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just look at shamanic breathing vid

How much does it cost to do a Heavy Metal Detoxation process? Did anybody do it and could tell how costy it is overall?

@Preety_India please don't speak like that about youself:( You are worth the world to some people. God loves us all unconditionally and infinitely. Also you should not forget that there are so many people in the world who would love to be in your company, share their time with you and ypu just haven't met them yet / aren't interacting with them right now. Please, you are good and a beautiful person. It's okay to feel sad. It's okay to feel incomplete. But don't believe that you're worth nothing, that's not true. Some people might tell that, they are blind. They are deaf. They do not understand that beauty and perfection lies in everyone. Forgive them but don't let these people come close to you. Do what you need to do. Love yourself. You're worthy of it. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. P.S. if you don't want me to comment - as always, please let me know.

Beautiful story and painting, who does these paintings? I'll join the group;)

Thank you for the idea, I joined it:)

I would take this very seriously. A friend of my sister has been raped a few weeks ago and is now traumatized for life. There are psychopaths out there, if somebody acts like you described in your post you should realize that you're in a life-threatening situation. Have your pepper spray, immediatelly start screaming, take out your phone and take pictures, go to the police even if you didn't catch him. This could help to get him in the future. Do not get into a physical fight with a guy, it won't end well for you. Try to run away and scream as loud as you can to get other peoples attention.

I feel compelled to post this topic because at recent times I've seen trolling and harassment on this forum. First I would like to define what I mean by trolling/harassment: posting something while having the intention to get other people angry / emotional / feel attacked posting something that is based on the personna of a specific forum member and not based on the topic that is being talked about having hatred against certain forum members and trying to attack them in subtle or obvious ways Why is it important to have a discussion about trolling? Because trolling destroys this forum. It takes up unneccesary space where deep insights and wisdom could be placed and it destroys the atmosphere of trust and companionship that is needed if we truly want to use this place to its greatest potential. What could this forum do for us? This forum can provide immense value to all its members when it is used in a concious way. It can be used to share our deepest insights and to truly uplift and help eachother. If all the people on the forum have the intention to: Grow Help Get helped Share their knowledge/insights this forum could be awesome! I do not doubt that most people here already share these values and this forum is already a great place. But we all can do better and spot even the subtle forms of trolling that we apply. Subtle forms of trolling/how to behave when the troll in you comes forth: Essentially whenever we feel emotionally attacked / feel a need to get attention / feel like in some subtle ways the definition of trolling/harassment applies to our current posts we can be pretty confident that the trolly jolly in us (who is in all of us to a degree btw.) is coming forth. This is the moment to stop and ask ourselves: Does this post that I am contributing right now really help? Could this post be destructive and actually make this forum a worse place than it is right now? should I maybe formulate this in a better way that really gets the message across and without personally attacking fourm members? Everybody here can greatly benefit from this place. To do that however, everybody needs to help to make this place a great place. How to deal with trolls: If you are being trolled try to understand the trolls perspective. Does he purposefully troll? Or is it subtle trolling that even the troll himself didn't notice. If it is subtle trolling you should stay calm and try to point out without becoming a troll yourself that the other person is currently not contributing anything of value but instead critizizing your personna. If this doesn't help: Do not give the troll what he/she wants! What does the troll want? Your attention (your response) You becoming emotional and angry You becoming a troll yourself Instead, report the troll and message the administrators to take care of the trolls. Some people simply cannot be helped and need to get warned/banned for their behaviour. To all the people here, let us all try to spot the troll in ourselves when it's coming forth. Lets try to stop him and lets try to always check our posts for the following points to make sure they are high quality and add value to that forum: Does this post make me / somebody else grow? Does this post help me / somebody else? Does this post share my knowledge/insights? Thanks to all of you for reading until here, I love you all, peace out!:) Also feel free to post any insights about trolling that I might have missed down below!

@hamedsf This is essentially the behavior I'm criticising. Did your post add any value? Was it topic based or person based? If you disagree with certain statements I made - sure, disagree. But this post you just made simply doesn't help anybody. @Opo this post perfectly shows what trolling is all about. No content. No value. But a picture that is essentially saying "you are silly" to the person that it is directed towards. I ask you to delete that shit and deliver arguments.

My reason of involvement was because I found his behavior to be useless. Finally he indirectly claimed that I would be a "troll" because I disagreed about the way you should treat trolls. This claim got an admin to close the post.

Please no deep conversations he is not my husband

Just look at the post I linked in my response and you'll understand what I am talking about. I am not here to demonize anyone. I got emotional. And I am not proud of it. He got emotional too (see the link). don't know how he thinks about it and I don't make any claims about his intentions.

I was INDEED trolling him because I got triggered by his crazy claims about me in his post about trolls in the journal section. I am not proud of this behavior and deleted my troll-posts towards him. I am not perfect. For reference, this is the post I'm talking about:

Hey Leo, thanks for that awesome explanation!

@Preety_India love the empathy aspect. All the people here should not forget that on the other end of the screen sits another person. That person could be hurt by your assaults / personal attacks. Learn to feel other peoples pain and you won't troll as much as you did before. @Jake Johnson True, matter of perspective. But also the definition of trolling is clear and apart from rare cases it should be pretty easy to judge whether a post includes the characteristics necessary to classify it as trolling or whether it doesn't. But if someone has 100% desire for insight he isn't a troll. If he is characterized as such, it could be lack of good communication on his part but apart from that...

It's not about becoming superhuman. It's about realizing that being human is super. Credits to Sadhguru

Just uploaded my first Video!! Would love to hear your feedback:)

Simply wrong advice. Seen that comment from many people in the health section of the forum. Breath should not be deep. It should be slow, low frequency, as little air as possible, fully exhale and (MOST IMPORTANTLY!!!) through nose. Learn to breathe properly and your health and overall well being will greatly improve. For that I recommend reading James Nestors book "Breath."

It's not a hard rule. Look at @ivankiss journal "Sex diary" or something like that. He describes is intimate experiences in detail and there is also at least 1 occasion (not always reading it) where he didn't come. But he enjoyed it anyway. But I guess many men associate coming as a "nessecary part" of the experience and strongly identify with it. They would propably want to come if the could and might feel ashamed about not being able to come. But hard rule, no.

Go for it man! Let us feel that resonance

Thank youu, also thanks for the recomended song, I will try to sing it:)

Hi @Preety_India thank you so much for your encouragement, it means a ton to me:)

Damn I rocked this beast. Feeling amazing! Contributing my part: I would appreciate your feedback in the comment section since this is my first song on YouTube. Thanks :))

Okay, fair enough - don't wanna mess up your journal. About love... Let me write a poem: Love is strong it only cares for joy forgiving... Create a world with no fear together we'll cry happy tears See the nations turn their swords into plowshares... To me, the following song represents love: www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWf-eARnf6U&ab_channel=michaeljacksonVEVO

Hi @ivankiss, Great idea and you sound good man! I will contribute my music with video tomorrow. Tomorrow I've got time and I always wanted to upload a vid on YT. Time to fu(k that creative anxiety and go for it!

@lxlichael just keep it inside your trousers. Thanks and God will love you as well.