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@Leo Gura What do you think of this Leo? :D

Ohh @Leo Gura, you absolute BEAST, i am so going to use this to up some playfulness.

Ability to create.

I don't know exactly, but I guess it also stems from being really grounded and honest (to yourself) about your life, direction, values. I am always afraid of one thought that is reoccurring - how could it be that my artwork for example or greater purpose is just another attraction/dating strategy? I am not happy with this idea so I try to constantly renounce and relax from that sexual tension, seeking validation, dependency or feeling lonely. That doesn't completely solve the active interaction with somebody whom you consider "higher", but I anyway aim to establish deep attraction, rather than go and have the best sex possible so to say with some quantity of that kind of women. I don't really have experience with women in that regard, but then, I don't think I care currently, and hopefully ever.

yeah and he copyrighted some of his own invented yoga where he sits with a girl in this lap :DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

A few things: - You can work on this, so you can hear better and immagine what you are supposed to sing or can sing in the case if re-arrangement or improvisation (Perfect pitch) http://pitchimprover.com/index.php?type=Perfect; - Good breathing technique, breathing with diapraghm and slightly sqeezing (like taking a shit) but not applying force to the vocal chords for better projection of sound; - Vocal exercises before you sing: Try to sing notes up and down or in different sequence in the specific key of the song you are going to sing, this will make you build muscule memory, so you can land those notes more times; - And lastly, singing with a metronome, just to be sure you are singing in the right time for right amount; Then comes the rest of the rabbit hole, good luck!

@Hello world Do you acctualy want to implement the advice provided here? Do you want to improve your life? Do you want to feel good about yourself? Just think about it, again, again and again. Just continiously ask yourself these questions. What is your life worth to you, choice being the only currency?

Sadhguru exclusive

But I think some allied countries will, and it will spread afterwards.

TLDR but J like the title, I got triggered xDDD

But sometimes you do have to roast somebody to make them check themselves, it's not always bad.

Very complex question. Many factors determine how you feel, including this one also. Usually these People are very weak and have no idea what they are doing, refering to the psychic question. They will scare you more than acctually do anything.

That is from worrying what others think about you and daydreaming about being accepted.

Yes, I feel this is true. Whomever you are with and wherever you are, you show yourself to others based on your behaviour, which comes from Values, which comes from past experiences. These past experiences hold intense emotional baggage and can't be dealt with logic efficiently, meanwhile they are largely subconscious and defines your behaviour - when you cringe, when you are needy, ashamed e.c.t., and it defines what kind of People you attract.

Eat lightly and not too often to reduce the chances of you falling asleep during the retreat.

People do, I have had such problems, if you like the person, it's very easy. The sad thing is the breaking of the whole bet or paradigm with you being in their life, somehow. The whole emotional inertia is that sadness.

Things like RASA can soothe you, but you will have to do the work to purify yourself by yourself, yes techniques can help, but you have to do them and at some point drop or switch.

@Emerald Thanks for the advice, i am certainly inspired to use it as I have seen it working and would bet interested un a long term relationship, rather than a pump-dump.

Peace of mind is only found in God. I resonate with this aswell. There was a hindu sage who had an ancient book, similar to patanjali's work. In the beginning of the book it says something along these lines: "...And now yoga." So we tried everything and yet are unfullfilled, so it is time for a consciousness.

Yes, I would like to talk but not publicly. I have similar problems. Are you a musician?

I only seek out pepople who don't drink regularly. It's ok, you can do a lot of things. We plan trips to the sea, we always have smth to talk about, even with some light drinkers, it's ok. Otherwise I am seeking out for people with similar interests and hobbies. For example I tend to hang out with musicians more.

Yes, if you get rid of the attachment (not in true/false sense, but whatever extent to it you manage) you will game naturally, I have noticed this by experience. Even tho I don't game it is so much easier to go an talk to people and I feel comfortable with myself around them.

I find one thing particularly in male circles. Maybe two. One is the sense of humor and the careless attitude humor, when I meet some collegues at work that happen to be male, they will usually start the conversation with a joke, some of them are so funny it's illegal. When something bad happens also the same thing happens. They will also tell you very funny stories which leads to the second point. Men can be very bold (also literally) and make such weird life choices which acctually work. Some can make their life so hard, it's oncredible, meanwhile creating something bigger than themselves. This also reflects on normal division principles in people. Men have more idiots and more geniuses than women. There are some qualities I can't name but I like about this. I am very much the same way. While a people pleaser, internally, very disagreeable, avoidant and tend to vision and work on it. For example if somebody eats a snail or there is a broken window or if somebody won a gaming tournament or got arrested because of being in a mafia, it was probably men.

Yes, there is the other part of the spectrum. I was refering to the path without psychedelics, I am saying this from experience. I am using this forum mainly for entertainment. When I really seek "whatever that means", then something genuine always happens, there is no urgency for extra explanation, though it can help and keep inspiring and convincing you, BUT I would like to stress one important point about quality time lived in a day. That is if you just reduce the amount of internet exposure and messaging people, exposure to TV, masturbation, computer games, other forms of entertainment and find time for yourself to just sit, it will really gather momentum.