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    You need to know the rules in order to break them. And you need to break the rules in order to learn.

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    Healthy/Secure/Developed/Integrated masculinity is not about power or dominance. It's about vision and leadership. Healthy/Secure/Developed/Integrated femininity is not about vulnerability or submission. It's about co-creation and co-operation. In both cases, self-agency is intact and self-esteem is high, and there's minimum shadow and repression.
  3. This map you're looking for is right under your nose, it's the word "everything" or "infinity".

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    Being systemic/holistic includes the ability to deliberately lose systemic/holistic thinking when necessary. The opposite is not true. Tier two includes and adds on top of tier one, but tier one doesn't even see tier two or the possibility of its existence.
  6. The thing is that there is a divine component to everything, as well as a mundane component. Some might say the divine is the mundane and the mundane is the divine, and I don't disagree with that. So it's not that spirituality and music are divine by nature, even though paradoxically, they are. But the same applies to everything else, so it's important to keep that in mind.
  7. I apologize if it sounded like that, I honestly don't mean it that way. Like I said, I am at a point where I'm mostly concerned with utility, so my bias may be coloring my perception, and I sincerely don't mean any offense. Though, I get your point. There's a lot of effort and hard-work involved in the process of generating insights, and sometimes it can be very serious and life-threatening even. But still, I mean, I can think of a few things that clearly are entertainment and a few thing that clearly aren't. For example, music is clearly entertainment, same as porn, WWE, sports, art, etc. even though there's obviously a ton amount of effort and hard-work required to make them happen. On the other hand, things that are clearly not entertainment are things like firefighting, medicine, the military, giving birth, religion and traditional spirituality, etc. So the distinction exists, and I think we can both agree on that. I'm not sure what exactly makes that distinction, though. Maybe that's worthy of some contemplation. Maybe things that have clear and defined goals that are not open-ended are considered more serious and less entertaining. Though, obviously our relationship to the things we practice can differ. For example, a firefighter might become so in alignment with their job that it eventually becomes entertainment for them, even though that's not the general case. As well, music and other more entertainment-like jobs can become tedious and tiring if one is unable to learn how to enjoy the process of creation, even though that's not the general case. The way I see it is that traditional spirituality is generally considered an anti-dote to suffering as a main function of the whole thing. While Actualized.org seems to have surpassed that and transcended it to another level, we might say innovation. I don't think many people have reached this far, given the general cultural status of both religion and spirituality.
  8. I think so. Then again, I think this distinction is very important. Not all people are looking for entertainment. Some people are just trying to "end the call" and go back to their ordinary life ASAP, so Advaita (Vedanta) might be their drug of choice. I think this should be made more clear so that people know what they're getting themselves into beforehand.
  9. When I asked if spiritual truth-seeking is entertainment to you, you said not. But how is this different? You don't have anything better to do, so you choose to spend your time on the thing you like the most. Nothing wrong with entertainment per se. But let's call an apple an apple. You are a creative person, and your creation is wisdom and insight. Similar to music, but not quite the same.

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  12. Thanks for your transparency. These questions have been floating around in my mind for a while now, and it's good to finally have some clarity. If we could continue with this thread, I would like to ask you what does truth-seeking mean in respect to spirituality? Do you mean that spirituality is the deepest truth that we have so far? Or that all truth is encapsulated within spirituality? Or maybe, do you mean that what you're interested in regarding the spiritual quest is mostly the truth aspect of it? Like there is truth without spirituality too, but that's not what your work is about? So that in conclusion what you're most interested in is truth from the spiritual perspective, but not much from other perspectives? For me, spirituality has become more like a form of entertainment that can serve some healing purposes, too. So, given all the options above, I guess it seems I'm not quite on the same page. I really like this. Very honest and responsible in my opinion. Yeah, I've been shifting more and more into practicality in the past couple of years, although very slowly. I think I still have some more ways to go before I can swing back into the opposite direction. My priorities have shifted for some reason, probably the need to improve my survival situation and remove some of the stressors in my current lifestyle. I may probably review my priorities once again after I'm in a relaxed environment to make understanding and truth my top priorities again. Anyway, they're still relatively high on my top 10 list, which is why I'm asking for clarity, but as of now practicality is #1. I view everything as a tool for me to make the most benefit out of.

  13. I'm addicted to this forum !

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    @Someone here At this point, I'm quite sure there's a little Akaash inside your skull having an orgasm at each forum notification
  14. Sometimes I worry about their teeth
  15. Movies be like: Hi, how are you? Mwamwamwa

  16. Gesundheit2 replied to lmfao's topic in Self-Actualization Journals

    @lmfao Hey man. Please feel free to PM me anytime you want. There won't be no judgements, and no limits to what you can say to me (including insults). It's an open offer for an unlimited amount of time. Hope you feel better whatever you decide. Take care.
  17. @Leo Gura I have some questions for you if you may kindly answer: Do you think of spirituality as a medicine or an entertainment kind of thing, or both? In your estimation, what is the general audience that you are targeting with your insights? Are they mostly desperate spiritual seekers? Or advanced awake people? In your opinion, who should be following your work and who shouldn't? Where do you think your insights are most effective?
  18. Not trying to provoke a new gender war or to offend anyone or anything like that, but ladies your advice sounds a little bit off the mark from my pov. Let me clarify... The way I see it is that men and women perceive the world differently, and that's a general statement that isn't limited to sexuality or the opposite gender. But the thing is that this subtle difference in perception becomes very prominent when it comes to these topics, because well, we see each other differently. What I mean is that it is good that you are offering advice and trying to help, it is most appreciated at least for me. On the other hand, I don't think it's quite hitting the spot. For most us men, it takes something other than just feeling the connection in the moment to really know how to act. A lot of times we feel things differently from women, sometimes prematurely and sometimes very late. It is easy for women to pick up on signs and mood and act accordingly. Women have most of their focus on the bigger picture. For men, we're mostly focused on the details and specifics, so that becomes much harder, generally speaking. Maybe because that's how our brains work, or because it's how we're programmed to operate in the world, or a mix of both or something else. But the point is that it's not that easy for most men, so I kindly ask all the fine ladies of this forum to take that into consideration if you think it's something you could do. On the other hand, I encourage myself and other men to be more attentive of the moment and try to be less analytical and more intuitive. Thanks for reading.
  19. The problem with the word love is that it has a very specific meaning, so it's not just 4 random letters. Spiritual people claim that this meaning is absolute, and not just relative. They claim that the relative form is derived from the absolute. I think it's the other way around. But I guess it probably doesn't even matter.
  20. Humans have learned to tame nature, so we only experience the good side of it for most of the time. You will quickly change your mind once you try living in the wild. Well, you don't need that even, just one persisting fly could make your life a living hell.
  21. I don't care how awake you are or claim to be. Identity is not a luxury, but a necessity. So you either own it or repress it and throw it into your shadow. Anyone who claims to not have an identity is a liar, hypocrite, or just stupid and deluded. Now, I don't agree with all of Leo's decisions or philosophy, but in the politics section I think it's not that bad. I mean I would prefer not having this section altogether, but it is what it is.
  22. That pic says everything!
  23. 3 in 1, AIO, the whole package: Pee + Cum + Pleasure; All from one place. Precise and efficient.
  24. It becomes obvious as you escalate. You start by touching her on friendly areas like her arms, then you move on to touching her face, cheeks and lips. If she is allowing and giggling and all that, that's a green light for the kiss.
  25. Women do have a penis, it's just called a clitoris. Doesn't look very different now, does it? The fetus starts as a female, then either remains female or turns into male, depending on fetus-life hormones. In other words, the same female genitalia can develop into male genitalia in case of high testosterone.