ZzzleepingBear

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  1. Ego is identitfying with forms. And no matter what form we take, it will eventually break. To reach a breaking point trancends everything we thought we knew by identifying with a certain form, into a new enhanced state of being and understanding.
  2. This much fake imho <-----------------------------------------------------------------------------> Maybe even more, idk
  3. If you think about a past experience that happened to you, when and where do you think about such memory? If you imagine the future, even 5 min from now. When and where do you imagine this so called future event? If you can answer this, then you know.
  4. By one of those megaphones:-)
  5. Totally agree. Developing discernment over blind trust is recommended. Just the ability to question a narcissist, is more empowering and provide a more healty way to communicate, instead of becoming a doormat to a narcissist. To @hoodrow trillson defence, I can only guess that what you really meant, is maybe that not everybody is needed to be labeled a narcissist for showing some superficial narcissistic behaviour. If someone has a bad habbit of throwing around the lable narcissist for any little selfish behaviour they notice. Then yes, you might want to question your own judgemental thoughts a bit if that is the case.
  6. A true narcissit are probably super cool aslong as you are ready to agree with everything or the atleast the majority of things they say. So yes, it's all in your mind, if you don't mind being taken advantage of. With that said, everyone will find themselves on some scale of selfishness without the need to be labeled as a narcissit. But if you like to imagine that the word narcissist is all in your head with no merit to the word, then I hope for your own sake that you don't run into and befriend to many of them if you value your mental health.
  7. You are talking about a sports team effort. Each player has their role and position to keep in mind prior to anything else. A coach needs to have a greater overview of all the players and inform everyone what they should prioritize to do in their respective role. So a coach can't be the greatest player in all those different roles him/her self. Just as someone who are put in a position to score the goals, may be a terrible goal keeper and vice versa.
  8. We have to live inorder to refine the quality of the question itself. Just as a question could only be conceived out of the answers that is already hidden within.
  9. Attention from the opposite sex goes both ways so there is no shame it that. You already seem aware of what the underlying issue could stem from so thats a good thing to be mindful of instead of blaming yourself for feelings that you may not be in control of. It sounds like you may try to compensate a bit by overvaluing other mens attention as a confirmation of your own value. Everything is a balancing act. If you unconciously seek out mens attention as a confirmation for your learned sense of lack of masculinity. Then it's possible that this lack of masculine attention is a unconscious feedback loop that keeps being reinforced by a total submissiveness to men. Some advice would be to focus more on clear verbal communication to be able to create more defined boundaries, both emotionally and mentally to what you fear or love when it comes to men. Communication is key, and learn your red flags no mather what gender you have. Trust comes from clear and mutualy established boundaries. My sense of this is that it feels as if you have to unconsciously give yourself up and away fully, to be worthy of this recognition you recieve from men. And that would indeed be very stressful if, you one one hand crave alot of attention, but also have to give up your sense of self and thereby your self worth in exchange for any attention. It is possible that this sensation can internally be felt as if you owe someone your full attention and admiration to be appriciated. Here is a thought that you could keep in mind if you feel stressed about mens attention. "I am loved and appriciated, and I owe no one, for it to be so" "I am loved and appriciated for being". Try not to be hard on yourself when investigating your feelings, but learn more about integrity and mutual communication to level out any sense of inbalance in yourself. It's also good to be a bit playful with all of this, so it's not all dead seriousness.
  10. It certainly has provided a fertile growing ground for it. It can be good to keep in mind that there also are a wide variety of people in all ages who are more or less likely to fall prey for different algorithm patterns. I think that different internet trends are probably more likely to grow a steady follower base and make a more impactful influence on the younger generations, and generations to come.
  11. The thing is that bitcoin is not grounded in any essential value, other than the energy that has already been used to create the coin itself. The fiat currency that is used to buy things such as gasoline and groceries are simply a better transaction tool because it's traceable and require less computing power/energy, to move around in the digital transaction space. The whole reason why bitcoins became a thing at all, has probably to do with that it's a source for anonymous exchanges to take place, and thereby allow it's users invest in all kind of shady things that wouldn't be as easy with regular currency. And then later whitewash those bitcoins into fiat currency where the most essential values are tied into. So if everyone said, hey we don't care about the fiat currency anymore it's value are dead to all of us because this pyramid scheme. Do you think something like bitcoins would provide a more honest system with less corupt value exchanges or not? If you want to fill your car with some gas or buy some food. Then the easiest way to trade your energy imput is through a value system of some sort, and some sort of reliable government system have be created around that value in terms of money as a placeholder for any service or goods. Otherwise, established laws would be on very shaky grounds. These crypto currency real value comes in terms of anonymity as mentioned. And with anonymity tied to a working currency comes the exceeding growth potential for various crime related business to blossom out of that. So it's either up to a established government to maintain some sort of control, or people has to try to live alongside local gangs in relation to their business. And that are often the end result from a total corrupt government. I'm not suggesting that all governments are perfect in any way, they always need to be self regulated and questioned trough democracy. My main point in this rambling, is to not to conflate all value systems, with pyramid schemes. I used to do the same thing tbh.
  12. Alot of good games out there. But a must play is Portal 1 and 2. Great humor and unique puzzle mechanic. And if those two are to easy, then give Portal Reloded a chance. Which is even more unique with past/future portals added into the mix.
  13. Ah, I wish thay made a new Katamari, such a unique and fun game.
  14. Free speach always comes at a cost it seems.
  15. Now that should keep you busy!
  16. Yves Tumor - Gospel For A New Century
  17. Having life goals.
  18. I find OP's post quite entertaining. *opens a bag of popcorn*
  19. Work is quite self explanatory when you engage in it, rather than trying to unpack it's essence in form of a explanation. Work ethic on the other hand, has to do with persistence to follow and maintain a certain work structure that has been implemented. Rather than working on something sporadically or on a whim, even though both ways require work I'd say the same goes for the word "work". If singled out.
  20. Jim Carry never get's old. These two brothers are also real good, they make their own sound effects and creates a sense of environment with almost no props at all.
  21. Rainbow Six Seige at the moment. What I love the most is the destructive environment, it creates new angels and all kinds of meta strategy possibilities, and to top it all, there is tons of gadgets and opperators with unique abilities to how you approach and play every round. So it's not only about clicking heads as many FPS can be. It feels like a breath of fresh air in the online FPS world, depsite it's release back in 2015.
  22. That is really neat! But why do they have to make the design so hideous?? It sure doesn't help to promote this amazing tech.
  23. It depends on wheter you try to escape something, or explore something by smoking weed. And only you can answer that for yourself.