing that I'm God or the whole universe. I am curious about spirituality, philosophy and understanding this world as much as I can, don't get me wrong. But I don't take enlightenment as something that has to happen at any cost. I have a laid back approach about it, If it happens: very good. And if it doesn't happen, also: very good. I know that I don't need it and it's just would be a bonus. I want to be happy and safe, I want to live my passion which is art, to learn new things and skills and maybe to make a good impact on world in my own humble way. Those are the most important things for me. I practice yoga and meditation for it's advantages to body, mind and soul which helps me a lot and I won't get disappointed if after 30 of practicing those I won't experience enlightenment. but I would be disappointed if after 30 years I won't be happy and safe, living my passions. This is how I see things right know, maybe it change maybe not.

Yes! I don't believe in magics that can erase my suffer. I came to this stage when I accept the suffer as a part of life. celebrate the beauty of this. What else is there? +1 I wish you that your dream will come true. Nothing will make you happy in life but your own nature... +1 My priority is to be physically safe, safe from toxic ideas, and toxic people and toxic ideologies. narcissism. This is how I see being safe. I do it very often, I observe nature/people constantly. Even when I walk on the street, actually as a visual artist my brain has the habit to see beauty in the simplest forms. I hope you will experience the freedom that you ae looking for. I'm not an enlightenment person but I feel that my mind is more free than most of the people, maybe because I have vivid imagination and I engage in creative activates. This is how I see freedom, Maybe freedom is something subjective, maybe there are many forms of it. By your words I understand that I probably won't be an enlightenment person, I think that I can handle it. Enlightenment is like unknown country for me beyond my understanding, It would be nice idea to be enlightenment but I don't want to be slave to this unknown country. To get into a spirituality just in order to be enlightenment it's like doing sex but rather than be present and enjoy of it, focus only about the orgasm. Or if you are an artist, it's like be focused on the final result rather than enjoy of the process, This is how I see it. Art is something that fulfill me to the deepest levels, I feel it in my whole existence. Maybe I love art so much because I play my role as a creator, as a God I happy that you find this post useful for you There are so many ways to practice spirituality and live this life happily. Even if I'm not God, even without the God realization, I do whatever I want

We'll see

Maybe I confused and I don't even aware to how confused I am, but now, I don't feel like I need to be too worried about it.

Does it mean that stage yellow would act like chameleon? "When in Rome do as the Romans do" approach?

I think you need to be really curious about people and then it will come naturally to you. I think that curiosity in genuineness way is the key to be good at reading people. It's always easier to read a book that you're curios about rather than book that is not that interesting for you, but in your case you need to make yourself interested in all the books, means: All the people.

1. Close your Tiktok account (Or delete forever) 2. Find some private place 3. Turn on your favorite music my friend 4. . Find a mirror (Optional) 5. Dance the way it feels 6. Really, it's really good for your health

Accept yourself. Don't try to force yourself to fit. Accept the fact that you don't fit. period. It's wonderful and very liberating to realize that you are not fitting in. And there are so many of us who just doesn't fit in but why we see it as a bad thing? I look at the greatest people in the history, many of them if not most of them were outcasts who never fit in. This is why they were so great. Life is still hard whether you fit in or not. Study yourself. love your self, be your best friend and if you really feel like you need people, try to find other people who doesn't fit in.

1- Be kind and friendly but don't chase after people, I think that the best friendships come naturally. 2- Do what you like to do and go to places where there are people who have the same interests as you. 3- Start from being the best friend of yourself, sounds cliché but it's very important. the person's relationship with himself is the most important relationship one can have in life.

It's very good that you aware to your emotions and you give yourself to feel them. Don't blame yourself or your ego. You're not a bad person for feeling. Look at them. accept them. write about them and talk about them, give them time to be and they will gone.

This is why you should approach women offline, because they can't judge you only by your look but also by your confidence and personality. You men have the personality and charisma card no matter how you look or how old you are. We woman don't have that privilege and we would be judged by our look no matter what our personality is. So use your privilege smartly.

I agree with most of the solutions you listed but Elect honest politicians seems for me very unrealistic Lol:)

My LP is to be an artist and I strive to make an impact through my art. Yes maybe I look lazy for you but everyone is lazy to some degree, even you. I actually don't watch news Yes, I see that people aren't aware enough to this or they don't see it as real threat or they just stuck very deep into that consumerism Yes we are all responsible for it and the solution is guaranteed only if we all the human race take responsibility. Holistic solutions required that may change our lifestyle very drastically but I think that's worth it. I do think there are some solutions of creative people but they are not get enough financial or any other support from the governments and corporations. I read somewhere that hemp can be used to replace some amount of plastic and it's not that used because it's not as cheap to produce as plastic. Yes I got your point. I feel frustration because I care, because I love but also because I fear to lose it. It's like something very dear for me in danger, I love it and at the same time feel fear to lose it. +1

@Waken @Waken @Waken Thank you! Much appreciation!

You are a follower only if you see yourself that way.

I know that there are yogic breathing exercises that effectively helps release trauma from your body (traumas stuck in body's tissues so it's not enough to work on trauma realse only on the intellectual level). It called Pranayama I think. It's something that you actually can practice and there are some exercises on YouTube.