Mz Hyde

I must agree with @Epikur on this one.. it's highly addictive, but I don't ever want to get off of it.

@Realms of Wonder That's a wonderful life purpose you've got there! For me, music has always been that one true friend that never turned its back on me. It helped me in my darkest moments and made me feel less lonely. Wish you the best of luck on your journey!

..until I finally owned everything that I am Amen ?

@Preety_India Nice post. I think this forum really needs more female relevant content.

Right.. thank you!

I have this problem too.. @Leo Gura Are all dairy products equally bad? Yogurt is said to be good for digestion. This is a great advice, I'm gonna try it!

Wow you're doing great, congratulations! Even though I don't know you, I'm very proud of you! Just keep it up!! ??

Dismissive / Avoidant ✌

It's great! I envy you for having snow..

Yeah.. I feel like there is no doubt that there is a mutual attraction and chemistry and all that going on, but as far as getting along with each other goes I'm not really sure.. and yet they are said to be the best match for one another

Yeah, all that lol

A question for my fellow INFJs: What was your experience from relationships with ENTPs?

Don't flatter yourself so much

@ndm678 You are welcome, I'm glad to hear that.. it was aimed at everyone 'cause I really think that this world would be a better place if everybody read it, but unfortunately some people didn't get that and instead got offended (which I'm sorry for, even though I haven't meant or IMO did anything wrong). Much love.. aimed at everyone <3

This should never be your goal 'cause it'll inevitably lead to worsening the situation. Don't even take another person in your mouth, just focus on YOURSELF, on what YOU feel and need. Not true. Nonviolent communication is the answer. It's like a foreign language. You have to practice it because it's not natural to you, but it's possible to learn, just take some time. Basically you need to start translating 'offensive' words from others into emotions and needs. For example, if you hear 'You are so selfish and only think about yourself!' as 'I'm angry because I have a need for understanding and empathy.', it won't make you angry, on the contrary, it'll put you in a position to stay calm and react properly. If you want to learn more about this, read the book I recommended above.

@somegirl Basic idea is to express what you feel and need without blaming and judging others. They most likely won't get mad if you talk only about your emotions and needs without expressing yourself in an offensive manner. Of course, everyone is responsible for their own feelings in the end.

The question is HOW you communicate what bothers you. I recommend a book 'Nonviolent communication' by Marshall Rosenberg.

So inspiring and realistic.. my favourite

I'm girl, not a guy lol I asked that question out of curiosity.. Anyway, thank you all for your answers.

Shouldn't dating strategies be adjusted to kind of girl guy want? If a guy wants a serious relationship, with the assumption that he is looking for a high quality girl for that (and IMO such a girl should consider long term consequences), I guess he should set the game to attract that kind of girls. Unlike that business you mentioned, where you need a lot of customers for it to work, for relationship you need only one.

@Leo Gura Are you suggesting that every guy who wants serious relationship is needy? If so, why?

Dirty minds of the forum, let's unite to make the sexiest playlist together! This can be really handy for unplanned situations.. I'll start with a few: This is just the tip of the iceberg, my list goes on and on... Which songs do you like to spice up a special night with?

@Emotionalmosquito First video is unavailable in my country.. What's the song? As for spiders... You can't rely just on music for that, but imo it contributes nicely to the atmosphere.