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Let's acctually think about it: The idea of the ownership of the other Have you heard conservative people using this as an insult that they can and will fuck your wife or that other dudes probably fuck your wife or whatever. I think they associate that being one of the worst things happening to them because of their masculine identity that it's an insult to them if they fail in this area. Emotions and Expectations Sex creates emotional connection and your mind starts to identify and associate with other people much more intensely. We are unable to manage (due to lack of self discovery) our emotions to a large extent and this could be the catalyst to be even more fantasy, pleasure driven life where of course you will make blunders. Lack of understanding about human sexuality due to repression and exploitation of the human sexuality People don't talk about it. Isn't it interesting? Maybe some progressives do, but how much backlash they are getting is also very interesting. Same as being gay, people will endlessly criticize those people and will never accept them, but the reason is literally invisible! How about that, hahaha. Addiction Well, trying to solve life's existential problems trough the same action. It has not worked and will never work. One is easier I think managing one relationship is much more inclusive and if you communicate well, you will probably be sexually satisfied. To manage multiple people is ALWAYS harder because they have to cross communicate and naturally their own negativities and assumptions will be a part of that, which will needs constant clarification. Function of sex Is to do it once to create children, just keep that in mind whoever you do it with, if at all. You are doing it for sport or entertainment, that is something else... nothing wrong with it, or is it? Up to you to discover... Now rubbing it off with someone else's wife is nothing that wrong technically, but it's pretty unwise to do since you will not be able to deal with the emotional drawbacks and the people around you definitely won't be able to process it. I think I takes intelligence to be a successfully cuck ironically. If you can manage that I think it's amazing, but in reality it never really happens. Whatever you do, do your sadhana first.

Somewhere around 6 months on no-relapse. Bootsts your meditation gains. Gives confidence to change your life. Feel less dependant on women and relationships. Planning on never doing it again.

The solution is 20 years of some form of kriya yoga, dhyana or tantra based meditation practice, practiced regularly.

Dangerous assumption as we are yet to know our potential while being heavily repressed ideologically and financially. Though you are more likely to fail, yes.

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if she does a musical project with me over a long period of time I will try my best to do that

Go spend some time outdoors everyday. Don't jerk off. Do something creative that you enjoy doing. Meditate to the extent you are able to. Do some physical activities. Connect to some people that you can talk with from time to time. Spend time accepting that they can't accept you for who you are. Don't be to overly suspicious of them also. There is a possibility that they are reflecting also and what they think might not be what you think they think.

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Even "proven" advice can damage you. Because of the vaeguness of the study wrong conclusions of the study or deliberate bias of the study. Even if the proven advice is good, you can still abuse it. How many people know what is their problem in their behavior and still abuse themselves. On the contrary. Internet advice has helped my life. Advice from books that is not even scientific has helped me, although there is a risk for taking that advice. Leo's advice has helped me, that is why I am here. And I am pretty sure I have taken some advices on the forum over the years, but I can't recall any at the moment. But generally your point is correct. I am very unlikely to absorb and internalize any other point than to project my own which is what everyone does.

I am good, thank you. BTW it's the way you wrote is shaming him (and no, you just didn't only ask a question) and that's moronic to do, as if you do shame him, he will not be so likely open to new perspectives. Why can't you think of yourself is an insult when obviously person can't control his sexual desire and this is a tabu subject in society. If you connect these things, it becomes more evident. I am having a sense of humility, I don’t have a problem saying sorry if I offended you, but I think it's moronic. That's all. Where did I expressed that my advice is an absolute truth? BTW, I can get angry when I want and it's my business, because I want to be stupid too sometimes. "Nothing you say he will do or work for him" Maybe that's a projection of the summary of conclusions you have drawn about the advice you have given. I don't have such conclusions.

I could send you over some past life regression sources I have found. I have not tried it my self but I have been edging this concept. Regarding the dreams, if you had similar events as the fears you are re-dreaming, like if you forgot something (particular thing) in your life and it really sucked and you are from time to time dreaming that you forgot and experience the fear of forgetting in different scenarios, I think it's 100 % from this life, however. I have at least one dream experience that is not related to any particular event in my life and it happened when I was very young, but then it stopped. I series of dreams of missing unconnected series of stairs where I couldn't go up and down. While reflecting on that I see that there is more to it than a re-occouring fear, but I am yet to dig into it further. It feels more like a dark night of the soul experience that I lost the connection with life and what I want to do with taking this birth. From the comtemporary Gurus I listen to Osho and Nithyananda were the only two whom I know that gave techniques for recalling past lives for people who are not enlightened. Maybe the Sanskrit Channel on YouTube also has some info on that. Every spiritual master who has talked about this topic have in some way expressed that upon enlightenment you know all your past lives. From their perspective the problem is that we are very affected by the karmas of this life. Remembering how we died and lived could make it worse. Some gurus also say that past lives are of no significance to you like Sadhguru for example, but other gurus do not say that. I would also be very interested to find out some of the details of my past lives as I think it's acctually powerful and it acctually could free your cognition from the conditioning of society. Now, that would be dangerous for the current form of governance though, haha.

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You are a moron (i know what I will get warning points). Stop insulting people. Guilt will not help and your gaslighing for sure will not help him, this is very irresponsible and sounds like you have to do some reflection on this topic as well to stop shaming other people for asking!!! If someone should stop posting on here it's you. Now, the actual reply from my experience: Neither I do any sex with women, so how to deal with it? There is no short-term solution for you to stop masturbating just like that. Many people will say that it’s normal, some will say it's not, it's up to you, I think it's not normal because it messes with your perception of the world/reality and most of your life energy will be spent fantasizing about the opposite sex and desperation, defeat and loneliness of never getting any. If you stop doing (i haven't done for a few months now), I feel more mentally and emotionally alone, I can enjoy my company a lot more and my meditation is just more intense and I feel more grounded and active physically. Now, to get from the place I did do it a few times a week to not do it at all, you have to find YOUR reason. Mine was that a guru told me that I took this birth with certain desires, overenjoying some pleasure alters the outcome of your initial desires and what you acctually want to express does NOT express in this lifetime. So it just clicked something within me and it made me stop. I still have cravings, but I will just never touch it, because there is no point. I don't want to venture into this mental/emotional instability and fantasy for no gain. I can live without it, and much better. Also I underestand that I will not have it all. I will have some things like maybe a spouse, maybe a career, maybe a music career, or maybe I will be a yogi and I will have nothing else or any single of these things. I rather adapt to any one thing as I have to survive at the end of the day and I will not have it all. And it's fine, maybe life is about something totally different than what I have. Quitting sexuality (and I have not quit it, i just don't fap) is #2 hardest thing for a human being and I think the #1 is food addiction, meaning that for your whole life you will eat some foods that are bad for you, can't quut them and because of that you can't be healthy, energetic and can't reach a certain intensity in your meditation and never reach anywhere. Practical solution could be practicing some form of kriya yoga like Isha kriya by sadhguru, doing some strong determination sitting if it helps for you or practicing intent and visualization of either "I want to have a girlfriend in my life" or "I want to get rid of my sexual fantasies and transform some aspect of my life" this regular practicing of wanting your desires will inspire you to act towards what you want.

What about just having a functional anti virus software and keeping windows 10? For everything worth stealing in companies, isn't there like a remote desktop or local server kind of thing going on?

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Tnx for the story. I would not engage with such a person, that's like the opposite of me.

People hate themselves and project it to the world, this is none of your business and their decision. If you are relating to them, you have to reduce and destroy this fear and powerlesness of being disliked and hated. If you reduce the pattern of feeling that somebody is your enemy, your enemy gets weak. You can help people who want to be helped. The other people will not need help, ignore or hate you for helping.

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Hinduism IS to be implemented and taken literally, because those sutras, pointers and teachings work. For example, Mahabhatata war really happened. Rama lived way over his lifetime etc. All of the hindu stories have some relevance, even today, ok, maybe those stories are not so literal, but have a perspective, and still some stories are quite literal, like when Shiva opens his third eye, the whole existence burns. That means that the dimension of third eye makes everything sense perception phenomenon irrelevant in your existence, that, however, is literal.

Yes, if they keep re-occouring and you can identify that this phenomenon is repeating, it also subtly changes the idea ( increases the degree or ratio of which you think you are the body, emotions, memories, things you have or abilities you poses versus you nor being any of that). Profound spiritual experiences will lubricate the rest of your path, but you can't rely on them or wait for them to happen. The closest thing what you can do instead is to contemplate the Truths in ancient scriptures that express trough contemporary enlightenment scholars or masters. For example, contemplate the meaning of eternity, that you are spaceless, timeless, how would it express, how would it feel like, understand that at some point in your lifetimes in the eternity, you are bound to have enlightenment. This life(s) only destination is the space less, timeless, eternal bliss which encompasses everything and nothing, and you are all of that acctually. There are other things to contemplate like if you can will to be blissful and feel blissfully you are acctually God itself or whatever.

Life is for enlightenment, let me live that possibility

I don't know, never had it. Don't care that much either at the moment. I will have her only if I really vibe with her, otherwise it's just a social barter.

"I am never wrong, Leo, only you are wrong. All of you are wrong, I am always right."

My point is that you merely cannot do some practice for moderate amount of time and call yourself a yogi. You need a lot of practice to make big things happen in your experience. You and me need to do these practices until yoga means nothing to you and that discipline will take all your time if you want to be a yogi and attain while retaining the body. For moksha (breaking the life and death cycle at the moment of death) or blissful life you don't need to be a yogi. But to be a yogi, you cannot live whatever lifestyle. After a certain mastery your practice will be so refined, you might not need to do it a lot to enjoy life or you will do it all the time while doing other things or you will be so established you might not need any practice for the rest of your life, that is what I mean after certain point.