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The self that you have had in mind for yourself was too demanding for you to reach given your circumstances, genetics, family, menta health, maturity, money, etc. And there are tons of other factors which you don't take into account. We all battle with this problem. I got excited to answer since that is also the solution to the problem I was facing. And i feel so much lighter when I was freed from my own expectations. It was tampering my capacity for existing in this world. Hurt people cannot go so far. The world is quite harsh. Heal and march on.
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I am battling with the same problem. The problems of not having enough love. That's all there is to it. You were not given the love you think you deserved and that's why you were hurt. No life was wasted. You technically cannot waste an experience. But you expect you to have money, kids, house, babies, and other Little stuff. All these things you expected from yourself, but you were not capable for whatever reasons to give it to yourself. You are hurt for the love that you yourself failed to give you. As long as you don't acknowledge this, you will keep going into the downward spiral of hate. You hate yourself for not having worked job went to college and not having the life you deserved. But you being you did the best of what you could based on the unique situation that you were in. You couldn't have done any better, really if you think about it. That's why it's pointless to brow beat yourself over and over again. You did the best you could. Things can only get better from now on. Watch this video and forgive yourself. Walking around with all the hate is like walking with a thorn stuck in your foot. It will keep getting worse until you start to get clinical health problems. And please beware that even overachievers are also plagued by the same problem. That's why it's a lack of self love not because you didn't put in the work to build your life. But you did the best you can given your unique life circumstances. Maybe you can write down your life circumstances and see that it was all justified. And then, start putting in the work after you have made peace with yourself. Godspeed. DM me anytime.
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Take some action right now. It's the only way to get out of the rut. Some action at all. Maybe get a job or skills. Do something. I recommend college only if it definitely helps you secure a solid job, and not drown you in debt. Plenty of companies hire based purely on skills these days.
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Bobby_2021 replied to Rafael Thundercat's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
We brown/blacks don't have a problem. Sun only burns whites. So it's not racism. -
The point is that when things are totally meaningless, you can do whatever you want according to your own rules. Drinking water is as meaningful or meaningless as drinking petrol. You can choose either as you wish. Negative meaning is not the same as meaningless.
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I am pro nihilism and pro solipsism. These are not bad things.
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That's a bit too much. I don't recommend getting brain damage for no reason lmao. Sports is a good try and some mild form of combat sports if any at all. Many more patterns are at play here. Whichever you choose to latch on to, is your bias. Also notice that the sheer number of such implicit patters makes it easy for anyone to pegion hole you into faction and not address your questions and concern at all. It's a slippery slope that's not nice to tread on. Because it will also be used against you one day. On the other hand, talking directly to the point is clean, simple and straightforward. That's my style. Either they are born into wealthy families or due to fluke luck. Men need to fight hard. That's just easier than using spiritual woo woo to bypass the grunt of everyday work. Spirituality can make you happy and that might improve the quality of your work, but it doesn't directly impact the work that you do.
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Bobby_2021 replied to Leo Gura's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Scary. These atrocities are not forgivable no matter what the context is. A little less blood would be a lot more nice. -
Cool. I don't miss any of that implied information. But that's subject to your experience and your interpretation of that person. My bias is to engage with the merit of what's being posted regardless of past or the individual who is posting it. The OP has such biases and it will take at least 3-4 years to get over given the work is put in. It's hard to get over the biases. In the meantime, let it pass. ☯️♾️
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Leo, just because he said that men need to fight to survive does not mean that he implies that other beings do not need to fight to survive. It just means what it says and nothing more. That statement is wrong, and that fighting mentality is lacking in men a lot nowadays especially in spiritual circles. It is a good reminder to be able to fight. Of course, other organisms need to fight to survive, but that is not mutually exclusive to his point.
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Bobby_2021 replied to Bobby_2021's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Welcome to the ways Romanian legal system. The timelines easily span into a couple of years at the minimum. Even in the US, it is not uncharacteristic long timelines for legal cases, isn't it? It will take time. Nothing new here. All of this is excruciatingly slow. That's the nature of these investigations. This is not a movie. Get used to it. As far as Romania is concerned, they are following everything by the book. There are specific time to keep them in jail, then in judicial control in a county, and then they have expanded their roaming capacity to whole to Romania. The preliminary hearing was initially scheduled on Nov. 16, 2023, but was subject to various delays. Basically, DIICOT and Tates legal team are playing back and forth. So, I thought it was a waste of time to update the thread on this bullshit. Here is brief update. Tate has cried about his dying nanny in the US and asked the real-world members to promote it. He wants to use it as an excuse to fly to the US. There has been plenty of back and forth regarding the release of assets of his cars since they were technically not registered in his name. The important thing here is to see if those assets were bought with the money, he got from exploiting the victims. It that is the case, then they will be in custody no matter whoever is the owner of those assets. Abigail Tyson, Tristian's GF and the mother of his kid is the owner of those assets. There were transferred before the arrests, and they were documented by DICCOT. Tates are constantly pestering the judge to allow them to roam the EU/Romania and not just restricted to the county they were in. And then there could be appeals to each of those hearing and here we go again. So you could see how all these minor things could really add up and take up a lot of time. Exactly. Maybe it is difficult to get the evidence for rape. But he is going in for human trafficking. Note that DIICOT is proficient in handling these cases and they have close to 90% conviction rate. Evidence is not even being submitted the moment. That's why we have the preliminary chamber. And then we can proceed to the trail if the evidence is strong enough. The trial has not happened nor do the preliminary hearings. We are getting ahead of ourselves here. If all goes well, it may happen on Jan 11, 2024. But it will be postponed again, since Tate is ready with his legal team to invoke as much as technicalities as possible to get as much evidence from being submitted for the trial. His teams latest stall tactic is demanding, audible version of the entire transcript that they could have requested long ago. https://x.com/_mirceabarbu/status/1731995668758073380 -
Bobby_2021 replied to Sugarcoat's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
There is some aspect in you that is super developed enough to annihilate the self while the other parts are in dear confusion messing up the equanimity of the system. You have to restrike that balance somehow. You have to try out many things. Like working out did bring back the self for a while. Try out more things and update us. Quite interesting tbh. Try observing the tensions in your body while you are resistance training. Remember it and then Recreate that later. Shouldn't be too hard. For me my enlightenment /out of body experiences are getting more and more under my control when under the right circumstances although it's quite fragile. I am super stable. -
Bobby_2021 replied to Parallax Mind's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
On the same ground, do you think a super intelligent AGI will kill us all? -
This guy is sane and well intentioned. So I trust him. Not the other red pillers who are looking for someone to rip off although they are also giving out the same message.
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Bobby_2021 replied to Ima Freeman's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
There are constructions that you build to make sense of reality. The intellect or the logical mind builds these constructions which always falls short of reality itself. At that level you are prone to the deficiencies of the intellect and the logical mind. -
Bobby_2021 replied to Ima Freeman's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Integrate the intellectual body of content with yourself. With your emotions, feelings and love. It's looks a little feminine, but this is the only way to hard code intellectual content inside you. Else it will be forgotten. So the next level of depth is at the level of feelings. Contemplate and integrate intellect. This is why reality never makes total sense at the constructions level. Move to unitive level of sense making. -
Aggression confirmed.
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Bobby_2021 replied to martins name's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Whites think it's cool to not care about birthrate crisis and this could somehow be offset by immigration. Immigration can be functional in US/Canada. But in EU it's not going to work. And irrevocably changing the demographics has far reaching consequences on culture as a whole and we would not be able to reverse it once it has gone past the breaking point. I highly suggest giving tax breaks to parents who has 3 or more kids for a decade or so. That would help them a lot. Poor people outbreeding the rich folks is a serious problem and it's time we acknowledge it for what it is. And no there won't be any constraints on the resources. Human resources is the biggest resource and we will use that to find even more in the future. So stop worrying about overpopulation or resources constraints. -
Bobby_2021 replied to Hardkill's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
If America was a true democracy, the rich would never be able to take over. The rich would never take over. But you are entertaining that possibility because it's not a true democracy to begin with. -
Bobby_2021 replied to Maximilian's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Basically conservatives are shown conservative ads with conservative talking points. Liberals would be shown the liberal ads. This brainwashes, manipulates, and radicalises both sides making them easier to control for the liberal elite. Divide and Rule 2.0. This also means that anyone who is wealthy enough can win elections, making democracy a farce. Have 50 million to spend on FB ads is what you need to do to become the American president. Facebook is the number one culprit for this but he doesn't evoke criticism because he has (he/him) in his bio. Had Musk paid lip service to liberal talking points he would also get no criticism at all. Systems are what you use to rule the individuals. Which is why you throwing tantrums about Musk is meaningless. This also applies for RWs throwing tantrums about Nanci Pelosi or Biden. Individuals are a distraction and it takes action, attention away from the system. The system is rigged against the common man. If you think Musk is the problem, it's because the system is designed to delude you into taking advantage of your emotional pressure points to think X or Y is the problem. Meta/Threads/Instagram is a far greater problem to Mankind than Musk or X. Musk is a builder and an action taker on top of being an immature asshole. -
Bobby_2021 replied to martins name's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Wealth disparity is not so much of a problem if everyone is guaranteed a basic sustenance. The wealthy folks would lose the power of their wealth if that happens since now they cannot command the brokies around. The problems with inequality would solve itself. It's all comes from restructuring work. Work should be made more flexible, and possibly remote, if possible so that people can spend more time with their family. But that's the last thing corporations would approve of. They crave control over their slaves uuuhm employees. -
Bobby_2021 replied to martins name's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
More work life balance. The current corporate 9-5 jobs makes it harder to have kids. You have to restructure work to integrate family and kids. OR. Implement Sharia law inshallah. -
Bobby_2021 replied to Maximilian's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
What's conscious capitalism supposed to mean? And who is going to take charge to implement it. I say we must change the system itself and advocate for systemic changes that are clear and transparent which could be inspired by consciousness or whatever. But usually throwing the word consciousness into capitalism with no clarity on the specifics is usually a bunch of crap. It's a way for crony capitalists to advocate for even more power and money from the government in an effort to shift to "conscious" decisions. In reality they want more power to continue their degeneracy. -
Bobby_2021 replied to Maximilian's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
BLM, Jan 6 all happened in less than a year under the previous management. Twitter was used by both sides to urge for destruction and violence of public property and lives. Where is the responsibility from the previous management? Imagine if Elon Musk was the head at these times. The media would blame him for everything and anything that happened at the time. Also if you want to take about social unrest fuelled by hate in social media, then you should advocate for privacy. The targeted ad campaign by Facebook has caused the biggest polarization of all time and played a role in the subsequent riots and civil unrest in society. Is that a professionally run social media as opposed to Musks Twitter? Threads were literally banned in the EU due to privacy concerns. But naah Elon Musk being immature on social media is more important to you. Yeah granted he is immature and ego centric. But that isn't of any significance. It's his personality. You should be criticising systemic problems. NOT INDIVIDUALS. Individuals are rarely the problem. Meta is far more of a threat to society than Elon Musk. But that doesn't fit your agenda. Zuck has he/him in bio and musk don't. -
Bobby_2021 replied to Maximilian's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
I don't know about it. If that happened, that's clearly wrong and I would have spoken against it. Because I know the tides would turn against me one day sooner than later. Do you agree with it? And that's a justification for banned any side now? What do you mean? The leftist movement has been hijacked by the corporates, lobbyists and the WEF. Now they are masquerade as leftists and leftist voices. Do what you want with that. They don't care about "actual" leftism. They are corporate goons. If you care about actual leftism, and few leftists around, then you should argue for free speech. Not against it. Again, corporates have taken over leftism and they are the new masters. What are you going to do about it? If you are pro censorship, then you are allowing the anti corporates(the actual leftists) to be censored.