Gesundheit2

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peter_Pan_syndrome

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Whether in the east or the west, you see a girl, you like her physical appearance, then you go through a certain route to gain access to sex. There are various routes, although currently easier in the west, but they're essentially the same. These categories you're creating are irrelevant. Nobody in the more traditional societies cares about compatibility. They care about physical appearance, money, status/family/personal relations, religion/faith, and things like that. Personal compatibility is not one of those things because eastern societies are not individualistic. At best the concept of compatibility is not as sophisticated as you would imagine since the man has the dominant role in the relationship. So either the woman submits to her husband, or she gets divorced, which is a bad reputation, so most women submit eventually because the last word is for the man and he doesn't have to split anything with the woman except what they agreed to beforehand. Or if he doesn't have options and/or she's really smart and manipulative, the dynamic is reversed. But there's not even the thought or discussion about compatibility for most people, even in the west I doubt most people care about anything more than their pragmatic needs of the other person, but at least in the west it's easier and more possible to actualize it, unlike in the east. I live in the middle-east, btw.

I don't think you get it. But that's fine, you can read my posts again. I'm done here.

It depends on where this is happening. If it's in your imagination, then it's because I'm a sick manipulative bastard. Otherwise, in reality, it's because that's the truth and/or right thing to say.

@Preety_India Not true, because I might like her, and might not. The two scenarios are possible, so I'm only being truthful. A lot of women understand that having a vagina does not automatically grant a man's companionship.

@Preety_India Sure.

They don't disagree or argue against the mainstream ideas here. Sometimes that is the case. Sometimes that is the case, too.

Obviously not all of them, but probably a sizeable proportion. In general, don't be upfront telling a woman that you want a relationship with her, and don't be upfront telling her that you only want sex, either. One way you'll be perceived as needy and the other way as creepy. Instead, tell her that you like to take your time getting to know her before considering anything serious.

The field nearby.

@SQAAD He said he will explain why later in a vlog.

Not all fantasies are of the higher self. Some of them come from the shadow. As a general rule of thumb, your imagination tells you who you are more than who you want to be. But you'd have to read between the lines to understand the communication. As well, it's not always healthy to follow your imagination wherever it leads you. Sometimes, fantasies can become delusions and some of these can really be harmful. It's tricky, and there's no one right answer for all cases.

The only problem I have with the forum in general is the politics section. I think it's mostly useless and most people involved in it aren't trying to improve or benefit or anything, just debating community-inherited ideologies. Basically, it's a poor environment for improvement because of the way we treat politics. Otherwise, I think the forum is great the way it is. However, I think enforcing the rules more strictly will create stress which can be counterproductive. But it might be worth trying.

@Leo Gura Did you get a new clarity on the solipsism topic or are your views essentially the same?

Everyone could burn themselves, by mistake. It's incredible that doesn't happen often.

People's words can hurt you in one case only; that is if you give them any importance.

@Scholar You're being paranoid.

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This level of skill made me question my entire existence!

@Loba Nice to see someone finally benefiting from the things we keep repeating here all the time instead of resisting and denying them. That's how women should generally regard our contributions here as men.

Silent mind. Perfect stillness. Peace of heart. Throw whatever you want at me, I don't care, I don't feel hurt anymore. I'm wide open. And I can close on demand. The gates are guarded. I am safe, and dangerous. I have myself, what do you have?

@Leo Gura OK, fuck this. I'm out.

Again, I'm not the only player here. You're playing with me. Even during your supposed "deepest awakening - LIVE" you still played the game. Can you develop? Here, you are mixing truths with delusions. Yes, I am imagining you and I am alone, I'll wear your lens and agree that these are facts. But then this weird connection you're creating between the two fact, that's the problem. It's a story. Your story. And you have no way of confirming it, regardless of how confident you may get about it. Sigh.