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Hello everyone, Today I want to share two points that helped me progress in my thing. This is productivity / actualization concept by the way 1. OUTCOME INDEPENDENCE : motivational speaker Jay ray said the difference between a master and an amateur is that thats master can stand in the face of no result for a longer time. What is outcome Independence? This means having sort of higher consiousness orientation towards what you do. It includes not considering RESULTS when you do your work . It is just trying to do the work the best it can be done. It requires patience and REALLY letting go of your DESIRES of achieving the results and becoming intensily process orientated. It is sort of SURRENDERING TO HARDWORK. Really successful people feel excited in CRISIS since they are about the journey. Tip: to be outcome independent you can study your work and do what the work need. you also need to be MEDITATING to drawn out your dirty desires, taking breaks when you are workaholic , AVOIDING any stimulations and other techiques that you find it's effective. 2. OUTCOME DEPENDENCE : Stephen covey (rip) said that before you start scrambling up the ladder of success, make sure it is lean on the right wall. I love Stephen covey BTW, outcome dependence(focus, clarity or burning desire ) is perhaps the first rule of success or life. it is about having a goal, becoming purpose driven, focusing, getting competitive.. .pouring out all thw WILLPOWER in order to simply WIN. making money, getting respect, getting girls or even YOUR PURPOSE are results . ( unless you are enlightened☺ ), and You see, from outcome dependence frame RESULTS are the only things that you should care about. " you must want to succeed as bad as You want to breathe " you must live or be immersed in your dreams. It is like ditching your friends and family for sucess and in order to avoid a single negative Influence.... Tip: excersises like affirmation, VISUALIZATION ( vision it feel it, act like it ) (most of us miss out in one of the three) are essential. MASSIVE ACTION ( HARD WORK) is king. So to sum up, YOU NEED BOTH. IT IS CALLED THE YIN AND YANG OR LAW OF GENDER or OUTCOME INDEPENDENCE AND OUTCOME DEPENDENCE . My best example will be in game ( I don't know if you can relate to it). It is called push pull. Or, being outcome independent ( not caring about the girl, just being yourself TRULY and applying what is necessory even when it is against your feeling ) with the INTENTION OF sleeping with the girl. SIMPLY, be outcome independent for the RIGHT THING. since we are already outcome dependent. After this, we may talk about LAW OF INERTIA or principle of Momentum or law of GESTATION. since doing the above for the 0.01% edge that you need everyday which becomes EXPONENTIAL IN 10 years.

Hello everyone. I have been meditating for two years on and off (we all know that it doesn't count ) then for the last two months I have been meditating for 1 and a half hour every day broken down in three secessions. The thing is I have been experiencing old memories from my childhood and it is not visualization at all it is like watching TV with your eyes closed. Very vivid. At first I enjoyed it and I understood that this is normal in meditation. But now, it keeps coming and I am seeing things that are impossible to be remembered . should I block those thoughts or should I let them pass with no resistance or active thinking. What do you think?

I suggest you to make very smooth transition. Read should you drop out of college, or listen the books summary by Julien balnc Be obsessed with personal development as Jim rohn said income doesn't exeed personal development. Become a friend of mine since I m doing the same shit.

Yo here is the concept, you are disrupting their hemeostasis now they have to register you as a different person which make them painful because all human doesn't like change. But I suggest you to go hard on your change but be careful some people can take it to the extreme like red colored people in psych evolution so keep youreye I them.

You got it all wrong, his intention is to cut anything that doesn't support you not your life purpose plus, even your life purpose and mastery should not make you unaware of life. One, why it should and two it will backfire on the dream since you need presence and awareness to really make a result, not just mindless hard work. So I think it is win win.

Hi I have the same problem. Key things 1. A man should be living for purpose. ( DAVID DEIDA). Don't value your friendship. Paradigm shift. 2. Leave your friends so that you can develop a new habit. It is going to be hard with them 3. Use saving phrases when you feel more pressured like let me think about it , why do u say that , I have something to do, I have somewhere to be, if you could Say no but I know it is tough. 4. Develop your new habit and set a ground rule for your new relationships from the first time. Peace

I like Elkhart tolle and I must Aquarius plus I have all the traits of Aquarius. But it is hard for me to believe in astrology when we don't know the all the stars in our galaxy. Peeeeece

Doyou know brain Tracy......he said the same thing once.

The power of Now echart tolle......you will love it get the fuck on it now.

I think it is cool in fact awesome to be compassionate. Masculinity should be suspect when you don't have a purpose or when you are not all out. This is I think surface level problem that you shouldn't focus on.

I suggest you to read the bookcalled should you drop out of college. If you can't you can have the summary @ Julien himself book reviews. It is a good way to start. Keep in touch.

My answer is, it depends. Well, it is better to do some pointless work rather than not doing anything at your " hobby " at all. There is no single way to success. And, all that matters is to work the job you love. Don't restrict yourself by this 40 hours a week or 7 hours sleep thing. It is another limiting belief. Brain Tracy once said, anyhour greater than 40 hours is for success. Even, Leo used to work over 40 hours. Well when I'm saying this, I'm not being delusional. I get that you will have almost zero willpower. I suggest you to be more systematic and to separate the type of tasks that require labor and mind. And, don't be all or none in your decision. it can be 60 or 70. You can be patient till you get your results. This is what I feel about it, what do you think!

Read should you drop out out college or read the summary somewhere. It gives you the step by step way to get on your purpose.

Read a book called should you drop out of college Here is the idea One develop a habit, Jim rohn said money doesn't pass personal development.so I suggest you to do well with what you have. That is, be good at school, save more money by working on your part time. Meditation, calms your emotionAL self and makesee you happy. Do them step by step. You can start by removing one bad habit like smoking weed, then switch to the next may be getting good grades. Because the type of person you are, matters. if you can do well at school, how can u achieve a successful business. Then, work save more money,experiment in things you like don't just keep making money because you will love it aka money trap. Have good habits and enjoy called abudence mentality. not enough time for stressing out. Most importantly, always be in touch with personal development and good people. Peace I hope it helps.

Basically, it is not a science and I don't need to have. But, I think we all are connected with God this way like eastern teachings. If you have any evidence I mean willing