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@An young being You didn't get what I said. DM me your whatsapp, discord or skype and we can hop on a voice and I can explain it to you.

@An young being But you have to question why you like doing it in the first place. It most of the times is because it makes you feel good about yourself, but the reality is that you should feel good about yourself regardless if you help others or not. Helping is an another addiction, I know it, because I've been there and I loved it. Nowadays I try to aim helping only people very close to me to build stronger connection with them and not just for pity pleasure. When one is addicted to helping he might start putting himself in second in things and that'll cause problems later on. Hopefully you see what I try to say, because it'd save so much time of yours.

@An young being The way you said it in beginning was weird and even I didn't get what you meant. If being brutally honest to people was what you meant then you're correct and that's the way to go. Build up people by always being more and more honest with them until they gotta face the truth. Practice your communication btw, because the way you did it in start was so bad basically everyone got your message wrong. At the same time you should realize there is no point helping anyone realize anything, because it's your dream and life and there's nothing else. Helping is just you coping thinking that you're good person, but why you need to feel being lie a good person. Think about that. -joNi-

The sunday is coming and my spiritual moods are upping so maybe you could release another banger video and call it a day, right my champ? Don't know if you already have a video idea for this specific time, but something related to spirituality for a long time could be fun to keep Leo train going and all fellow seekers on a right track. Thanks for an advance. -joNi-

2 months have passed from that post and still nothing ?

WELCOME TO CONTEMPLATION SERVER! <3 The thread is not meant to be about me, but I'll share a story of why I made this thread in the first place to make some sense to it. My whole life purpose IS to gather as expansive intellectual knowledge of different aspects of reality and human life as possible. That being said the scope here is massive and I really want unique content that you've REALLY thought for yourself. I need more inspiration, because I have already thought of so many different things and I've reached some type of wall for 10th time or something in my life. Also as an another motivator for starting this communication between Actualized.org members is because it seems that the content here lately hasn't been evolving and I see higher potentiality for us. So to the point. We're basically trying to make team contemplation here. There's 2 type of ways to engage with the thread. 1. Contemplate something new for 30min - 1 hour or whatever you need to write something unique. a) Take out paper and pen. b) Make correct mood for contemplation with being alone and maybe by listening to some relaxing playlist. c) If you have and want you could take a little amount of psychedelics to get thoughts flying and creativity to shine. d) Write a word or thought on paper that you want to contemplate and set a timer and sit for the whole time. e) Post DEM results here. 2. Analyze someone's contemplation and push it further with new points and use the same method as in step (1.) Aim to surprise me and other actualizers and try to make every post pure, valuable and deep. Here is an example of a type of post I am looking for. (It's my own contemplation that I've done in the past) How to think Part 1 - If there is perspective outside of yours then you're wrong - Try to find how you're wrong to get thinking process to start - Define different words and write essays of them - Have hard discussions with people that stimulates your mind - Combine differnet worldviews - Understand that there's always some intension and that shapes thinking radically - Argue everything for yourself and don't take information blindly in - Learn to think in structures - Make thinking your hobby so it doesn't feel like work - You'll face lot of things that sound absurd, but learn that ABSURD =/= WRONG - Watch out for conflicts in your logic - Upgrade your patience so you can sit long enough front of a topic to find juicy perspectives to it - Thinking is like scanning your mind and topics to find irrationality to fix - Fuels of thinking are curiosity, information and want to grow as a person - In order to really upgrade thinking one has to be ready to change themself - Make it as enjoyable as possible to really have motivation to do it - Stop judging other perspectives, because it blocks you from integrating it to be part of larger worldview of yours. I hope this will not be a problem in this thread, but if there's extremely low quality of a post that doesn't add anything or somehow I don't like I'll ask a moderator to delete it, because as I said already, I am aiming to build something SPECTACULARLY MAGNIFICENT and I want it to go to direction that I saw in my vision. With love your friend <3 -joNi-

@HMD Extremely good work my friend . Contemplation basically is your training tool which teaches you think step by step. And very good point about not getting stuck thinking only things that are related to your life, but opening your contemplation to as wide as possible.

What it means to be spiritual? - Becoming more conscious overall - Aiming to turn into a mature person - Opening your mind, body and feelings - Wanting to be healthy in all domains of your life - Caring more about connections of any kind - Developing deep love for everything - Becoming more intentional - Valuing learning in itself - Wanting to have more experiences in life - Deep introspection - Appreciating every moment as something special - Contemplating own purpose and field of mastery - Letting go of past trauma - Finding personal meaning for own life - Becoming more creative and playful in your approach to life - Arriving to place of no worries - Having reasonable balance in things - Cultivating happiness into your life - Making all above part of your lifestyle

What is mastery? (about 2-3 hours) - Extreme precision - Capability to put intention effortlessly into action - Massive amount of understanding that acts as your map - Ability to see complex thing simply - Way to experience life through what you do - Large quantity of quality experiences well analyzed in your mind - Total immersion into your work - Skill to see small nuance differences - Creativity to survive from tough situations - Mastery of yourself comes before you can have mastery in something else - Result of well focused attention and effort in life - Ability to imagine end results clearly - Astonishing love for what you do - Patience to wait your work to turn into perfection - Ability to shut down all theory in your mind and just perform - Being always prepared - Curiosity to deepen your understanding - Being in flow of work and becoming one with the thing you do - Automatic patterns that work with good muscle memory - Having good feel of what you do - Good sense of own limits - Requires concentration - Very valuable attribute that we should aim to have more in our society - Tough mind full of courage - ART, ART, ART, ART, ART, ART and ART!!!!

@Colin Williams You just need one who values development in general and your job as a partner is to guide her to match your level. It'll take time, but that is the most logical way to do it. Even finding partner who seriously is open to develop is hard tho. And that way it'll be so much better anyways, because you two would share development journey as a team for longer and it'll make you two bond even stronger.

@Sincerity Very good contemplation! I see how listing those things down actually made you more conscious of them and it'll help you change your behaviour for better in the future . Now to the actual analysis - Deep authentic listening helps you to step into their perspective and see life from their eyes which helps you in guiding them further - Because love is the connection, sharing and receiving are 2 of the most important things to up love - Good way to remember telling people nice things is by learning to love that activity and then you'll never forget it - Manifestation is exactly trusting future you want to see. That trusting changes your behaviour and it impacts the future - When they promise something try to make it easier for them to success in it by positioning yourself differently - Honesty is lack of substance between 2 of you so more honesty = more connection = more love - Respecting someone is valuing them as an individual - Remember to lead your fellow loved ones by showing good example by yourself - Masculine example for love could have little harshness in it too if you know the receiver can take it properly in

What lifestyle means? - Set of principles that guide your life - Expressing your personality through living life - Special way to play life - Structured one helps you achieve your dreams - Experience you offer for people that know you - The art anyone can create from their life - Should be aligned with who you are - Tells lot about owners intentions - Good one gives feeling of meaning - Well crafted one builds ground and trust - Makes you feel unique - Inspires others and oneself - More sustainable and meta solution for bare habits - Changes based on your goals - Is personal for everyone so it shouldn't be copied - If is stuck your whole life feels stuck - Product of the integration process of intellectual knowledge and understanding - Limits and determines your possibilities in life - Even small changes have huge impact - It is easy to identify with your lifestyle therefore to get development stuck

Subskills of being social (about 40min) - Being able to relax your body - Having fluid mind enough to see the perspectives of others - Finding people interesting - Incredible storytelling talents - Skill of making conversations of any words - Recognizing humor in day to day things - Good emotion reading skills - Skill to hype people up - Skill of lightening mood progressively and reducing tension among people - An eye to help shy people to join conversations - Skill to make people feel good of themself - Understanding the weaknesses and strenghts of a specific environments - Progressively building respect between people - Having good awareness in general - Drama preventation skills - Good emotion handling skills - Having good, positive and energizing mood - Good mix of being relatable, but still unique - Knowing how to categorize people - Showing somehow that you don't judge others - Skill to be hypnotized by the conversations

@integral Awakening is an experiential insight. Therefore if you saw new aspect of reality or deepened some old one, you could call it an awakening. The whole game of having awakenings, intellectual insights or learning something new in general is only for you. You decide what counts as awakening for you and what doesn't. If you didn't already see, I'll tell you that everything that spirituality is, is personal introspection to the core of you and the experience occuring. It is 100% internal game and you gotta navigate in it by yourself and make the rules, not ask them from others. -joNi-

@SQAAD I guess before I continue answering to you, you could explain in detail why necessarily the WHOLE system needs to be changed and what that practically would mean to you.

@Socrates It's not a limiting belief, but just experimentation based on a trial and error. Go take psychedelics and make yourself to have wings permanently and take a picture of them for me. After that go teach Leo to cure his disease and we'll all be happy.

@SQAAD When you chat with Leo he is talking in very different level than you about changing oneself. He is trying to make a point about changing the whole system you're using to think things from. I am 22 yo and I already see how that probably never will change for me, but its's just more nuance on top of what already exists. Of course in the level you are speaking you can be changed man in a month and next time in a next month if you do things correctly and that should be your aim.

@Loving Radiance I am not sure if that was question meant to be answered by me or contemplation question for SQAAD. I'll answer to that anyways. There are some key aspects in life lived fully based on your dreams and personality and here's a list. 1. You feel like an artist, because you are literally crafting your life and living it in very unique way that smells like perfume made from you. 2. There's no comparison to other people, because you have so unique lifestyle and "game of life" that the only competitor possible is you. 3. You gain heightened trust to life and yourself, because you take the position of deciding whenever something is working or not. 4. Everything seems to come together and chaos basically disappears from your life. That is because everything is so well structured. 5. Your confidence skyrockets, because you know you do well and that's more that enough. 6. You realize always deeper how sacred and special your mind, body and life are. 7. There cannot be lack of motivation, because what you're meant to do and what you want to do collapses into one plan. 8. Life becomes exploration adventure of how you can grow yourself today. Literally EVERYTHING becomes a practise. 9. You are a master and the best at what you do in a whole earth. You JUST cannot be beaten in your field. 10. Everything you do is meaningful because that's how you designed it in the first place. The list could be more expansive, but 10 somehow felt good for a now.

@SQAAD First I'll throw different perspective to @Someone here's suggestion. I wouldn't advice reducing or stopping spiritual practices, but just use them to generate energy to change one's life materially if you wish to put it that way. With higher consciousness you'll make higher consciousness decisions and those will carry your stage orage cleaning job even higher dimensions you ever thought before. Also there's deep connection between general self-help and spirituality that many people don't see properly. It's easier to change lifestyle when you work on your "karma" or traditionally called "trauma" using spiritual methods. Also it's so much easier to meditate when you know you've done what you must've done for the day or a week. It gives you extra peace of mind. Fastest and best method to adjust one's personality or life as a whole happens by deeply contemplating one's philosophy and how that manifests in actuality in day to day life. What type of person you'd wish to be? How that person would value things, how that person would make decisions and from what observation angle? Answering those questions will set you a goal of a person you're aiming to unleash from inside. Now you have a plan and that gives you stability and motivation. Next thing is to really master self-integrity and start doing what needs to be done. It should be non-negotiable to always consider and do the best move on the board or otherwise there's no point in anything. -joNi-

@Buck Edwards Now you have lots of lessons to reflect back on and integrate them to grow to awesome person with huge life experience. Winning is not an action, but mental decision and lifestyle. Others had a headstart, but you'll outrun them in long-term, trust me -joNi-

@manuel bon This forum is focused on building stable, sustainable and healthy solutions for life. If you somehow have NEED to take basically amphetamine to get things done then aim to do just while you search for healthier alternatives. Is your diet, sleep schedule, water intake, physical exercise routine, muscle stretching in under control. How about life direction and hot desire for some area where you can express yourself through the lifestyle that you consider as an art. Have you watched all Leo Gura's videos already. How about Frank Yang? There are so many different self-help methods and boy decides to take speed? Sidenote: If you really still wanna go that route then I'll support you on that, but at least remember that you've been warned. My whole support <3 -joNi-

@manuel bon How many different things have you tried before deciding to take modafinil or something similar just to get things done. How other people get things done, how millionaires got their wealth and how spiritual monks attained their enlightenment. I strongly suggest you not going to that route, because you can find alternative solutions that are also long-term solutions and that is how you should measure your success anyways, on the long-term. If you still think you somehow need extra clarity boost then start microdosing magical truffles that are legal where you live and you'll be so much better with that path. Also begin to meditate daily and make cold showers a way to wake you up if needed. -joNi-

@Butters Build a daily habit of letting go muscle tension in your body and expecially around that area. Basically always when you remember it, do it. While you wait somewhere etc. Also breathe to that area to boost effects. Tell me how it works. -joNi-

@AndylizedAAY You don't necessary need to speak about topics taugh here to other people. Just casually outline things you've personally benefitted from spirituality. If they seem interested they'll ask more about your hobby if they don't then just change topic and try again later or wait until they face challenging moment of life and explain how spirituality could act as a tool to get over it.

@Eva First of all I don't want to start any big arguments anywhere, but funnily Tate just is the manly energy you want your son to have. Talk to him about things you know and guide him there and try not to lose connection with him, because he follows someone you don't like personally. You could even use Tate as your advantage in guiding your son. "Tate would ace dem tests at school and wouldn't be lazy" or that "Tate would respect his parents" and so on and so forth. Maybe introduce Leo's channel and make those 2 very good duo. Also these things are so deep that it'd be hard to say even 0,01 % what I want so if you may we could have voice conv about parenting in general Much support regardless <3 -joNi-