If I wanted to plug 5-MeO-DMT would I use the freebase or the HCL?
I would much rather try 5-MeO-MALT but I cannot find it anywhere, at least not through a vendor I would trust. So I'll have to try the much harsher seeming 5-MeO-DMT. 
Does plugging make the come up easier? How long would you be waiting for the come-up if you plugged it?
 

🍄 Actualized.org on Psychedelics 🍄
• Blog post on How To Research Psychedelics.
• PsychonauntWiki is a good resource for research.
• VIDEO:  How To Plug Psychedelics - Nov 2018 - (Summary is here)
 
            Must Watch Episodes
Ep 268. How To Use Psychedelics For Personal Development. (Summary)
Ep 434. How Psychedelics Work - Making Sense Of Psychedelics.
Ep 483. The Top Dangers Of Using Psychedelics. (Summary)
 
            Substance Reports
Ep 267.  Magic Mushrooms:  The Amazing Power Of Psychedelics - Leo Does Magic Psilocybin Mushrooms!
Ep 275.  5-MeO-DMT:  5-MeO-DMT - The Magic Pill To Enlightenment & God.  (Summary)
Ep 298.  AL-LAD:  Trip Report - A Powerful Tool For Consciousness Work.  (Summary)
Ep 312.  2C-B:  Experiencing Physical Death.
Ep 492.  5-MeO-MALT:  Introducing The Other God Molecule.  (Summary)
Ep 507.  Ketamine:  Lessons From Ketamine - Is Ketamine Useful For Spirituality?
Blog Video. DPT:  The Other God Molecule.  (Summary)
Blog Video. Salvia:  What it’s Like to Smoke Salvia Divinorum.
            (Leo says Salvia is very dangerous and does not recommend doing it)
 
            Blog Posts: Safety and Psychedelics  ⛑️
• The Top Dangers Of Using Psychedelics - Oct 2017
• The Antidote For Pre-Trip Anxiety - Aug 2017
• 5-MeO-Always On An Empty Stomach - May 2017
• No Trip Sitters - May 2017
• Why You Should Never Do Salvia (6 mins) - Aug 2017
 
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            Enlightenment & Psychedelics Episodes 🤯
      • Almost every episode in the Enlightenment section of Leo’s Blog Videos.
Ep 283. Interview With Martin Ball - Using 5-MeO-DMT To Become Enlightened
Ep 347. Enlightenment Experience Explanation & Key Lessons.  (Summary) (a response to ep 346)
Ep 437. Outrageous Experiments In Consciousness - 30 Awakenings In 30 Days.  (Summary)
Ep 495. Leo's Worst Bad Trips - Psychedelics Gone Wrong
Viewer Compilation 🥳: Incredible, Powerful Concepts on Life & 5-MeO-DMT
Blog Post and Video on Mapping Consciousness With High Dose LSD
 
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Ep 346. Enlightenment Experience Happening In Real Time - LIVE! 🛋️
Ep 431. Total Awakening Live In Real Time - Part 1. 📦
Ep 432. Total Awakening Live In Real Time - Part 2. 🛋️
 
            Misc Episodes
Ep 329. Correcting The Stigma Of Psychedelics - Part 1.
Ep 331. Correcting The Stigma Of Psychedelics - Part 2.
 
More Blog Posts on Psychedelics
            Trip Report 🧳
Jun 2017:    Psychedelic Visions
Jul 2017:    More Serious Than You Ever Imagined (note) 🤯
Sep 2018:  Salvia Trip Report
Jun 2019:   Dissecting The Psychedelic Experience 👽
Jun 2019:   Who Are The Machine Elves? 👽
 
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Feb 2017:    Alexander Shulgin Documentary - Psychedelics Chemist (note)
Oct 2018:    Psychedelic Receptors 📄 🧷
Mar 2018:   Breaking Convention YT Channel 🤯
Mar 2018:   The Origins Of Mind—Thomas Ray 🤯
Aug 2019:   Psilocybin & Personality Change (note) ⁉️
Aug 2019:   Microdosing Research ⁉️
Jul 2020:     Legal MDMA Therapy Almost Here! (note)
Jan 2021:    Hyperbolic Geometry of DMT Experiences 🤯
Jul 2021:     Ketamine Klinic (note)
 
            Miscellaneous
Jan 2017:    Drunk On Mushrooms
Feb 2017:   The Despicable War On Drugs
Mar 2018:   Dark Room Retreats & 5-MeO-DMT
Mar 2018:   A Society Built On Psychedelics—Bwiti Tribe
Sep 2018:   Your Brain On LSD
May 2019:  Denver Decriminalizes Mushrooms
Apr 2020:   Timothy Leary (note)

So after making some much needed foundational regular self improvement adjustments to my egoic life, im approaching the realm of psychedelics again and i feel much better and much more comfortable with the level of wisdom that I am bringing this time. I feel more mature, more stable, better. 
I understand why im taking the compounds (at least to a degree, but am still learning more comprehensively), i understand the safety components and certain other peripheral things to take care in when using psychedelics...
Soon i'll be doing MDMA+DMT likely in one session and do 3 or 4 trips of DMT while on MDMA. Ive researched that its safe and also have previous experience doing this method...the MDMA really helps with casual DMT terror. Im also approaching it much more softly in that, if i dont feel that my energy is aligned before i hit the DMT pipe, i will relax and just do some MDMA therapeutic mindfulness practises...(however i know how effective molly is at making you ready so i have faith).
 
Ultimately I am scared shitless of psychedelics because of how stupid my approach was in the past (bad pain, not good...growing pains), i want to allow some kind, gentle experience to reorient my reflexes against psychedelics and to allow myself to re-recognise their beautiful nature. In my pursuit of this more philosophical return to psychedelics, my attention has drifted to drugs of the 5-MeO class but that have reputations of being softer, gentler, and more feminine...MALT and MiPT.
 
I have a question for people with experience with these compounds as well as regular 5meo...id love to hear your experience, and in particular how gentle they are possibly from most gentle to least gentle...seeing as regular 5meo seems to be very very heavy and sledgehammer-like. Ive also heard rumor's that MiPT has effects that closely resemble those of MDMA? This is of particular interest to me if this is the case... so could people maybe share their wisdom regarding the effects of these analogues and how gentle each of them are in comparison to 5-MeO-DMT? 
 
Peace and love <3
 
 
 
@Leo Gura

It is called PEA, Phenylethylamine, which forms chemically the backbone of all other phenylethylamines like 2-Cb, MDMA and others. It is sold as a supplement for energy and is easily accessible. 
So what  is my experience with this substance like? 
First of all, PEA is molecule that is naturally found in our bodies and brains. It is degraded by MAOIs naturally in the body
it is a stimulant with massive  head rush,  some compare it to that of meth or cocaine ( I didn't try any of those ). The substance can produce very powerful euphoria and energy. It produces an increased sense of well-being and Love. Sometimes, I lost my control and started hugging my family telling them how much I loved them and how much I care for them, and I felt so loving and pure.  It produced some serious spiritual insights and experiences at higher doses. I penetrated into the nothingness easily enough, I let go of everything, of shapes of colors, of concepts, etc... I think I will be able to penetrate into love too.  No visuals  The effects are short lived sadly, the peak is about 15 min to 1h  and then there is a heavy crash unless you consume some coffee. You can redose with no tolerance I didn't feel any addiction for the substance despite taking it for a couple of months now but there are some reports of addiction online I tried it with syrian rue and I felt that the substance became different, as in more psychedelic but still I need to try this combination more The substance is naturally destroyed by MAOis so You need dosages above 1g of the substance for a serious effect. Higher doses, like 4g or more, cause psychedelic efffects with no visuals. It mostly was about nothingness and unity It tastes bad, Like acidic an chemical taken orally only it is relatively cheap, 20$ for 250g  A non-affiliate link to the substance on amazon https://www.amazon.com/Phenylethylamine-HCL-Pea-Powder-Grams/dp/B08GK1JVV1/ref=sr_1_5?crid=3QSNGWDYCDH4I&keywords=pea+phenylethylamine&qid=1661375262&sprefix=PEA+phe%2Caps%2C255&sr=8-5

This is one of my deepest trips I have experienced so far, and it is actually one of my earlier trips.
Substance: 200ug LSD and 100mg MDMA
This is actually not that high of a dose for me, I usually take much larger doses, but during this trip I was able to let go very deeply which potentiated the trip massively.
Report:
As this was years ago, I do not remember the comeup, so I will skip to the peak. The peak is starting to set in, I feel this extremely deep need to let go. I am listening to music. I lie down on a couch and I am about close my eyes, but before I do my awareness suddenly goes out of my POV and I am able to see the surroundings of my environment as if from above. I see beyond walls, and it is as if my POV and perspective is at all places at the same time. I begin to dissolve rapidly. There is a sense that I have done this infinitely many times before. I see people walking outside from a very expanded level consciousness, but not through my eyes. I let go even more, and I think at this point there is no more distinction between having my eyes open or closed, it became a meaningless concept, there was just experience. I begin to experientially dissolve all qualities I am familiar with in my experience: sense of I, being in a location, and much more. Experiential qualities like the temperature, external environment, memory, music, time, and everything you consider to be a part of your human experience are absolutely deconstructed away from my experience. What I mean is that these things ceased to exist in my experience, as I was realizing that it had been me all along who had been constructing these things. They were not outside elements, but all created by my mind. It is as if a huge burden is being lifted off from me, all my limitations are falling away. At this point my consciousness zooms out and encompasses a galaxy. I am filled with indescribable deep physical euphoria, ecstacy, bliss, and love. It felt like an orgasm, except it was thousands of times stronger and everywhere. I was feeling this infinitely deep euphoria and love on the scale of a galaxy, not in a body, because I no longer had a body, I had deconstructed it. I was feeling it everywhere where I was - which currently was a galaxy, or something of that scale. My consciousness was filled with nothing but bliss, and was incredibly vast, I cannot even begin to describe this. It should be noted that at this point I had no separate senses left, the only thing in my existence was this spacious bliss, alongside a visual representation of the form that I had become, but rather than seeing the form, I had become all of it.
I keep letting go, and as I do, my awareness starts to encompass a whole universe. I was being it, I became it. The bliss becomes even more intense, I cannot in any way relate to this level of love and bliss in my current state. After this, I let go even more and now I see an infinite number of these universes, and become something akin to a multiverse. At this point I feel like full on God. No longer there is any subject and object, only experience itself. There was total Oneness in so many different dimensions. The intelligence, beauty, bliss, and love are indescribable. All of this transition happened very fast. I then let go even more until my form and experience was nothing but something like an infinite number of godheads. Alex Grey's artwork The Net of Being shows a very crude version of a state like this. What I experienced was infinitely more grand. I was not seeing an internal hallucination with my eyes closed of these godheads, at this point I literally did not have eyes in my experience, and instead of seeing anything I was becoming the space of these places itself. The godheads, that I now was, were indescribably intelligent, and each godhead contained within an infinite number of dimensions and universes inside it. They were perfectly one, yet infinite at the same time, and were in total communication with each other. There was nothing left of my human experience, I was full on God. It should be noted that my usual senses did not exist, nor did memory, time, or language. There was just utter peace, bliss, love, intelligence, beauty, and consciousness. There was infinite self knowing. I was in control of everything, yet I did not have to control anything. This was nirvana. I became completely omniscient, omnipotent, and omnipresent. Everything was an infinite fractal, containing everything else in any point of the experience. This state was completely self-sustained and self-generated, the source being me, which was infinite consciousness. There was a infinite beauty, which was reflective in quality, and conveyed the feeling of total awakening. The love was infinitely deep, there was nothing but love. I was absolutely conscious of everything in existence. I stretched infinitely far in all possible dimensions, not only spatial, but in all experiential dimensions that were possible. The creative potential was so vast I could have created trillions fully fledged out dimensions and it wouldn't even come close to the full capacity of this state, but I felt no desire to do anything. I could do anything, and I mean anything at all. Nothing was impossible. The bliss and love at this point are infinite in magnitude, and were I be still in a physical body, the body would literally die from the amount of love and bliss I was experiencing. This state was the source of all creation and my true nature. This unmanifest realm was where I would go when I died. This was what I was before I was born. All of this felt very deeply healing, as if every state I ever experienced as a human was utterly unsatisfactory compared to this, nothing ever came even close to this. I then proceeded to rest in this state for an infinitely long time. For comparison, all of my life up until this point was experientially not even a fraction as long as I was here. A million years would not even come close to how long I was in this blissful state. After I felt like I had become completely and utterly satisfied, I decided I wanted to become a human again. This only happened once I was completely satisfied after spending an infinitely long time in this state. I began to construct a human experience again. I started with making the physical universe, then I started localizing myself into it. I started reconstructing the music, clock time, the physical body, personal memory and other things like this. I consciously went through the process of creating my memories, my life situation, my environment, and could have chosen any form I wanted for myself, but I specifically wanted to be me. I completely desired to be me, and this was the sole reason I constructed myself as I was. I begin to come back, and at this point I once again have a physical human form, but I am still feeling the love and euphoria, though now it is localized to be felt all over my body. I continue to lower my level of consciousness so that I can experience what it is like to be a human, because as long as I am a body it cannot keep this level of consciousness or it would physically disintegrate, so I had to use my intelligence to put limitations on myself. The rest of the trip was then spent enjoying the music, and being in awe of the fact that I was God. This trip permamently changed all of my understanding regarding reality, life, myself, and so much more. It should also be noted that when I say that something was infinite in scale here, it truly was at that scale, and I am not exaggerating one bit regarding the level of love, bliss, and consciousness that I experienced. 

With cock blocks like this you have to get good at acting fast. I found merging sets to be a very power way of disarming them, it's helpful to build report with as many people in the bar/club as possible so you can bring someone else in. As soon as he startrd talking to you, hey man great to meet you, oh btw I know someone who would love you and merg him with another set then go grab the other girl and isoalte her. 
 
Used this tatctic many times, one time I was with a russian girl for ages and another Russian guy came intl the set and tried to steal her. I quickly grabbed the nearest girl introduced him to her pulled the other girl away and took her home. 

He definitely was trying to get the upper hand on you. 
At times if I felt like the girl wasn’t invested in the guy, I would just literally ask the girl for her hands and physically walk somewhere else with her. No need to debate or fight, just move.  He’s then kind of stuck because if he comes running after you, he looks like a total clown.
Sometimes you gotta dig in and mix it up a bit. I don’t recommend getting overly aggressive or butthurt in the beginning. That’s a last resort only if a guy seriously crosses a line. They you may have to get a bit assertive and “in his face”.
Most of the time though, your best bet is to keep it playful and stay in your frame in the early stages.
“Hey nice earrings”
“Oh thanks bro, they match my outfit”.
or
”Oh thanks bro, I made them myself”.
Something like this.
Bonus points if you can throw in a light-hearted tease at the girl you’re talking to at the same time.
If you do this right, he may not escalate beyond that initial comment. He will get a sense that you’re cool and not to push it.
If he does, then you may have to ramp it up.
These situations are always different, so it’s not about memorizing a bunch of AMOG tactics. It’s more about developing a social intuition for what’s appropriate.

According to Andrew D. Huberman: 

That feeling (of being about to ejaculate) comes from a buildup of sexual energy in a specific area of the body. It builds up around the cock, underbelly, balls - it can't go anywhere from there, and then ejaculation is inevitable.
If you see what I mean here - then you may be able to imagine letting that sexual energy dissipate through other areas of your body.
You can actually let it flow up your spine, to your back, through your neck, over your head, over the front of your body and all the way to your toes.
If you do that, you're suddenly now much less close to orgasm and you can keep going.
This is what I practice and it's quite simple.
It requires:
Deep breath Relaxation of tension in your body (but like, really relax) A state of not having ejaculated for 3 weeks makes it actually much easier to control, because then the habit is broken.
But it's not needed.
Try it!
Whenever you get close,
Slow down your movements Breathe into the belly Relax tension in your whole body Let the built-up sexual energy dissipate and spread throughout the body Very simple and easy.
I've noticed that this is harder for me to do if I'm trying to 'prove' anything to my ego by having sex with that person (though not impossible), and easier if the person is a great sexual match for me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qu-wFuDqZws
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nZ1q07WHuOs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7ghrUIiyzM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=REiKHCZpU6Y
 

They give major old school RSD vibes
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lS0kEBmPXvY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6TGBKaR76c
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlJLLjE9_To
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFO5Da82QOM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vKYyWNloS0M
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tqy-w7lFvsE

If you want books that can teach you certain perspectives that will change the way you see yourself and help you I present to you some books that can give you the insight you need. Spirituality will take you further than these books but these books are foundational.
Atomic Attraction: This book teaches you the paradoxical relationship between security and attraction. Its a mindfuck as a man, but the author has time tested principles. Also me and my friend have tested some of them...and well let's just say they work. They work because the psychology of this is actually what drives fads, celebrity culture, and the stock market. Attraction is illusion, but an illusion that shapes majority of human behavior. So if you want to understand the Science of Attraction give this book a read.
The next book which is a Diamond in the Rough is Nice Guys and Players written by Rom Wills. This book teaches important fundamentals for the Modern Man to understand to put himself in the right perspective and path to be the best version of himself in the Dating Market.
The next follow up book, is called Sexual Chemistry written by Rom Wills. The concepts in these two books needs to be studied!!! Rom is all about exuding Masculine Energy and his books will teach you how to do that. He has a Youtube Channel as well so you can check him out here.
He's old school but his advice is valuable if you want to crack the code. I haven't met a Guru who knows the game better and I have listened to you don't want to know how many lol!!!
Note: Rom Wills is NOT a proponent of Cold Approach. I've noticed majority of Cold Approach people tend to come from the White Dating Gurus. Nothing wrong with that. But most Black Dating Gurus are going to tell you to look for choosing signals. And Pimps....lol they ONLY look for choosing signals. So notice that....even a PIMP wouldn't cold approach. 
This is not to demonize it, I believe cold approach can be a good way to get out of your shell, but so is doing stand-up lol. Also I'm not advocating or encouraging being a PIMP, but nobody understands female psychology more than a PIMP....nobody. So I bring them up because of that. Ironically if you read about PIMPS guess who they learned about women from? WOMEN lol. 
Anyway these 3 books can give you the foundation. There is a book that is REALLY out there. It works but you need some cajones if you are going to do it, and most aren't willing to do it. Its called Mode ONE. Mode ONE is effective....its so effective...if will flip your entire view of the dating world. It is literally the secret of not having to take a woman out on a date, and have sex. But...you need EXTREME CONFIDENCE to pull it off. 
The book is called Mode One written by Alan Roger Curry. I've seen it in action so I know it works. It is also based on HONESTY! RAW HONESTY!
Like I said in an earlier post....you guys have no idea how attractive honesty is to women....when done right. I'm not saying say everything in your mind, but I am saying, be bold enough to say something to her that would make the average man sweat and not back down because its how you REALLY FEEL. Masculinity is DIRECT! Femininity is INDIRECT. So the more DIRECT you are in communicating your desire to a woman the faster you will get results. 
Anyway, for me I am not interested in this stuff anymore because at the end of the day it is all ego games, I'm looking for something more profound in a relationship. But this stuff will really help you out if you still have that itch.
And as always... NOTHING BEATS DIRECT EXPERIENCE. SO GO OUT THERE AND SOCIALIZE!!!
 

@Optimized Life Nice that you had that experience. Now you know that it’s all about your energy, and how you are feeling inside, that determines wether women are attracted to you or not. So that’s really nice.
Yes, you can have that ‘magnetic field’ or ‘aura’ at all times. It is not easy work and indeed not one thing you do.
I regularly do the following just because I like to play around with energy and feeling, and seeing how it reflects back in the world. You may find this useful to experiment with.
First, I walk around with a closed heart. I pull up my energy into my head (which automatically happens when you are nervous and anxious), and then I make eye contact with everyone that passes. I say ‘Hi’ from that place as well. And what I notice is that they look away, they shrink, they are shocked by my presence.
Then, second, I get into my body, I relax, I open my heart, I ground myself, I embody the feeling centers in the back of the body to create containment and security, and after I connected to the back of my body (my containment), I open the front of my body (feeling), primarily at the heart. This allows me to be touched by other people emotionally, I let them in and I connect to them from a heart-centered space. I consciously bring up joy and love in the heart as well and let them feel that. Now almost everyone connects to my eyes. They start smiling, lighting up and even approaching me. Even people across the street start looking. Because I’m radiating love super powerfully in the environment and people get pulled into that.
Then third, I drop into the lower body and stomach. I feel 20% love in the heart, but I’m mostly bringing up energy in the pelvis and the inside of the upper legs (thighs) and the stomach. And now I’m walking from the connection to the lower body. I bring up a lot of intensity there and it charges me up. It gives me a super powerful penetrative presence. It is not sexual per se. It is more turn on / creating / penetrative energy. But it can be expressed sexually. And now when I come across women and men, they can’t almost not look. They just feel that energy. And I express it unapologetically through my gaze. I project that intensity into them. But I stay in my own body, connected to my grounding. And I am slightly doing it from heart-centeredness as well. It is balanced, grounded but very penetrative.
I’d say, the most important thing here is that you become fully free and one with your external environment. Instead of operating from self-contracted consciousness, your consciousness should be expanded into more non-dual consciousness. Meaning that you literally feel one with everyone. There is no fear, shame and limiting sensations that contract you and hinder your full expression.
You need to get to a point where you can exchange energy and feeling with other people without a sense of separation preventing you to be fully expansive. Your body needs to become super light, yet very grounded.
You need to become super present in your own body for this. The mind needs to be stilled. You can best experiment with Kriya yoga, or other types of yoga that work with your energy-body. I also recommend concentration meditation, as well as do nothing meditation, as well as osho dynamic meditation. Daily. Eventually, your mind and body will become anchored into the now. Your increased presence will become the gateway to increased feeling and feeling-connection to other people.
https://open.spotify.com/track/7A5hC3tPAwJM6S0ztlCzLw?si=5e1703dc28984f3a
Do some walks in your city with music like this. Surrender into the body and become one with the music. Let it really touch you. Look at everything around you, the people, the scenery and let the music guide you to feel more of the essence of it all. 
I also recommend a simple practice where you can experiment with some of these principles. Daily, put aside 2 hours where you will go outside into a semi busy street to say ‘Hi!’ to everyone that passes. Put 70% of focus on your own body, and let your consciousness flow from those internal centers. Express from them. Express from the heart, the stomach, the pelvis. You will get different reactions depending from where you express. If you have a lot of apathy, anxiety, nervousness, fear, shame, and all of that, then you will probably express from the head. And people will pull away. They will reject you. If you are pushing on people from lust, anger and pride, then the world will push back on you.
For example, back when I had this super strong lust to get to freedom, I went outside to give people high-fives. I was pushing on people from lust/anger. I HAD to become fucking free, And I fucking HAD to give everyone high-fives. And then one guy who had a lot of anger himself wanted to fight me because he thought I was provoking him. It was our anger that connected.
Now in this exercise, you can learn to ground all of that rejection and become non-attached to how people perceive you. And there is a lot of liberation in that. You simply stop caring and become one. And then when you shift to non-attachment when doing the ‘Hi!’ Exercise, you will feel that shift in your body. Your feeling centers turn on and you start to express from there. And then people start to say hi back. They smile, light up and they want to talk to you. If you can do this exercise daily for a month, you’ll grow leaps and bounds. You’ll become non-attached not only when saying hi, but in every other way that involves expressing your emotions in front of other people and to other people.
You become grounded in your self-love and self-validation. This enables you to transmit feeling out of authentic inspiration. You don’t look for permission and validation to be who you are.  And the more you become grounded in this non attachment, the more people will become pulled into you. It will change everything.
It really heals your energy body because you don’t need the permission of the outside world for your consciousness to express fully. Your become fully expansive with your energy. Your aura/magnetic field/bubble includes the whole universe. There is no bubble anymore. You just surrender those boundaries you had. You flow without boundaries and man, that’s where you will truly feel alive and connected with people.
And women will show up naturally when you have this freedom. You don’t need to push and force anything anymore.
You can even practice this ‘Hi’ exercise with women, but instead of saying ‘Hi’, you just approach them, ask them directions and you do it from feeling. You ask it from connection through the heart, pelvis, grounding, stomach and you will notice that their response will reflect your level of embodiment.
When I ask a woman for directions when I feel embodied within my own grounding and turn-on, as well as when I have a completely open heart. They will often lean into me and get curious right from the start, and give these sexual gazes.
And then finally you can do direct approaching with the hottest women and practice becoming non-attached. You just do it so many times, and you make it all about how you feel in front of her, releasing any attachments. Just becoming more and more grounded, more and more feeling. And naturally as you do that enough, you have absolute freedom with them and they show up naturally in your life.
Through getting out from self-contracted consciousness and expanding into non-dual consciousness, your sense of peace, joy, openness, confidence and all of that comes from within. Nothing externally will then influence that. You generate all of it from your own body. You can get to the point with this work that when you get rejected, you feel more confident, more alive, more joy, more love. You simply ground it. Rejection is just the self-contracted consciousness needing external permission to feel whole/one. And when it doesn’t get it, it will become more contracted. When you get beyond that, your relation to ‘rejection’ completely shifts.
Imagine if you could walk down the street and could just bring up bliss and ecstasy in your body just through your intention. Imagine if you would be able to walk being turned on and open naturally. Not needing anything to feel that way. Just being that naturally. You would enjoy rejection just as much as validation. You would sit inside the club, be present in your body, feel the music and even if you wouldn’t talk to anyone that night, you would still feel amazing. And when you can feel that way all by yourself, women will come up to you all the time.
Or if you would be sitting on a bench at the beach, and you just feel joy and love in your heart, as well as feeling this grounded peace. You look at the people that pass by, you nod, smile, maybe say hi, and your inviting presence will cause these reactions in those people where they will often just talk to you because your energy makes them curious. There is just no rejection when you are this peaceful and joyful by yourself. You just need to bring that same level of feeling and non-attachment to approaching, meeting and connecting with women. And that is a process. You surrender all those negative feelings and stories, and eventually you become free from all of it.
Now your ‘energetic field’ or ‘aura’ is just the consequence of your own effortless feeling and expression of that feeling. You don’t need any external thing to turn that feeling on within yourself. You simply are feeling and energy. 

I've done hundreds of breath techniques.  This one's by far the most powerful.  With just the first 5 breaths you can feel like you're "overdoing it".
Basically, inhale deep 5-10 times, making the last exhale & inhale extra powerful.  After the final inhale, with shoulders relaxed, contract the perineum & lower abdomen, make a tight fist in both hands, and point eyes up.
 
 
Disclaimers:
Make sure you're not standing, could literally blackout from just 5 moderately deep breaths using this technique. Do not try if you have any heart conditions.  This technique really pumps the blood. May be less effective if you have no breathwork / energy-work experience.  

Check out this podcast episode though. Dude has a dope strategy to get mad matches on tinder
Basically insanely good pics + photo feeler (to get public ratings on ur pics)
Then tinder gold + boosts and then make a system/funnel for mass messaging girls 
Dude gets hundreds of matches in a short time 
There's some details I missed though 

I’ve just felt this surge of energy to share this practice. Someone recently asked on here what self-confidence is. This practice is what helped me developing true self-esteem, removing all my shame and fears around being me in front of other people.
This is especially life changing for people who feel like they are an isolated bubble when they are moving in the outside world. For people who want to feel completely free talking to anyone at anytime, singing, dancing, flirting and especially people who want to feel confident in feeling their own emotions fully and the emotions of other people, and to create their own experiences and feelings. 
I see lots of people getting good insights about awakening. They understand oneness inside their mind. Yet, when they go outside, they are still operating as an individual contracted bubble that experiences separation from their external environment, hiding from other people and from him or herself.
Vulnerability walks and heart centered meditations are there to break down your energetic boundaries that separate you from the external environment. They are there to set you free emotionally, to expand your ability to create experiences and to start to move into the direction you wish to move into.
It all starts with answering the question ‘How do I really feel when I step outside my house’?
How much does the freedom we have at home contract, how much smaller do you become?
To create contrast, first think about this. If you stand in front of the mirror, how free do you feel? Sometimes we even feel ashamed of being ourself in front of ourself. When you stand there in front of the mirror, go ahead and be crazy. Flirt with yourself, smile at yourself, tease yourself. You know these improv acting classes? Do that with yourself in front of the mirror. How much range do you have? How many characters can you play? Can you even act like you are the opposite sex? A pirate? A baby? 
And now taking this to what this is really about. When you step outside, how much does this freedom go away? How much smaller do we become?
Doing vulnerability walks is about going outside, walking around the city, and taking things in through your body, feeling the tension of people, objects, sounds, smells, feelings, energy and learning to become really vulnerable to all of it, taking it in through your body, learning to channel it down into the earth and becoming non-reactive to the vulnerability that comes up when stepping into tension. It's done completely out of your mind. When you're thinking in tension, you are avoiding vulnerability. 
Tension is everywhere. Walk up to a street that has cars passing by at a high speed. How do you feel thinking about running across the street while you know you can be hit at any time? That’s external reality pushing you into rigidity, into your bubble, in order to keep you safe.
This is not negative, but this dynamic exists with so many other energies from the environment that we shut ourself off to in order to feel safe. We have so much conditioned shame and fear inside our body that separates us from everything around us. Especially people. We try to hide ourself from other people constantly.
Can you walk down the street, completely open and expanded, taking everyone that comes your way right into your body, letting them touch your heart, your stomach, your sexual organs even if it is someone you find sexually attractive? How much of the energy is being blocked by your contractions you have within your body? Look all those people in the eye, for as long as you can. Stare, smile, wink, say hello, become as expansive as you can and create a conduit with these people, merge with them and feel them through this conduit. Feel all the vulnerability within this space, and now GROUND your own reactivity from your body into the earth. This works best without shoes. But of course with shoes as well. But to learn to get more intuitive understanding of grounding, no shoes works best. Or try both and notice contrast.
All your projected stories will come up when you look into the eyes of other people. You will feel through their eyes how you feel about yourself. Can you go up to groups of people and just be in your body, staring at them, not even saying anything? Just being yourself and letting the group into your body and then into the earth. Or do you tense up, contract and feel separation?
How would you feel stepping outside through the city completely naked? Society has conditioned us to feel shame, fear and guilt when we would do so. You can go to jail as well. Or some guy could stab you because he thinks you are offensive.
Try it. Take your shirt off in public and notice how your body contracts. Take your pants off until you are standing in the midst of 100 people, looking at you, while you are standing there completely stripped down into your underwear while getting judged.
Those people who have had awakenings. How non-dual do you feel?
Awakening is much more than just knowing and understanding through the mind. It’s embodying your infinite nature and becoming one with the energetic world, eliminating all of your aversions in your body to whatever is the moment. 
You start at low amounts of tension, low vulnerability, and work to higher amounts of vulnerability until you feel like you are so free in your body and expression, that you have no shame and fear to be who you want to be, to approach who you want to, to steer the energy in the environment in the way you want. Imagine you are so free in public transport, you play a song on your phone and you can get everyone singing along. 
If you work towards high amounts of tension and high vulnerability and can let go of reactivity in that tension, you will feel very powerful in creating the reality you want. 
First you do this practice consciously. You specifically go out every day for some hours to seek out vulnerability and to merge with it.
This practice will let you become really vulnerable. It doesn’t have to be painful. It will be painful the more you resist vulnerability. The more you become one with vulnerability and love it, the more you merge with the universe.
Ultimately, everyone around you is you. Why don’t you feel that way in your body?
You know you’re doing this right when you start to feel lighter in your body and you’re just flowing.
I first tried this practice on psychedelics. I noticed that I always ran home during psychedelic experiences and that I went to my room. In the middle of the trip I finally understood that my path of healing is outside my house, right in the vulnerability that the tension of being in other peoples presence put me in. 
I went outside at that moment, and stayed outside for the rest of the day while I was still tripping. What happened then was super crazy and completely shattered my self identity and all the things I identified with. 

You need to process your emotions in front of people and women. The first step is to see where you are avoiding, hiding and contracting. Then you need to stop the hiding and avoiding, and step right into the tension. Contraction will still happen in your body, and it is meant to happen. Because that is when you have the opportunities to release the contraction and heal. Such as staying with your friends to talk to the girls, and then applying the sedona method on the spot to release your aversions inside your body. If you do this consistently, slowly, you will become lighter. When you went outside, you stepped out of the tension, back into hiding and avoiding. Because your emotions were coming to the surface. And you couldn't handle that. If you want to become attractive to women, you need to learn to ground your own emotions. You can't keep looking to mommy to ground your emotions. Women don't want little boys who can not face their own emotions. They want solid grounded men who can handle their own emotions. If he can't handle his own emotions, she can never trust him. 
You need to learn how to transmute emotions in the moment when they get triggered, and develop a releasing practice where you progressively step into higher and higher amounts of tension that leads you to those transmutation/releasing opportunities. But you start low, and build up. But you need to be consistent daily. If going to the party and talking with those girls is too high tension for you, you need to start lower and there is no shame in that. For some people, they become ungrounded and anxious when they look people in the eye on the street for example. If that is you, start there. 
You can never become confident if you keep avoiding. You need to understand that confidence is just that your state of feeling is entirely the higher emotional states on the emotional scale, which are courage, acceptance, love and peace. And to get there, you need to process those emotions of shame and fear you have to certain experiences, which naturally gets you higher on the scale. 
I recommend this youtube channel 'The fearless man' and especially the playlists on releasing, 21 days to freedom challenge etc which talk about all the important practices and concepts in releasing emotions, becoming more courageous, attractive etc. 

Meditation, martial arts and going to the gym are good practices. Definitely keep doing them. But there is one key thing I'm missing. One thing that is vital in getting over this issue permanently. that thing is tension. 
You need to learn to rewire your nervous system in relationship to the tension you are resisting to step into. And in time, your thoughts, stories and feelings in relationship to that amount of tension is going to change as you step into it more. 
There is this one practice they do at 'the fearless man' which is called the tension journaling process. I'll tell you how it works. If you take this serious, it can change your life in a very short amount of time.
A tension journal is a physical journal that you have, preferably a bigger one at home, and a small pocket journal that you have with you at all times. How you use it is as follows. The first 2 weeks or so, you go outside into the city with the journal and you start to imagine yourself stepping into tension. Meaning you imagine yourself having experiences you are resisting to have. This can be anything. Imagine yourself asking the time to this person, that person, that very gorgeous woman, imagine approaching a group of women, asking the time to them. Imagine yourself screaming out loud as a crazy person. Look into peoples eyes with different emotional expression. Smile at people, wave, imagine approaching a woman and telling her she is sexy. Imagine going inside a coffee shop and ask if they sell bikes. Imagine stopping a group of 10 people to tell them a joke. Imagine 1000s of things over these 2 weeks and now categorize them.
You write down from 1-10, how much tension they are. 10 is high tension. 1 is low tension. The first month, you step into 1-3's daily. And you do this daily. If you do this for a month, your nervous system will learn to relax and you become more comfortable with that degree of tension. And this becomes permanent, but you have to do it daily for a longer period of time.
Eventually, you work up towards higher degrees of tension, such as being direct with women. But this is a natural progression and you shouldn't even think about it now. You just have to start. Get the journal and do the first 2 weeks of noting. 
You also journal all the experiences you are having, the things you are learning and every night before bed, you meditate on them so you take them into your subconscious. Whenever you stepped into tension, write it down, what you felt etc. That's what the smaller pocket journal is for. You do it right after the experience. 
The whole goal of this process is to release your fears and shames you have. You will meet women eventually because you're becoming someone who is good with tension and that's exactly what you need to meet women. 
Freedom lies on the other side. You just have to be willing to take the very next step and in time, the next step will show up. Don't wait for it. Take action. 
And you can't take action sporadically. You have to do it daily. Otherwise you'll always keep falling to your baseline. And again, it is important to start with low tension in order to start to build a subconscious habit of succes and to enjoy it. Enjoying it is key. 
Those looks those women are giving you won't bother you anymore, because you're learning to become less and less reactive to other people. You're becoming a grounded man through this process. 

I attract situations of being laughed at. It’s the most devastating feeling to look at. There’s deep shame interwoven in this experience. We have to look at this feeling in the face and experience the entirety of it as thoroughly as we can— deeply in our body, heart, and memories. We have to open up to being laughed at entirely, existentially. It’s extremely difficult. To get there, bring up the intensity of the experience by feeling it more and more until you are experiencing a helpless-state of it— until you are OF this experience (ONE with it). In this Union, recognize Truth (the Present Moment) and bring your body (which is probably fleeing in dissociation, vibration, a flooding of the face) into the awareness of the safety of the Now. When you integrate the energy with/into the Now it will integrate with/into infinity, nothingness. You’ll most likely not attract such situations anymore because you have let them go. At the very least, you will not feel any sort of way toward them if they do happen— because you released it/purified your encompassing of it. 

When you are taking the information/experience in through your senses, letting it go into the body and touch those sensitive parts, you can choose to identify with those sensations and be reactive, or channel them down into the earth in order to ground yourself. Grounding means that you literally energetically center yourself into your spine and legs in order for the energy to pass through you into earth instead of becoming contracted. As well as unwinding all energetic knots that manifest when being triggered. It is a conscious process first but then it because unconscious competence if done systematically and goal orientated. Things you read, hear or experience in any other way can never touch you if you let it pass through you instead of absorbing it. Identify more with your energetic body instead of your physical one. What you energetically model, you bring into your physical reality. If you energetically model relaxation and acceptance, you will bring that into your physical body as a result if done correctly. 

Never noticed that with bell peppers.
Keep in mind that your erection strength is a function of you getting everything you need in the nutrition, sleep, exercise and meaning/purpose department.
So if you were missing a lot of vitamin C, or something else that's in bell peppers, this makes sense.
Anyways, good that you discovered this for yourself.
Here's three more foodstuffs that improve erection strength and help replenish semen:
Steak Eggs Spermidin supplements (Yes, this is a thing - spermidin is a powerful antioxidant that was first discovered in semen, hence the name - but it can be isolated from vegetables and taken as a supplement )

@Truth-Seeker
I agree with Leo.
You need to be less judgmental. There’s no perfect people and wings are super important. Expecting to find guys that all share you values is not realistic. You might get some of that, but overall I’d lower your standards for wings.
If a guy is willing to approach and doesn’t creep out girls, that’s good enough to be a wing. You don’t have to be best friends with the guy. You can hold your values and not follow theirs.
Once you’ve got a few wings, maybe you become more picky.
Alternatively, don’t do pickup at all. And find another way to meet women.
But if you’re set on cold approach, you’re just making your life way harder than it needs to be.

@Federico del pueblo Critical Enlightenment Theory: Differentiating Absolute from Relative Truth
Relative truths = truths that depend on other truths to be true (including all scientific facts and conventional knowledge) Delusion = unconsciously mis-recognising relative truths for absolute truths that have been mis-recognised ("taken to be") absolute All scientific facts and conventional knowledge = relative truths (truths that depend on other truths to be true) = (ultimately speaking) delusion The absolute truth = the one ultimate truth that is always true AKA: that which remains true independent of all circumstances and relative truths (it's unchanging and untouchable) AKA: that which remains true independent of anything but itself AKA: is self-validating/directly-experienced AKA: needs no explanation (or other "middle-man") to understand/know itself AKA: that which is true under all circumstances AKA: nothing at all AKA: everything at once "cessation" is just another word for this nothing-everything that is the absolute truth Absolute truth cannot be understood with/known to the thinking mind because the thinking mind only ever understands/knows relative truths. Absolute truth cannot be understood/known by the self/ego, because the self/ego is an illusion comprised/consisting of the relative truths that the thinking mind (unconsciously) holds to be absolutely true when they are in actual fact relative. Basically, the self/ego is made out of all of the truths that are being unconsciously mis-recognised as ("taken to be") absolute, despite having really only been relative this whole time. This mis-recognition occurs because the truths constructing the self are relative truths that seem, at first appearances, to be true all of the time. In order to reveal (see for ourselves) that what we thought was ultimately true all of the time is secretly only relatively true (true because of other things we believe to be true), we can do this by bringing the thinking mind to a state of calm or stillness by meditating on relaxing thoughts. By calming down our anxious thoughts and/or coming to a place of rested stillness, we (as the ego) can see for ourselves first hand that everything we had previously known so conclusively to be true (including the very processes we had once mis-recognised to be ourselves) are in fact changing, and so cannot be ultimately true all of the time. From this place of real rest, we derive insight into: The impermanence [→ and therefore relativity → and therefore ultimate untruth] of the (now seen to be relative) truths we have/had been taking for lasting, real, absolute, independently true truths. The reality that what we had once thought to be ourselves does not need to be who we are. When the thinking mind is calm and still, we can actually disidentify/disentangle our sense of self from the many processes of the thinking mind, including the very ones we had utilised to bring ourselves to that very same calmed/stilled place from which the insight became possible mere minutes ago.  The ultimate unsatisfactoriness of our habit of seeking satisfaction in relative truths, and the reality that this can and will never bring about total effortless happiness forever. BUT that by repeatedly recognising supposedly absolute truths for the relative truths they really are, another way may indeed be possible to uncover (aka the discovery of the spiritual path).  Recognising the absolute truth = effortless total happiness forever The self/ego cannot recognise the absolute truth, ever Nahm and your difficulty communicating looks like it stems from the inherent impossibility for descriptions of the absolute truth to 'mesh'/'work' with descriptions of the material world (AKA relative truths AKA conventional facts). The difficulty arises because relative truths can't make sense from the perspective of absolute truth, and vice versa. Because it isn't possible for one perspective to make sense from the other, agreement between them is utterly impossible.
Nahm's point (I think) is that him and the tiger are ultimately both just appearing "in cessation" (as nothing) already. This would be him describing the absolute truth. By contrast, your point that you can't chill out together because one's a tasty human and one's a hungry tiger would be an example of a relative truth.
Nahm doesn't really care about debating scientific facts (as these are relative truths) because his real motivations are to bring you to recognise the absolute truth (and make you smile in the process).
So all he's really up to is using whatever relative truths you share and imply (e.g. ""xyz" is what would really happen") as a way to point you to recognise that none of those will ever be the absolute truth of the matter. 
The great thing about recognising absolute truth is that doing so instantly solves all of your problems forever. In contrast, we can know as many relative truths as we ever will, but, in being relative to a specific/particular set of circumstances, relative truths can never be enough to solve all problems under all circumstances. Because life continually presents us with new circumstances with new problems in them, it is imperative that we recognise that solutions that come from the mind (which are always relative to the circumstances in which the mind finds itself, has found itself in the past or could find itself in the future) do not and can not solve all problems conclusively, and so embark on the quest for the one true final solution: recognising the absolute truth.
On the other hand, because the absolute truth is absolutely true under all circumstances, it solves all problems to the recogniser instantly upon recognition. It's like how when you're happy you don't need to recognise that you're happy because you just are. That's the case for people who've recognised absolute truth. They pretty much get to live in a personal heaven in which problems no longer even appear to exist at all whilst the only thing that does appear to exist to them is the absolute truth (which feels similar to total effortless happiness forever)!
Basically, recognising absolute truth is the only game in town and relative truths are really just a means to that ends.
Nahm wants you to recognise the absolute truth (of which the realization that all things are already in cessation (are already nothing) could hopefully bring you closer to) because when someone recognises the absolute truth, they instantly realize that life is totally good, and they feel nothing but effortless total happiness forever.
I hope this helped, and I apologise to all readers if I got anything wrong or it's unhelpful.

Rookie mistake right there. You fucked up in that you didn't expect her to flake and didn't re-confirm with her via text.
ALWAYS expect girls to flake on you and plan accordingly. You always text her to confirm she's coming the day of, and even the hour of the date. If she doesn't confirm you don't leave your house.
Sounds like she's being dumb and playing games. She does not want to take any responsibility for sex.
Obviously she's into you. Proceed as if she will sleep with you.
Escalate more heavily next time to make sure she's not gonna friend-zone you. Start rubbing her body in sexual ways and turn her on. If she tries to friend-zone you, continue to escalate and force her to leave you or accept your sexuality. If she tells you she just wants to be friends, don't flinch or get angry, just keep escalating until you force to walk away. If she walks away, fine, you did the best you could and it's her fault for playing these games.
Girls will be very flakey and coy. Don't let that faze you. Just keep holding your frame and don't allow them to friendzone you. You know you want her so go for it. If she rejects you, let her reject you hard. Otherwise assume she wants it.

I think it's also important to take trauma into account. 
Perhaps some of your limiting beliefs are resultant of trauma you have experienced in your life. 
I'll give you an example: 
"I am not worthy"
You may have such a limiting belief due to a parent that was hard on you. 
And in that case, you would need to go back to that time, have the memory/experience present again, and ask the divine to release that for you. 
In this case you may have experienced the feeling of unworthiness which then developed into the limiting belief "I am not worthy".
That was just an example, but traumas can lead to limiting beliefs like this.
I had tons, worked with a body code/emotion code practitioner (revolutionary technique), and had a bunch of this stuff released for me. 
The thing is, like you said, a lot of this stuff may be unconscious so how could you consciously know which beliefs are there and which are not ? 
The body code/emotion code goes straight to the point, it's actually a divine process, but basically the practitioner would be able to know exactly what needs to be released for you. 
I suggest that otherwise you may waste a lot of time and not get to the meat of what really needs to be tackled for you. 
If you want to learn a little more, there's a book called "The Emotion Code" by Dr. Bradley Nelson. 
What that man developed completely changed my life. I had massive stage fright, tremors in my body, severe stomach issues for years, anxiety, social anxiety, intolerance to toxins, all healed (tremors about halfway there but the root cause was eliminated), in a matter of weeks. 
Totally flipped my life around, healing trauma is essential and I had loads of it.