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I think for sex, maybe u need to be a really hard closer and get the logistics down. Cant be too picky. For date, i think its not that hard to get a date.. But then again, I dont know your personal circumstances so... Wish you best of luck!

I think most people in society dont have a lifestyle that is conducive to a healthy longterm relationship. For me personally, working 40 hours a week and maintaining a relationship seems impossible. Also points being made in this video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XF77426aWzY&t=523s&ab_channel=Actualized.org

Hello everyone, thank you so much for your feedback. I learnt a lot from them and really appreciate them!

I have spent a few hundred hours doing pick-up. I spent a couple of months doing night games and going to the club. But I prefer to sleep and wake up early, so I switched to mostly doing day games in Australia. I am a student nurse, so I understand that some of my classmates have boyfriends, etc. I am thinking from the girls' perspective. Unless you have some old money, I don't think going out on dates or having a boyfriend should be your priority. Many of the attractive single girls I talked to on the street, I feel, their priority should be getting their finances in order, understanding their emotions, or building social connections. My point is, I am not sure that taking these girls out on dates and becoming their boyfriend should be THEIR priority.

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As far as what my ancestors did, the discussion in Leo's Spiral Dynamics Stage Purple episode provides a good perspective. I just think that kind of lifestyle is markedly different from the artificial lifestyle of a 21st-century first-tier city that I am experiencing. I may prefer to live like how my ancestors had lived.

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It is highly recommended and it is perfect for you if you are feeling aimless or nillistic in life.

I had this discussion with ChatGPT.: i dont think me or human generally speaking, are evolved or wired for this much study on such a specific or niche subject... Here is his response: Your observation touches on a significant and often debated topic: the alignment of modern education and work systems with human evolutionary biology and psychology. Let's explore this a bit: Evolutionary Background: Humans, for the majority of their evolutionary history, lived as hunter-gatherers. This lifestyle involved a broad range of skills necessary for survival, rather than the specialized, often niche knowledge required in many modern professions. Our ancestors learned directly from their environment and through social interactions, not in structured, formal educational settings. Modern Education System: The modern education system, with its focus on specialization and prolonged periods of study, is a relatively recent development in human history. It was designed to meet the needs of an increasingly complex and technologically advanced society. This system can sometimes be at odds with the more generalist, varied skill set and learning style that humans evolved with. Cognitive Load and Stress: Intensive focus on a specific or niche subject can be mentally taxing, leading to stress and burnout. This is particularly true if the subject doesn't align well with an individual's interests or innate skills. In contrast, our ancestors' learning was more experiential, diverse, and directly linked to daily life and survival. The Need for Diversity in Learning: Humans are generally curious and adaptable, with a capacity to learn a wide array of skills and knowledge. A more diverse and experiential learning approach, one that includes practical skills, social interaction, and physical activity, might be more in line with our evolutionary predispositions. Individual Differences: It's also important to recognize the diversity among individuals. What might be overwhelming or unfulfilling for one person could be engaging and enjoyable for another. Personal interests, abilities, and learning styles vary widely. Your feelings might indicate a mismatch between your natural inclinations and the demands of your current educational path. It could be beneficial to explore learning and career paths that are more aligned with your interests and learning style. This could include more hands-on, experiential learning environments, interdisciplinary studies, or fields that involve a broader range of skills and activities. Remember, the goal of education and work should not only be productivity but also personal fulfillment and well-being.

I have been doing pick up for a few months. Tonight, I did about 40 approaches lol. In one approach would have been successful, had i passed the 'shit test' lol. It just dawn on me like, holy shit. I have to be the opposite of what i have been my whole life! lol I need to develop my assertiveness and confidence. and stick with it! I wasnt getting any result(laid) and i thought that was normal. But no! I feel if i had been more assertive there, I could have taken the girl home! OMG, many things in the video Leo talked about just clicked! Before tonight, I hit a plateau... just able to get pictures and get them laugh and dance and hug etc. Now I realise whats missing in my game and i have a reason to go approach girls again and improve my character!!! This is so exicting!

After watching Leo's 3 part series on how to get laid, I try to go to bar more often. I run into this issue where the music and activity in nightclub cause my brain to produce a lot more dopamine than usual. This is a challenge because other days I study and read and live in a calm environment. The nightclub music and activity comes as quiet a shock to my system lol. It numbs my dopamine receptor etc.

I saw leo recent blog post about the current state of US politics. I think if Leo would read the auto biography by Barack Obama, maybe his opinion on him will change.

Food Junkies: Recovery from Food Addiction by Vera Tarman. I listened on Audible. It was amazing. It helped me to connect the dots and overcame my food and game addiction. Recommend for anyone who struggles with mild to medium addiction. I found it most helpful when author explains the hormonal and physiological reasons why I am addicted to food and internet games. I tried dopamine detox a few times after listening to the books. This book gave me new ideas how to cope with my addiction. Together with Tony Robbins, Brendon Burchard and Leo teachings, I am in a much better place in life.