Harlen Kelly

''S'up, I am tyler from reeeeeaaaaal social dynamics'', never gets old.

Most healthy heterosexual men are horny most of the time and willing to have sex with an attractive woman at any time, regardless of how many options he has. You are clearly mistaken about male sexuality. Open your mind to the possibility that you are wrong.

Most men who engage in those thought patterns do so because they themselves lack experience with women. Guys who get laid understand that women engage in casual sex, lots of casual sex, and they don't judge it because they are a direct beneficiary of that. That's a bit low, keep in mind that when a chick tells you how many guys she has slept with, she most likely will not include the one-night stands she had at the bar with guys she barely knew and the like. Because she intuitively knows that if she shares her actual lay count with you, most guys would devalue her automatically, consequently, she will typically only include the ''serious'' relationships and discard the sexual escapades.

@Valach The easiest way to get over that judgement is by realizing that the average woman has had 2 to 3x the amount of sexual partners that the average man has had. Understanding that women regularly engage casual sex, particularly in their twenties, will eliminate those negative connotations you have attached to women's sexuality. Realizing that will also help your game tremendously.

@Preety_India I don't know if I should take you seriously.

@Karmadhi That is a losing strategy. @Preety_India Are you trolling?

@Javfly33 I would not suggest leaving your job. You don't have to leave your job to meet women.

@Javfly33 You definitely have hit rock bottom.

@Giulio Bevilacqua Go to a physician and explain to them the symptoms you are feeling. They will know what to do to solve the situation that's why they are trained physicians. Instead of making excuses, simply make the appointment and get treated.

@Giulio Bevilacqua My advice for you is to consult actual professionals (physicians, psychiatrist, psychologist, etc..) and not ''healers'' as you mentioned above, since healers have not been able to help you. I doubt that will happen. Make an appointment with a trained physician and go get treated, take advantage of the advancements that have been made over the last 200 years in the field of psychology and medicine.

@Giulio Bevilacqua Ok, how many physicians did you visit?

Have you tried visiting an actual physician ? Somebody with credentials?

Not even close. Here is a detailed homicide report from the FBI 2019: https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2019/crime-in-the-u.s.-2019/tables/expanded-homicide-data-table-6.xls 2018 homicide report: https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2018/crime-in-the-u.s.-2018/tables/expanded-homicide-data-table-6.xls

13/50 does not equal 4x. They do commit more crime, that's a fact but not at that rate. If there are 100 people living in a piece of land and the majority ( let's say 80% ) pushes the minority for 100s of years to live under poor socio-economic circumstances that lead to criminal behavior (by means of slavery, segregation, jim crow, the war on drugs etc..), you are supposed to fix the underlying structures and systems that created those socio-economic circumstances in the first place instead of blaming the minority that the majority systemically subjugated and oppressed for hundreds of years. This is an incredibly simple concept to grasp but the people that have been punked by right wing propaganda close their minds to such a simple concept because they frankly do not give two FFs about the people suffering injustices, their level of psychological development does not allow them to even consider improving the lives of the disenfranchised, that includes minorities, LGBT people, the poor, etc..

@charlie cho You are overthinking this dude.

Are you intentionally trying to be a dullard or are you being sarcastic? I used an analogy to better illustrate my position.

That's a brain-dead, imbecilic conservative talking point to ignore the real and tangible mistreatments and injustices committed against minorities and other disenfranchised groups. That is factually incorrect.

The far left in the US is the center left in Europe. Wanting to implement universal healthcare and have fair treatment of minorities and disenfranchised people is not far left. And that's what the ''far left'' is advocating for in the US.

These are the same people who would make comments such as ''the slaves were well-fed and treated properly by their masters''. Their ideological positions should be adequately mocked and discarded.

We had an openly racist, quasi fascist president not too long ago and 75 million people voted for that deranged, imbecile president.

@sara373 That will never happen.

@Peter Miklis I don't necessarily disagree with challenging his beliefs, but stating that ''he is clearly capping'' is an infelicitous conclusion.

You are incredibly misinformed. A 10 minute read about the behavioral manifestation of a suicidal person would get rid of those misconceptions you have. That information is readily available from reliable, trustworthy sources.

There is no need to suffer. Everybody who at one time sucked with women went through what you are going through currently. I personally know plenty of guys who have been able to go from absolute newbies to pulling and closing every week. Make a habit of going out at least 3 times a week, try to get a wingman who consistently gets results. Getting good in a relatively short amount of time will be almost impossible if you don't have a good wingman. Also meditate, clean up your diet and exercise regularly. That will have a massive impact on your ability to exude confidence and positive emotions.

@Preety_India Read the post again, do it comprehensively this time.