Bobby_2021

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  1. "Other" beings don't exist. And suffering can only be experienced by you. You cannot reduce their sufferings by doing anything It makes no difference whether you reproduce or not. Both are equally neutral. Population growth are almost always trends of survival concerns rather than people simply opting to not have children out of will.
  2. How does heavy metals find it's way to the protein powders? Does creatine powder also have heavy metal in it? Apparently they all pass the standard heavy metals test as the label on it says.
  3. Sad, but true. I am dumbfounded hearing the kind of stuff that manipulative guys did to her and she will still shamelessly justify assholes. I can't tolerate such behaviour. You don't need a paid service. Just get your father, brother or closest male relative to vet for you.
  4. Things I have to stop doing to conserve my energy: 1) Stop giving advices to people. 2) Stop updating myself with what is happening with everyone else's life. Things I must start doing 1) Consume high quality information and process it well. Producing and consuming information cannot go hand in hand.
  5. I am too young to be giving advices to people and I am doing it too much on this forum. Being wrong is a great fear of mine. Almost an insecurity. I want to be precise and correct all the time. So I am going to read and listen more while saying less. This means I have less room to be wrong. I will start giving my opinions once I reach my 30s. I have too few experiences right now.
  6. For me, I am grounded in the idea that I will treat all people equally even if I have different emotional reactions about their appearances. This is something I clearly decided when I was young. So many people project to others what they think of others. You don't control your emotional reactions. But you can always treat others with respect regardless. Such strength to not act on your emotions must be instilled in everyone. So I can easily resist actually talking to him that "you look x way". That's completely irrelevant and makes you look like a dumbfuck and immature for pointing silly things of their appearance. I don't condone surgeries on minors to remove their sex organs. If they can't drink alcohol or give consent for sex, how are they allowed to give consent for gender transition surgeries the effects of which may last a lifetime. I hope we can move away from it slowly and allow people to act whatever way they want.
  7. You could never choose to "not participate". Also you will have to cut down on consumption a lot. By wanting to have things for free is a delusional goal. Someone must still buy capital and make people work like slaves to produce the goods that you enjoy, which includes the device you are using to view this. If you are too frustrated, you are already being ideological. I have also been this place. But I quickly turned back because it is a trap by your own mind.
  8. Obviously you will need to walk outside occasionally. You can have a common vehicle center at a walking distance. You can use the vehicles on a trip by trip basis and park the vehicle back in the centre. This will save a lot of space and not everyone would have to buy a vehicle.
  9. It's true. But IQ simply means that you can process information faster and manipulate systems faster. Such people tend to be successful in life. But that need not imply intelligence or psychological maturity.
  10. Jordan, Shapiro, Trump has a high Intellect or IQ. Intelligence is a much more broader term encompassing much more stuff like wisdom, psychological development, IQ etc. IQ alone makes up for intellect or "smart" or faster learning capacity.
  11. People generally switch jobs to get more pay, in every 3-4 years. I understand that pay is not your concern, but principles for which your company is based on. This just makes the whole process more complex and hard to arrive at a decison. If you are financially secure, then you are good to go. If not, I would advice to get that part of your life secured before experimentation. Experience in a top tier bank is always a good safety net. You always have the option to return to the old job, just in case you feel like it. Overall it's hard to be fully satisfied at a job when you are based on principles. (Unless you are working for yourself). The bank is not exactly capitalistic, but it is whatever it need to survive. Yes, they are doing devils work sometimes, but the difficult part is to accept that it may be necessary for society. Maybe you leaving it makes no difference overall since someone more devilish may take up that position. It is a tough moral decision to make, if you actually care about changing the world for good. Godspeed to you. ❤️
  12. The actual solution to traffic is indeed in correct city planning. You can design the city such that the most important utilities that people need is at walking distance. Cars are so not human friendly.
  13. Yes, even Bill Gates and Elon Musk is also oppressed and , relatively speaking. That doesn't mean everyone else must cater to lower the price of their private jet fuel and their shitty concerns. That's just moronic, silly and even manipulative. Plenty of people have nothing real to worry about so they manufacture crap out of nothing. If you want to have a serious discussion on oppression and take actionable steps to eliminate it, instead of crying about it, we must adopt an absolute scale of oppression. Else it will lead to madness since everyone will cry oppression, thus the truly oppressed people don't have a voice to raise their concerns. Happiness is independent of everything. You can be happy no matter where you are and sad no matter how good your life is.
  14. This is the peak if what a privilege looks like. You live in one of the poshest counties of the world, which benifited from the systemic oppression of the rest of the world, and you are "traumatized" because you couldn't find a clothing you like. Why should anyone even listen to you lecturing about what even privilege or oppression looks like? I have seen kids cry with tears of joy when they got second hand shirts to wear as school uniforms. Come to India bro. See how we live. Even if we don't eat, we are happy. You don't have any real problems.
  15. It's natural for the members to expect a certain level of maturity from the mods. It's ok for the mods to disagree with each on politics, spirituality etc. But if you accuse each other of poor moderation, then you are making the forum look incompetent infront of the members. Better do thise discussions somewhere private.
  16. Umm wut? Gender is collectively and socially defined, which is why it's called a social construct. But it's ok if you want to dismiss me. I dunno man. Maybe I am just a disgusting fascist bigot. I understand.
  17. Gender is a social construct. No one chooses their gender by "choosing it for themselves". It is socially defined.
  18. In politics the pro active side wins, passive side loses. Trump won despite being less popular than hilary. Trump also lost the popular vote and still managed to win the election. Republicans unleashed their most polarising far right candidate, went all in and won. Democrats on the other hand are much more divided within themselves between the establishment and the progressives. The establishment Democrats are still RW. Progressives are the only real LW in America. If Dems were truly proactive then they should unless the most LW candidate to make sure that they use all the power to make society go towards the left. Instead society has moved further towards RW. This should have never happened. Because naturally society moves LW. So Dems should face less resistance compared to repubs if they were to go left in full throttle. But they(Dems) have only helped society move towards right by doing nothing and being low key right wing.
  19. I think it's legit since the fluoride made its way to the brain from the outside. I want to know if the FLUORIDE in tap water is naturally occurring or the authorities are intentionally adding fluoride in US. I thought that ground water was pure, now I am having concerns. ?
  20. By tap water, do you mean ground water you extract from a well?
  21. Cheap chemicals from China are used to make vape liquid. This alone should be enough to deter you.