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@zurew Mainstream spirituality which is feminine is babyish. @Nemra If others opinions demotivate you then you're fucked either way. To me seeing all of you losing mind over my response is actually more motivating, because I know I am nowhere near that soft island where everything has to be said calmly with a gentle rub.

@zurew Again that's not what I am saying. It seems that you have some problems comprehending my writing. It's not that he is speaking about same structures, but from same stupid angles. If you look at some political book, you can pretty far see what author's position is. The same way judging from OP's summary of his book, If you aren't lying, you can pretty much see it is mainstream "spiritual" teaching focusing on the beauty of expressing your emotions, seeing positivity in things and having passion. That alone tells there's nothing in it, because that is just so soft and babyish way of living life. "Just smile and fairies come jerk you off" energy in the book.

@zurew First of all, that's pretty comical, but it was you who used the word novel, not me. Then to this you're absolute wrong, I don't need to use any formula to give criticism. If you were to read my responses to other people you would've seen that my position is that even a slap for bad form of push up can be valid "criticism". Also who said that I was doing professional criticism anyways, I was just expressing my thoughts and that's all. I think I've made myself clear here that the bare minimum that the author of book has to do is to create something unique. How many books you've read? Probably if you have read even bunch of 'em you know that by just looking at the chapter names and reading blurb you can make pretty good guess what the book is about. That's because they are there LITERALLY to help you choose the DAMN book. And on top of that the OP gave me even more, he gave a brief summary so I am pretty certain that I have more than enough to comment on structure. This situation would be completely different if I would be commenting on the content level stuff like the length of phrases etc.

@zurew You have right to think so. If you think me pointing OP to actually do the work and produce valuable book is 0 substance then you're fun.

@Michael569 I am not trying to speak the way people get me right. I am trying to express myself best according to what I mean and if it's taken wrong then it's in the hands of the receiver. This is exactly what is wrong with everything nowadays that people think what others think of what they say. That is not the best way of doing things. I realize and understand the point of view where you and others who criticize me come and I used to do same in the past, but now I'm changing for better. I wasn't being rude. If I use my personal fucking time to point something extremely valuable to someone I am helping them if they're ready to take it. If you play ego games and get defensive or get hurt that's your problem imo. If you do push ups with completely fucked up form and think that candies give you protein and therefore muscles wouldn't you kind of expect your coach to slap the fuck out of you with MAN's hand. This is no different what I did there on the forum. This is spirituality and self-development forum and people should look for growth and not for people comforting and giving them warm hugs. The people who understand what I am saying exactly and who have felt how society tries to mold you will get what I say here 100%. If those strong REAL people still exist comment to me and we'll see if there's any hope left for this forum.

@Carl-Richard If what you're saying is true then there's no reason for anyone to make any form of content. However I dissagree. When you speak about your own findings that are based on your unique lifestyle, you'll be giving society something fresh. Even tho Leo Gura is speaking about spirituality and self-development, that have been spoken for ages, he is actually bringing new findinds for the table and he is being useful. You know what I am talking about instinctively, because the reason you're mod here is because at some point you found Leo fascinating, because he has something no one else has. This is when you should make content IMO: when you feel like genuinely people don't get you even tho you KNOW that your perspectives could be useful or/and interesting, you should release a banger book for example, but that's not all still. Alex Hormozi wrote his book millions of times again and again and he made it better every try and only after years he published the first one. That's what I call a fucking book, not what the OP did. I pointed out that to him, exactly with my radicality, because I see no people being honest here, only just shallow comments like "yippee", "good work" and people acting like he did something incredible. Then after that people get triggered, because they haven't been spoken like Man to Man ever. People are too damn soft pussies.

@Davino What Leo is expecting is respecting forum enough to take time and focus in crafting quality posts and titles. He is not here trying to bully people who are still learning english.

@Michael569 That's not true. I ain't saying "the book is not for me". I am saying what I said exactly on the response which is basically "Learn to become unique and share ideas that are fresh and come from you". Probably you've seen a phenomenon in youtube where self-help videos kind of are copies of each others. You thinking of things for yourself is not enough, because your thinking already is programmed by the status quo. When you know structure so well you can spot patterns that I understood just by looking at the summary. I am saying here something incredibly deep and I hope you get what I am trying to point at. @Michael569 @Staples Also don't get triggered by my radicality. That I say something exactly how I think it in my mind doesn't make it bad or good. Just my way of speaking. Get over it, bruh.

@Rishabh R And that is what everyone is saying. Do you even fathom the depth of what the fuck I am saying. The reason you calculate something in your head one way over something is because you're operating with the model printed to your head from school. The same way it's obnoxiously obvious that the perspective you're speaking of these things comes from the same place others have done it before. This is the type of situation where something is so written on your forehead that the only person that can't see it is you. Still again as I've said, I might be wrong, so be free to enlighten me with new perspective that hasn't been status quo before. Tell one.

@Rishabh R The problem with books and info in general is that it hierarchically flows downwards. Judging from the topics it is "same" that what everyone else is teaching. Also "positivism" isn't even the most powerful model. Try harder on the next book to really get insights from your own investigation rather than just echo chambering the status quo. If you think my criticism isn't valid then tell me something that I already didn't know.

@NoSelfSelf I get what you're saying. Basically by contructing your own worldview and bending reality intellectually you can gain edge. What I use often is even though I know it would've been more optimal if I started hobby X when I was 5 year old I still believe I beat people, because I just am so awesome and I trust to myself. In that sense I don't need to "lie" to myself, but I just take the angle that gives me best change for knockout punch. Regardless if people think that my angle sucks it doesn't dismiss that it works for what I am using it for.

@Florian Here's a little twist into your thinking that could add dimension into it. Before delving deeper into that I gotta say that your approach is valid and contemplating structural values that give meaning for sub values is important. The problem comes after thinking about these things long enough that you reach a point where it is hard to make any progress at all, because you've just hit the end of spiritual inquiry that reveals that everything just is, period. Understanding is not solely enough; you need to partner it with creating. Understanding is bringing things together and decreasing noice for the sake of reaching clarity. Creation aspect aims to build character and lifestyle that is UNIQUE for you. Of course both understanding and creating work as a team together to enhace the power of each others. What I've managed to realize is that the blindspot of most spiritual people is that they don't focus enough or at all for creation aspect, but they just dream of reaching new stages of emptiness. IMO the point of understanding should be to CREATE from it and not just escape the whole game and smile like an idiot. Feel free to comment on this to continue the contemplation with me. -joNi-

@Elton Then you speak about this problem for someone who has the power needed and explain that this thing restricts your work and also that it ruins the business's money making ability. Your Boss understands if he isn't complete moron.

@Elton People who don't respect you, don't respect working under you, you fire 'em. Know what you do and tell them that if they want to be in your ship they support you or they're out. Being in friend position doesn't give you permissions to jump into your eyes. You set higher standards for people who are closer to you.

@Jannes Does ice cream taste good?

Hello my fellow fighters, let's fucking go! I made this thread only for so everyone could post something productive they did in daily basis and therefore we could build massive group energy to inspire each others to take action in practical level and stop bullshitting ourselves. It doesn't matter if what you post is about work, studying, workout, making awesome apple cake or listening to audiobook. Just drop everything here that you have on your mind and we are ready to conquer the world. Aim to constantly drop something insightful here so this thread will skyrocket. You get that which you put in, so start your work TODAY. With the power and love -joNi-

Simply because he gives value what people on this forum will never understand.

@Someone here I would advice to care only about things that you need in order to build the life you are currently visualizing for yourself. Everthing else is pretty much waste of time if you don't know how to use them for your benefit. Stop asking reasons for doing X things from people, but discover for yourself if it is useful or not.

@meow_meow First thing, never take molly in your life again.

@Buck Edwards Here's the point imo. When you learn to find quality information and analyze it carefully there's no need to do it fast.

@OBEler I don't see anyone giving this type of perspective what I think is the most useful. The point is that you've gotta try things for youself what works and what doesn't. Of course being cautious is the key here so advance carefully forward. Try to understand that whole society is gaslighting your ass 24/7 and is keeping your creativity low. Just remember that whatever you do and whatever happens is your own responsibility in the end. Who cares if you lose some minimal amout of money while tripping. General rule in life is that you shouldn't gamble money you ain't ready losing. Actualized.org isn't your Motherfucking DAD and MOM to ask for answers, but just friend group of people trying to advance in life. That's that. Do what seems right for you, see results and correct your behaviour. Be your own captain, Amen Jesus.

@Jannes The point is that you don't need constant grinding when honestly you don't want something. If part of you doesn't want to watch youtube and part of you does it means internal crisis and you need to fix that problem first. Ask from yourself why you want to watch youtube instead of doing something else in the first place. What is the thing you're lacking in life outside of watching youtube videos that you're addicted and can't get elsewhere. It is called "personal" development for a reason and not "life optimization". Something in you needs to change in order to call it progress. Mere content change in life doesn't check that box.

@Jannes You shouldn't need to handcuff yourself not to take heroin. Find how to really control your mind instead of needing some tricks. The truth is that what you do may work, but doesn't permanently help with anything nor it won't grow you.

What all of you spiritual people fail to realize is that doing things, living best life for yourself and making it best exactly precisely for you is NOT a bad thing. The only problem occurs if you don't act out of love in various scenarios. That's the only meter of how well you're living your life is how much love you feel inside. You guys need to realize you're broken inside and you need to love yourself more and not just cope by feeling gimplses of love by bending backwards on people and calling yourself a hero. You ain't hero. Just pure non standard simp trying to feel love by all means possible. It is true though that when person starts to live life based on love instead of survival and pity pleasures (so called egoic stuff) he'll have so much fuller life experience full of beauty, love and intelligence. You need to start contemplating by yourself what you want out of your life instead of listening all types of teachers and copying their approach and acting like you're so fantastic because you can parrot sentences that young child could even do. The answer waiting for most of you is deep realization that you'll always be "selfish" whatever that means for your own purposes. There's nothing wrong with that. Who the fuck told you that it is wrong to love yourself so much that you give your whole life experience in totality for yourself. That's the only way anything makes any sense. Wake the FUCK UP!

@An young being Make new discord account with random name and picture and hop on it. How anyone could know anything and I keep everything said between us, because one of my values is keeping promises.