Harlen Kelly

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  1. @Valach You can go out sooner and call it a day at 1 am instead of 2 am. Try to seed the pull earlier in the interaction.
  2. @MatteO22 You remind me of a crazy/obsessive ex I used to have a long time ago. Very pathetic indeed.
  3. @MatteO22 Would really appreciate if you refrain from tagging me, thanks in advance.
  4. @Vrubel It's not hyperbolism, the UN has released reports substantiating everything I mentioned about Israel. It is not by any means an exaggeration to assert that the government of Israel is a racist, xenophobic government that is terrorizing Palestine. What about Palestine's security concerns and traumas?
  5. @Valach First of all, good job, keep going! If you just started doing pickup and you are already feeling neediness for a chick, that's more than likely due to oneitis. I would HIGHLY recommend you to get good at reliably and consistently attracting women first before settling down with a chick. You are not going to regret anything, your perception has simply been hijacked by oneitis and neediness.
  6. The actions taken by Israel are THEMSELVES terrorist actions, surprise, surprise. The ''radical islamic movements'' have not caused 10% of the damage Israel has caused to Palestine and the Palestinian people. The government of Israel is a xenophobic, racist, terrorist, war criminal government, so is Hamas.
  7. @Anton Rogachevski Are you in support of the measures Israel has been taking against Palestine, which were deemed a genocide by the United Nations? Is it possible to be against the unlawful acts committed by Palestine while simultaneously denouncing the genocide Israel is committing?
  8. Your thought pattern and perspective is notably unsystemic and simplistic. Which is not surprising. By the way, people who don't care don't tend to use foul language alleging they don't care.
  9. @Byun Sean Based.
  10. You are missing something crucial. The trend for the past 30 years has been an exponential increase of divorce rates, and an exponential decrease of marriage rates. That trend will not be reversed. Marriage is nothing more than a traditional custom that will not be regarded as relevant in particularly advanced societies. @bejapuskas My point is that the concept of marriage will lose its importance as societies evolve until it eventually becomes an outdated custom. There is nothing special or rational about marriage, it is just tradition.
  11. @Cepzeu I don't quite understand why you are asking for advice in regards to open relationships if you are not planning on having open relationships. I would not be surprised if she was the one who brought up the open relationship. Seems like you have developed oneitis.
  12. Never implied is because of one reason, of course there are cases of abuse, there was much more abuse in the 1960s and divorce rates were much lower, therefore, that is not the main reason. As I said, high divorce rates are a feature of modernity, secularism, and egalitarianism, not a bug. The most advanced countries have the highest divorces rates, the most underdeveloped/traditional countries have the lowest divorce rates. I am not passing a value judgement on marriage/divorce because I am not interested in marriage. Marriage rates will continue to decline, and divorce rates will continue to increase as societies become more advanced.
  13. Do you need to enter a governmental/contractual agreement to foment a loving, long-term, interdependent relationship with your partner? Statistically speaking, men tend to have more assets than women when married. Men tend to have more to lose than women. High divorce rates are a feature of modernity, secularism, and egalitarianism, not a bug. The countries that rank the highest in terms of egalitarianism and protection for women in general are the countries with some the highest divorce rates, and the countries that rank low in egalitarianism have some of the lowest divorce rates such as iran, kenya, turkey, to name a few. The more advanced and equal societies become, the more irrelevant traditions such as marriage become.
  14. @bejapuskas Women file for divorce because statistically speaking it benefits them most of the time which is why I consider it foolish to enter a contractual agreement where you are at a significant disadvantage. This is backed up by statistical data. It's not because guys are ''toxic'' that 80% of women file for divorce.
  15. @Terell Kirby Approximately 52% of marriages end in divorce, and about 80% of divorces are filed by women. Keep those statistics in mind if you decide to get married. I personally think is foolish and unwise (particularly if you are a man), there is no need for a contractual agreement to have a thriving relationship.
  16. Hahahahahh, some people can definitely take it to an extreme.
  17. The fundamental difference is that men have not faced the systemic and institutional oppression that women have faced for the vast majority of human history and are still facing in most countries (with the exception of first world countries). There are legitimate concerns that are brought up by MRA/MGTOW regarding men, but I huge chunk of the movement is a neurotic overreaction against feminism. It's equivalent to the all lives matter movement in the sense that it's a neurotic/mindless/unsophisticated overreaction against black lives matter.
  18. I just took a look at the forum, it's way worse than I thought. ''Male species'' Can you be more pathetic? My guess is no.
  19. Not really. Mr. 12 inch dildo will suit her perfectly.
  20. @Preety_India At least from the perspective of a man, we don't really take seriously the women who get extra needy at the beginning of the relationship. Men tend to play for a little while with those types of women and dump them afterwards.
  21. That does not mean he wants to have a long-term relationship with you. You are just infatuated by him, that infatuation is warping your perspective. As I said, this will not have a happy ending.
  22. @Preety_India Because of how invested you are so soon in the relationship. Based on what you stated he told you, he does not see you as a potential long-term relationship.