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You can "think" whatever you want. But in reality, all your fancy thoughts and philosophy will fly out of the window the moment something remotely bad happens to you. Bias is hardwired in your existence. In fact, if you're proving anything with this thread, it's this. You are simply proving your bias. If you were unbiased, you would not be here trying to convince anyone of anything. Unbiased people are dead. You are alive. So enough with this nonsense.

@MisterNobody You are seriously disconnected, from reality.

It is possible to achieve perfection in the human form! It is possible to become a perfect human being! DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYUUMN!!!! This is powerful!

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Exactly. An unfair society is only good for a few. An oligarchy of sociopaths. And this sociopathic oligarchy controls everything, including the minds of the general population and convinces them that it is good and fair.

Like Leo said. Just do it. That's the best way. However if, for some reason, you're still struggling, you can try this follow-up post:

Here's a snippet of a post I've made regarding this exact topic: I think it's one of my best contributions so far.

Leo's outbursts remind me of myself when I was Muslim. I used to jerk off then feel bad about it and try to abstain. Every time I would say this is the last time, I would stick to that for around two weeks or three max, but then I'd come back hornier and jerk off even harder. That's what happens when you try to repress certain parts of yourself instead of allowing them a healthy outlet. The masculine cannot control the feminine forever. Eventually she will explode in your face until you learn the lesson.

Some people have daddy issues, others have mommy issues. And Leo has God issues.

You don't need to overcome the fear of approaching. You should approach despite the fear, until it's gone. The only way out is in.

Do you think this applies only to BPD or does it include people who are experiencing mental disorders in general?

@LSD-Rumi I guess you could do that, but then you'd likely be skipping the transformation journey, which is the best part. There's so much growth in developing your social skills.

@LSD-Rumi Just start hanging out with the more liberal type of people. And avoid anyone that shows any signs of religion. Though, that can be hard if your city is very conservative. But there's Facebook, you can meet people and join their groups there. Check out some of the popular pages that post atheistic memes and stuff like that, and look in the comments. The page might have a dedicated group, or you can message people and ask them. Use a fake account for caution. Don't message the girls directly, they will think you're a troll or a test from some relative or a prank from a friend. Instead, look for a way to join groups of similar interests. Then you will get to know some people that are more open-minded and one thing will lead to another and it will get easier.

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@Emerald I don't think part vs. whole is the best way to frame it. "Whole" is really just an alternative way of saying emotions or "how I feel about a person", so it's more of an indicator of how women tend to view reality, which is mainly through their emotions. So it's how you feel about your potential partner that matters. So if it's just that, or mostly it. Then the way to win your heart is to make you feel good/safe but also excited in some kind of way. Now, the question is how to make a woman feel that way towards me? And you're on with the mic.

It's a numbers game. If you keep approaching, you will find some girls who will go the distance. The difficulty may vary depending on location, but it's a solid technique. You can pick up girls while sharing a cab, in the parks, or at the cashier. Be creative. It really depends on the girl. And you don't control most of the outcomes, so there are no perfect lines or strategies. Just be cool, easy, and confident to maximize your chances.

First, it is important to check with yourself and see your values and goals in life, at least on the short term. If meditation aligns with them perfectly, you won't have a problem integrating the habit, and it will be enjoyable. If not much, then you might need to exercise some will power in the first month or two until the habit sticks. Then it will become a part of your daily routine and it will be hard to let go of.

It's not just in my eyes. I think that a lot of people would easily recognize strength when they see it. Of course, many people can be deceived into thinking that some displays of strength are actually strength when they are not necessarily it, but generally speaking, actual strength is almost undeniable in how distinct and clear it is. So, strength can come in various forms, like physical, financial, mental, emotional, etc. But the common denominator would be things like durability, maintainability (both short and long terms), responsibility, sovereignty, wisdom, maturity, confidence, the ability to take on difficult challenges, taking action despite doubts and fears, the ability to go through tough times when necessary, etc. It seems like you're describing strength that is expressed through vulnerability, which is likely the result of integrating the masculine and the feminine. So, it's like the black dot in the white, or the white dot in the black (from the yin-yang symbol). In other words, what you're describing is a form of strength that acknowledges vulnerability, knows its place, and allows it to be. Like a warmer, more conscious and considerate form of strength. And yes, that is probably attractive to many people, especially if they are strong people in the first place. But pure strength is also attractive on its own for many people. I guess it depends on one's internal settings and how their masculine vs. feminine balance is like. Yes, Anima issues.

Unless it's Hitler's govt. that is hiding in the Antarctica But jokes aside, you're right. I don't know what these things are.

Probably. Bro, Pilots are high by definition

Obviously insomniacs should never use psychotropic drugs without a doctor's recommendation. Foods rich with magnesium can help. Exercising can help. Relaxing activities. Going out with friends and talking to family members. Basically anything that takes your mind off of whatever it is that's not allowing you to sleep.