Gesundheit2

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  1. Hardcore sex is all about mechanicalness, but to do it properly you'd have to be bigger than her, both wider and taller. You can't have a short slim body and expect to satisfy a curvy girl. It's not gonna happen. You gotta prey on her like a mad dog preying on a little kitty, overwhelm her body with stimulations and override her reactions with force. That's what she means by hardcore, purely animalistic and mechanical. But then how are you gonna last for more than 5 seconds lol.
  2. You're still low compared to me. I've already passed all those 16,777,216 stages you're struggling with and started entering new hyper-dimensional stages that cannot even be spoken of.
  3. @Milos Uzelac I think you did a great job bringing up this example for comparison. However, I still don't seem to be able to draw solid conclusions. Could you share your opinions on the situation, overall?
  4. @Harlen Kelly You and Leo are missing context. Yes, the typical girl you meet at the club or the bar is like that, but not all girls. The cleanest history is not found within these social settings. When you go and camp in there, you're by definition asking for more experienced girls, which is why men often find themselves behind in the game.
  5. Different economical systems. Different cultures/religious beliefs. Different levels of nationalism/patriotism. Different geopolitics. Different demographics, especially the general population numbers.
  6. This is a very important question, perhaps the most important one here. From the meta perspective, toxicity (in general) is a concept that victims imagine in order to shift the societal power dynamics simply through talking and without putting any real efforts. It's an avoidance of stepping up and rising to the challenges of society, and a way of keeping oneself in the comfort zone. It has nothing to do with gender, yet it takes different shapes and forms. The main tactics are judging and demonizing instead of accepting and embracing.
  7. That's why the inwards path is a lot more preferable and rewarding.
  8. Spirituality and consciousness: overly confident about his insights, which is a red flag for me. He bashes other teachers and intellectuals a lot. Politics: way too attached to SD, has a progressive bias, magical thinking (rationalized as turquoise). Science: idealist bias, which is inappropriate to say the least. People: he doesn't keep a circle of friends or interact with real people as far as I know. That's all I've got for now.
  9. They will leave Iraq when they leave the Arabian gulf. Parts of it are.
  10. @Michael569 God twerks in mysterious ways.
  11. @Gabith Toxicity doesn't have a gender. For example, Connor Murphy is the biggest attention whore. Improve your boundaries, maximize your self-esteem, increase your consciousness, keep developing yourself in general, and you will be fine.
  12. @flume I actually did not know that Leo made such a video until this thread, and even then I haven't watched it. Apparently, my reasoning for cheating is quite different from the video. I agree with you here. In my view, it doesn't matter how good the sex is or how beautiful, great, smart, and funny the woman is. When a man cheats on his woman, it's almost always about him, not about her. Male sexuality is very impersonal. Even if she's the world's most beautiful woman and the world's greatest mother and all the great things in the world, at some point his attraction towards her will decrease and then he will start seeking other women even if they're "less" than her. And "less" here is his own rational judgement. So, he actually knows and understands and even appreciates all the good things that she is, but he will still seek another sexual partner, regardless. So, yes, you shouldn't seek to keep your man loyal. Good sex for men is not the same thing as good sex for women. Good sex for men is mostly physical and perceptive (has to do with the senses, sights, sounds, etc...). Emotional connection is not a prerequisite for good sex for men, even though it's definitely appreciated. You needn't get triggered here, it's just practical advice. However, bad sex is very different from no sex at all. No sex at all is his responsibility, while bad sex is her responsibility. Easy for you to say these things when you don't have the same urges. And they are indeed powerful urges. No kidding. It's not necessarily "bad" or a "problem", but I see your point. And "cheating" doesn't necessarily break that commitment. Of course, that assumes there aren't already huge problems existing within the relationship, like lack of trust and communication. If there are already huge problems, then cheating is not really the actual problem, but really a scapegoat for and a doubling-down on the lack of communication. Either way, I would inquire into why people take it so seriously and consider it very threatening to the relationship. Agreed.
  13. @Someone here You're welcome buddy. Hope you find the joys you're looking for.
  14. How do I know what? All I ever truly know is that I exist. Period. The rest of what I say I hold loosely, because it's merely thoughts, and thoughts are subject to error and change. In this case, it seems you're asking me how do I know that reality is not a dream? In other words, you're trying to figure out whether or not reality is a dream. The answer to that inquiry is not intellectual. Rather, it comes from awareness. In practice, what you need to do is to simply go meta on the inquiry itself, and then ask yourself: Who is the one that is trying to know? Who is the one that is seeking more intellectual answers? What is the purpose of this knowledge in specific? And of knowledge in general? What roles does knowledge serve in everyday life? And how does it affect my state of consciousness? What if I don't really need to know? What is this "need" to know? Where did it come from? Can I let go of it and enjoy this experience? Can I appreciate being here and now for the sake of being here and now, and simply by being here and now? Why do some humans seek knowledge while others don't seem to care about it at all? What can I learn from those who seem to know how to enjoy life to the fullest? And for God's sake, if all the seeking doesn't bring me the comfort and relief that I long for and expect, then what the hell am I doing?! Wouldn't it be infinitely better to cut straight to the chase and feel the comfort and relief instead of looping round and round in circles? After all, isn't a better experience the whole point of all these questions? What do I really want deep inside? A better experience? Or more useless, uncertain models?
  15. @Etherial Cat This might cost me one life, but I kinda liked my misogynist title better
  16. @Someone here Hey buddy, I know it might feel tough right now but it will get better. What you're describing sounds like derealization disorder, which is nothing to worry about but definitely something to be aware of. You are not dreaming, and everything you're experiencing is not false, either. You are the one who is experiencing the state that feels like a dream. And you are the one who is experiencing the thoughts and fear of things being false. Rest assured that none of your fears is real. And that everything else is.
  17. Why would the USA leave Iraq? Lots of easy oil and geopolitical interests to give up so easily.
  18. @Etherial Cat Yep, I confused between the two names at first. I quit Islam a few years ago and information started to get confused. It's fine, I'm not good in French anyways.
  19. Please share those documentaries/sources. The only issue I'm aware of is the one with his wife Aisha where she was accused of cheating before she was declared innocent by Allah through Quranic revelations.
  20. @Etherial Cat It's not as simple as it sounds... There are various things to consider here that might explain why that desire can turn into action: This desire for variety is rarely talked about during the initial phases of a relationship. The woman usually assumes that the man will be loyal only to her without actually addressing his true authentic desires. The woman does not even want to admit that possibility to herself, let alone encouraging her partner to confess about it. What if polyamory was his true authentic desire? Does that mean the end of a potentially good relationship? Even worse, what if it he wasn't aware of his desire but she awakened him to it? Doesn't that sub-communicate a submission of some kind on her part? The man assumes that he will not need another woman next to the one he's committing to. He doesn't know himself fully yet. The average male is not conscious enough to know himself fully. Therefore, the desire for variety will manifest later after fulfilling the more basic desire for sex. Thanks to feminism, the norm nowadays is to have only one partner. This makes the discussion suggested above more awkward and less likely to happen. Even if that discussion takes place, the man won't likely be able to tell the truth (assuming he knows himself fully), because that'll hurt his chances with the current woman, and therefore take him from monogamy down to "no gamy" There are probably more points to consider, but that should be a good start for a discussion.
  21. If you truly believe that most men don't cheat and that you choose wisely, that means you should never experience jealousy. Is that your experience? Be honest, because if not, it probably means that deep down you know what we're talking about, whist using a bunch of rationalizations to ignore it.